How do you get a guy you've never met to notice you?

Question

There is a cute guy I see at the gym. How can I get him to notice me and possible strike up a conversation?

Answer 1

well first of all, look great. men are attracted to beautiful women(if you didn't know that already) but also approach him and ask him something close to his interest and even relate someway to the gym. don't overpower and don't be intimidating. good luck and i hope for the best

Answer 2

When is all about love.....well you can use an old useful lie like: "weren´t you member of X gym? I´m sure I saw you there" or something like that. Or : "you were last week at the X presentation" and surely he will say ", sorry", and then you can start a conversation.
You can also exercise next to him and ask for help or something similar.
But remember the golden rule" don´t be shy if you really like him and want to meet him. Remember other girls could also like him and if they are not shy the could win "your guy". So be clever!!! Try to "catch" him before other woman take advantage from you!!!

Answer 3

I think that if you ask him about something he does...and or might know about..say something that he does in the gym...if it is a sport...and or something about like what classes he's taking..and you are really genuine about it...not joking around...also, a great listener..is what I keep hearing from men(old boyfriends, of mine) have always said to me,,,that they love a girl who really listens to them...(or if you are a guy..same thing!)

Be a friend, help out...or ask him for some advice or help....
also, you can take the fearful side of you, "put it inside of you" and walk over to him,and say "Hi!"...."throw" your fears "out the window" and just go for it! I figure in my thoughts, "Heck! Ya only live one lifetime! Ya just gotta do this, for you!"

I did this, online...to my now hubby! I have NEVER asked ANY man this question..but, I asked him...."Would you marry me, if I asked you?!" Do you know, that he was soooo elated, that he told me he "spun around and around" on a stool, and danced on the kitchen floor! LOL!

This is a true story....we got married July 4th, 2006!
I met him on military.com...(which I really thought was a made up military site...by me....Boy! Was I ever WRONG!! LOL!)
I met him...because I was asking about the F-117 Stealth Bomber Jet! I happen to love the design, alot!

Maybe you can find something..that you might have in common with this fella, and or just dare yourself,,, and do this one thing for U!!!!!!


But, whatever you decide.....please, don't make this mistake...don't act "fake"...guys can see thru that! Guys hate that...most of the time...Guys appreciate who U R!!!!
Being who you are,and being a good listener,as well as a good friend....is "SOMETHING"!!!!!Okay?!

I wish you the very best of luck....I hope that you two meet,and get to be friends!

Answer 4

Tell him you've been noticing him. Buy him a water or something to strike up a conversation. At the very least you got him a lovely beverage.

Answer 5

Ask him how to use one of the machines. That's what I would do. I used to go to the gym & that line definitely worked the best. Or better yet, ask him to show you how to use the machine by doing a demonstration. Then you can watch him get all hot & sweaty. ;-)

After he shows you how to use the machine, introduce yourself & thank him for helping you. Then go from there. The rest of the conversation should flow naturally after you tell him your name & he tells you his (if he's interested that is). If he acts awkward though or walks away after he shows you, then I say move on to another gym hottie. I'm sure there are plenty of them.

Answer 6

When I was single, this worked for me more than once: I would stare at the guy until he looked at me, then I would casually look away. I kept playing that game with him until he would come over and talk to me. It piqued the guys interest. I met two great guys that way. It was fun, too! Good luck.

Answer 7

Bump into him "accidentally" I used to do this all the time at the bars....met alot of very hot and interesting guys that way. works every time.

Answer 8

go up to him and say "hey good-lookin, lookin good!" haha jk...DO NOT say that! haha just strike up a convo w/o coming off as stalkerish. i have the same problem. but i kinda started talking to him on myspace. i hope ive helped.

Answer 9

if you see him at the gym then try to pick up something that you cant lift make sure he see you show your but bend over

Answer 10

I'll say this again. Guys are simple. TAKE YOUR PANTS OFF! We'll notice.