Every time I see a girls that I think is attractive I become very quiet and shy away. I have girls that are friends but the girls I like I really don't talk to, even if they talk to me. I have been thinking of getting profecional help. This problem has not let me have a girlfriend. What should I do?
2007-02-10 18:39:09 · 7 answers · asked by Gus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like your a shy guy. The only way to get OVER your shyness with girls is to go out and talk to 20 girls a day. Approach a girl and talk to them. Doesnt matter what you say. The hotter the better. Could be anything. Ask her how her day is. Make a funny observation. Be like, "Hey I couldnt help but notice blah blah blah...." By the time your at the 14th girl, you wont be nervous any more....
Do that for 1 month. 20 approaches a day, 30 days..... I gaurentee you you'll get over your nervousness by the end of the month. Hot girls are human beings just like the rest of us, no different. :)
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2007-02-10 19:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Herbal 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have that problem as well buddy and I am 20 years old. Its perfectly normal to be nervous. If a girl wants to talk to you thats really good because they at least think you are interesting. What helps is to say something around the lines of "how are you?." Also if you are worried that they don't like you you should turn it around and put yourself in their shoes then you can say "well, I wouldn't talk to anyone I don't like or think is boring or uninteresting." Another thing that helps is to take it slow and not worry about getting a girlfriend.
2007-02-11 02:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by evan a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are a teenager, this is totally normal. You're supposed to get nervous and tongue-tied around girls you like.
As you get older, you develop more confidence with the girls you like, and will not find them so intimidating. Once you realize you have something good to offer, you will be okay.
2007-02-11 02:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by sylvia62002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make a girl ur best friend and ask her to render help.It will work
2007-02-11 02:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your friends that are girls for help. wen you talk to a girl just pretend she is just any other girl and be yourself.
2007-02-11 02:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Aquarius-Monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG,do you find these type of guys nowadays?
2007-02-11 02:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to open up and talk to them and not be embarrassed or scared. you can do it.
2007-02-11 02:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋