Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

2007-02-09 02:43:41 · 5 answers · asked by lindsy l 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well this is kind of depressing and its really bugging me and I seen that some people get good answeres here so I decided to ask it see what peoples suggestions where -

I am 24 and well basically never even been kissed let alone been in a relationship with any one and I feel kind of stupid because other people my age have been in loads already so I end up feeling like a little kid for not knowing what they are on about. Not really sure how to phrase my question because i dont even know what to ask but well help !!! if you think you can

I know my question may seem depressing to some people and yeah it makes me depressed thinking about it so i dont blame you but please dont just make fun at this

2007-02-09 02:43:01 · 3 answers · asked by Benjamin G 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this great guy, we've been talking for a couple days now, I just feel like I want to be around him, but I dont want to rush it & neither does he, he said that something clicked when we met & when I smiled at him, he was drunk at all, he had one beer, on Wed we went to dinner, and I know its natural to burp, but what kind of sign is it when they burp in front of you and you just met, does he mean he's getting tired of you or he's just comfortable around you?

2007-02-09 02:42:46 · 4 answers · asked by Dani021 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 02:41:41 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got married and decided that I want to make my maiden name my second middle name... as in Jane Ann Doe Smith. No hyphenation. I went to the Secretary of State to have my license changed and they wouldn't allow me unless I hyphenated either my middle & maiden, or maiden & last.
Now I have to get my social security number changed and I'm wondering if I can still do what I want with my name since I couldn't do it with my license? Will there be issues with my social security if someone uses the right number, but doesn't enter the second middle name?

2007-02-09 02:41:12 · 14 answers · asked by tokengrl1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well...it's not always the time i see her...there are times when i hear her name or just think about her makes me cry...i don't know what got into me...that's just the way i feel bout' her...i'm scared to tell her that i feel this way bout' her...coz she may not speak to me no more...or just avoid me like i'm some kind of demon or something...can u help me bout' this...coz it's making me a satanist...i don't know why...but i'm losing faith to God...just everytime i see her, think of her or whatever...i can't shake the feeling that i'm gonna cry or something...i just feel that i'm being hurt...it would be really nice if you could help me with this

2007-02-09 02:41:00 · 13 answers · asked by •Code•Prinny• 2 in Singles & Dating

We have sex too long and hard and afterwards I really be wore out, so I was wondering im I the only girl who sleeps like a baby afterwards or is there someone else who has good sex all the time?

2007-02-09 02:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by Kenosha G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

O.k. The man is my best friend who I have more than just friend feelings for. I believe he feels the same way also. We have discussed giving each other gifts for Valentines Day but Im not really sure what would be the perfect gift. Any suggestions???

2007-02-09 02:40:03 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa C 1 in Singles & Dating

what is everybody got planned? my hubbies birthday today so i will take him out for a meal tonight, last Saturday i bought him a new mobile for his birthday so tonight we eat lol, babysitting tomorrow night resting Sunday then back to square one and start all over again lol xx

2007-02-09 02:39:27 · 25 answers · asked by MAD FEMALE 4 in Family

last nite i had sex and it was the best sex ive ever had so pastionate sooo sooo good i want to tell him it was gd how do i put it?? and i loved it i want to do it again lol ANSWERS PLEASE

2007-02-09 02:39:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

None of that obvious flirting. Just want some real examples of how people are betrayed by their own gestures and actions, and how I'll know if someone 'like' likes me.

2007-02-09 02:38:49 · 8 answers · asked by Aubrey T 2 in Singles & Dating

im a senior in high school and theres this girl in my 1st period a sophmore whom ive taken a liking to. shes REALLY quiet and shy and NEVER talks to anyone although she is very sweet. we had been talking for the past couple of weeks on and off. last tuesday i asked her what she was doing that friday and asked if she wanted to go out, she said ummm we'll see, we'll see. i then asked her that friday if she thought about what i asked her she said yeah, yeah i did. she said she asked her mom and her mom said umm No way. she said Im sorry. i then asked if shed let me take her home, she said ive got a ride. do u think what she said is legit, or do u think she turned me down cause shes shy or cause she doesnt like me?

2007-02-09 02:38:00 · 11 answers · asked by LDshayne 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother walked in on me (17) and my gf (16) making out in my bedroom. My mom thought I was trying to go for a home run, when I was only trying to stretch a single into a double!
My mom called my girlfriend's parents, who are religous, and now her parents have warned me to never see my gf again! They threaten to call the police if i come near their house, and her father recently bought a shotgun. If that wasnt enough they already had a rotwiler guard dog! I really love my girlfriend, but I dont know what to do!!

2007-02-09 02:37:58 · 16 answers · asked by neff8684 5 in Singles & Dating

My wife goes out maybe twice a month with her sister.
" everyother thursday they meet at olive garden and when she leaves she says that she will be home after dinner. she gets all dressed up and all pretty, i dont understand if its just dinner with her sister why the fuss, normaly they go eat then go shopping or something, thats what im told, she normaly gets home at a decent hours because i work early, this time she didnt get home until 330 am. she called me at like 930 and said they were gonna go to applebees for a few drinks then shell be home. didnt hear from her again until she got home. i was pissed and i made my feelings felt, she said they decided to go to a bar and play pool, we have a pool table at home. she tried to turn it all around on me about trust and spending time with sister. I think she is cheating. but i dont want to think that i trust her but i dont like her actions.

2007-02-09 02:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by justincase119 2 in Marriage & Divorce

During sex...is it a turnoff if a women will move the guy around...as in she may pull him to a different position?

2007-02-09 02:37:26 · 29 answers · asked by Pariglow03 2 in Singles & Dating

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughtd out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to thje time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I Am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit

2007-02-09 02:37:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-09 02:36:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always lived with my motherly grandparents. I was told my parents died some months after I was born. My grands are legally my parents and I even call them dad and mom, they've always been very good to me, great parents. But I got to know my mom was 14 when I was born and she committed suicide 1 month later, after taking drugs. My father was then 16 and disappeared. This was a shock to me. Though I'm an honor student, I even thought about leaving school and forgetting about my goal of becoming an engineer. My grandparents cried a lot when they finally told me the truth, said they'll always love my mom, she was a wonderful girl and unfortunately got lost. But, she was their child, how come they couldn't prevent a 14 yo from getting on drugs and taking her own life? If I ever have a kid, I won't let her take her life. They said she's alive in me and I ended up feeling kinda sorry for them, they were afraid I'd something stupid too. And of course, now I hate my biological father.

2007-02-09 02:36:06 · 24 answers · asked by Carlos 1 in Family

It all started last year when I was having serious problems at home with my husband. He also was having trouble at home and so we sort found comfort in each other's company. I decided to separate and live on my own. Then I tried to work things out with my husband again but there was no success. He sort of fixed things with his wife but continued the affair. I now realize I have fallen in love with him and know I need to let go....but I can't. And when I tried in the past, He always called me and tells me he needs me and loves me. He has kids and I would never ask him to leave home ( i am a mom myself) but I know that when I try again to stop seeing him I won't be able because he will not allow it. He is so sweet and gives me the strength to keep going. Sometimes I wish we could go back to been friends and for none of this to have happened. Now im madly in love, What can I do?

2007-02-09 02:35:51 · 32 answers · asked by RR77 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Husband and I have been married for 3 years. We have two children one that is a little over 2 and one that is 5 months old. Both pregnanies were awful and with this lastr one there were multiple surgeries needed. I am extremely tired, but my husband is complaining that the spark has left our relationship. I do agree, we are the best of friends and love each other completely, but I was under the impression that this would resolve itself once we get over this hump. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Is it wrong of me to wonder why he can't?

2007-02-09 02:35:41 · 6 answers · asked by wifemom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have found out this week that my 1st love is getting married after dating this girl for 7 months, and good friends you know friends that with benefits, is no longer in that busy he found someone and pushed me aside, even though I had feeling form him, and then there is my new guy who treated my like a queen, who just stopped talking to me and don't want to see me anymore. What I’m I going to do now?

2007-02-09 02:35:26 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister got married (arranged marriage , the family background is very good also the guy seemed loving and passionate) in india and came to US a month back. now after realising that the husband is cheating her, he is having affair with another woman and harrassing her in all the way and knowing that he married her for money or some other reasons she begged him that they can go back to india and start a new life. but he refused al that and the abuse continued . My sister went back to india now with the help of all of us. now we dont know what to do.. the husband is enjoying in america while my sister's life is screwed. How to payback this cheating rascal ? we have filed complaint here inUS and also in india . How can the guy be happily here continuing his sex life with another girl while my siter is facing all the trouble involving divorce and reliving everything when approching cops and lawyers?? is there anyway justice can be done for my little sister??

2007-02-09 02:34:51 · 8 answers · asked by brikka brakka 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This Question is for ADULTS in Long term Relationships (1 year or more) ONLY

How many times a week do you and your partner have "relations" on average?

What do you think is too little?
Why?

When is it ok for things to slow down?

Honest answers only please...


Reason I asked:

We went from the begining - every time we saw each other

to

Now maybe once a week. (even tho it has gotten considerably better over time)

I just started going to school at night 3x a week till 9 ish
work 9-5 mo -fri
and work sat 4 till 10

He wants to but never initiates it because he fears me rejecting him since im always so tired

I am the one who initiates it when ever we do.

I'm afraid no that we arent seeing eachother as much as b4 AND our sex life is slow that things will fall apart.

He has fully expressed being scared that I am not attracted to him any more... and I have told him I definetly am.

What can we do?
And do you think something is wrong?

2007-02-09 02:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by xxkittenluvxx143 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been seeing this bloke for about a month, he is amazing he makes me so happy he is like no one i have ever met. but he is very flighty and he has a very colourfull past and i am just wating on the day that he says that he is going to take off. he likes me a lot and i like him but i feel myself realy falling in love with him so do i step back and let go or hold on and possibly get really hurt.?

2007-02-09 02:34:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what to do you while going down. anything differant? do you use your hands with it? do you do anything that drives your guy crazy and do you do anything that gets you excited?

2007-02-09 02:33:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thank you for all your answers but we are now 200 guests for my wedding I'm on a budget of $8000 as I said before i now have to find reception sites that allowed me to bring my own food and i'm not talking about a licensed catering company i'm talking about a buffed that both families are going to prepare for our wedding i need suggestions and websites please helppppp i'm getting married in August!!!! I'm in northern virginia if anyone knows about any cc with reasonable prices please let me know

2007-02-09 02:33:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

why do we find it so easy to talk to people we dont know about our problems and our private life on the internet and yet find it hard to talk to he ones we love and who want to help us?
why do we hide in these kind of places?
xxx

2007-02-09 02:32:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he only see his only child once a week and I feel that he can do more. He is doing this because of his live in girlfriend and his mother.Should I just keep my daughter away from this mess.

2007-02-09 02:32:08 · 7 answers · asked by puertoricanbreed 1 in Family

I want to write something really romantic that will make her melt, and will show her exactly how much she means to me. Im usually good with this stuff, but for some reason I cant think of the good stuff. I would appreciate any suggestions.

2007-02-09 02:31:11 · 4 answers · asked by BudMan 2 in Singles & Dating

I heard that most of them don't really have sensitive ones, which really sucks, because I always find myself thinking about guy's nipples.

2007-02-09 02:30:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating