He needs to find out how he can get back with his ex who doesnt talk to him, they went out for five days and he knows that he made the mistake of falling in love too quickly and telling her that he loves her. but he feels that he can get her back some how but he doesnt know, he misses her a lot even though this was 4 months ago but he still misses her like crazzzzzzzzzzzzzzy
If he should continue to try to get her back, what should he do?
Or should he just find someone else?
2007-02-10 18:23:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first, he just needs to take it easy and relax. second, he needs to do anything to talk to that girl and tell him that he made a mistake. if he really wants her, he'd find a way to talk to her. but only talk to her face-to-face if he really wants to make an impression. but then again, 4 months is a pretty long time...and not to ruin anything but i think she might of moved on. but tell him don't give up a keep fighting for what you believe is right.
2007-02-10 18:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious thing is to find someone else. She had her chance, and didn't want it.
If he wants to get her back, play the jealousy card. Go out with someone else, and try to bump into her. Make sure he looks her in the eye when he sees her, then call her a couple of days later, and say that he misses her and broke up with the new girl after seeing her. He may even be able to get a friend to pose as the new girl. If she doesn't respond to that, she is just not interested.
2007-02-10 18:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to move on. She was probably turned off by the fact that he fell for her so quick and that scared her. There's no real way to come back from that, because she'll always be wary of that unless somehow she suddenly thinks OMG HE'S SO DREAMY.
He should just go find someone else and this time let things progress slowly!
2007-02-10 18:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jaremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not in basic terms sit down back and watch. in which case you at the instantaneous are not her pal. Make issues very sparkling with both one among them - do a celebration and make issues very sparkling on both aspect and that it impacts anybody round and being a pal you received't allow it ensue on your pal. Ask that guy to regulate herproperly as she advantages it. If not, ask (or make) your pal to get out of that relationship. because she will be able to finally end up being a slave. All through this, be very diplomatic and professional and not in any respect get emotional.
2016-11-27 00:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by morehart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why doesn't she talk to him? Did you have some kind of fight? or what?
I think, if you truly care about her...give her some time...to "think"...because sometimes people are just not ready for that huge change ...they need time...or perhaps, she isn't ready for a commitment...
also, if she does talk to you, go VERRRRY slowwwwlly...do not remention anything about the mistake that occurred...just see how she is doing and or feeling...be a friend..be a great listener...and most of all, DON'T, PUSH!!!
Women, and men, will run....trust me...I have been there,,and I have heard male friends of mine say the same thing to me...
just go slowly...and talk with/to her...do not push, or expect anything to change or happen...right now!
I wish many good things for the both of you.....
Good luck!
2007-02-10 18:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is funny if you purposely...or accidentally put "IMY" to start your question....a lot of questions like this that people ask for themselves, they'll say they're friend instead...but your's actually starts off with I...funny, very.
anyways. your..friend can't call this girl his ex if they went out for 5 days. and if it's been 4 months, it is definitely time to move on. i'm going to assume the "i love you" came somewhere between umm..day 5 and...........day 5. you, excuse me...your friend should give up, for sure. my BEST advise is to find a very attractive guy, give him a card that says, "i was just kidding about loving you! we just met! i was just making sure you weren't as crazy as you think i am!"....this card being from your friend, of course....but since you obviously want to help so much, you should write the card for him...just like i showed you and you should find the attractive guy that she'd be happy to be interupted by and give him the card....so your friend won't have to do all of this....the card should include your/your friend's phone number and your/your friend's picture, so when she realizes what a fool she's been, she can patch things up right away. the picture is because she's definitely already completely forgotten about your/your friend. i hope i was helpful.
2007-02-10 18:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Boy you're a realy nice guy u now.........
Did youre friend did something to the gurl? If youre friend didn't do anything well it means the girl is soo stupid. But when youre friend did something wrong give the girl some space to braeth.
someday the girlwill miss him. Or take her to a date or just drop it and apologise it's a good way u know. girls are so emotional so take it easy ok
I hope I helped you thanks a lot!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-10 18:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by lonley_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I see her face every where I go. On The streets,even at the picture show. Have You Seen Her? Tell Me Have You Seen Her? Call her or Move On.
2007-02-10 18:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex what? went out for five days only then nothing? thats not an ex... if he wants to try to contact her he should write to her or call. if no response...he can continue trying until he feels satisfied she's not interested. peace
2007-02-10 18:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one falls in love in 5 days. he should just talk to her about it.
2007-02-10 18:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋