My mother walked in on me (17) and my gf (16) making out in my bedroom. My mom thought I was trying to go for a home run, when I was only trying to stretch a single into a double!
My mom called my girlfriend's parents, who are religous, and now her parents have warned me to never see my gf again! They threaten to call the police if i come near their house, and her father recently bought a shotgun. If that wasnt enough they already had a rotwiler guard dog! I really love my girlfriend, but I dont know what to do!!
2007-02-09 02:37:58 · 16 answers · asked by neff8684 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will need the following kit: a steak, a fake mustache, a business suit, an airhorn, love, a breifcase.
Wear the business suit and fake mustache. Carry the steak in your breifcase. When you get to their house, throw the steak at the dog. It will become distracted by the delicious food. Hurry up and knock on the door. If she answers, make out with her for as long as you can. If her parents answer, blow the air horn in their faces, and run up to her room and make out with her for as long as you can. When her dad brings the shotgun, throw the airhorn at him and jump out of the window. This may be one of the most romantic acts you can ever pull off.
IMPORTANT: Make sure she is home before you do this, otherwise you will have wasted a perfectly genius plot!
2007-02-09 05:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's 16 years old, there is nothing you can do but respect her parent's wishes. When she is older she will be able to make her own decisions but for now, her parents wishes rule. I would talk to your mother and let her know what your intentions really were and how her phone call was interpreted by your gfs parents. If you were my son, I would not want her parents to think so badly of you that they feel they have to call the police if you come near their house. Frankly, I'd like to hear what the police have to say to being called out because a boy who made out with their daughter came around their house. That's a rediculous over-reaction and would be a waste of their time. However, I would be more respectful of my mother's house. Remember that she is responsible for whatever happens there. You can still talk to your gf at school so just slow down and take it one step at a time.
2007-02-09 10:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my, I had a friend in a similar situation. if you're wise, you'll be patient. no yelling at the adults. and lay low. be really good for awhile and make it obvious you're sulking. but don't over do it. now if you were honest when you said you weren't aiming for a home run. then stick with it. make little comments about how judgemental they are being. your gf parents are going to be talking to yours. because both sets of parents are obviously conscerned. if you become rebellious you don't have a chance and you both will become emotionally unstable. and you'll both want to get that home run and parents are NOT stupid they will find out. that's what happened to my friend. and, well, his whole life fell apart. and, yes, the police got involved.. the whole bit.. but if you care about this girl you both have to be strong and tough this out. if you work through this situation in a mature manner. both sets of parents will see it. they aren't gonna tell you but they do have a doubt that what they thought was happening might not have been happening. it's a matter of HUMBLY proving them wrong. and patience is a virtue. Patience and maturity will get you EVERYWHERE with parents.
2007-02-09 10:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by JJK789 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did. When my boyfriend and I first got together our parents totally dispised eachother. So Of course it was hard to see eachother besides school. I found a way to get out of my house and meet up with him at his friends house, have fun while you are together. Eventually the parents will have to talk about the situation and realize that there is no way to keep you apart. You'll get in trouble but 3 1/2 years together is worth it. it will all work out don't worrry.
2007-02-09 10:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do as they request.Have you told them how you feel?There is always another day.You should never be in the bedroom,so remember that.Do you go to the same Church they do?Go and let them see that you are not out to cause their daughter any heart ache...Be careful you do have the rest of your life.Once you are 18 she will still be minor and the law will look down on that.....
2007-02-09 11:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to send her love letters until she reaches the age where her parents will allow her to make her own decisions. In the mean time you need to get straight "A's at school. This will show her parents that you are not just some punk kid.
2007-02-09 10:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by sparks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my now in-laws hated me at first. they found a note and took it out of context. the made out life hell for a year. we emailed hate mail back and forth they took our time to see each other and made it into a hour 2 nites aweek and only allowed to talk on the phone for a half hour a night...we went to differant schools! but ew stuck through it. finally her parents realized i was serious about her and wanted her to be happy. we are married now after being together 8
2007-02-09 10:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the talk with the parents. They were 16 and 17 before. Ask them to be honest with thierselves and be honest with you. When they were your age, did they not experiment with sex? Tell them that you will be gentle with thier daughter and you will only go as fast as she wants you to. If one thing led to another and you both decided it was time for sex, you would use protection and you wouldn't make her walk any different than she's walking now. Which means you won't break her back! LOL Blow out the bottoms! LOL Smack yo b*tch up! LOL
2007-02-09 10:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
can you say, deep ****? give your girl some space, and if you can, just talk, chances are someone may be bound to come around or if it does calm down, call her parents and apologize and ask to see her... though it looks bleak, you may need to find someone else.......my parents are jewish and trust me my mom would have done 10 times worse so i know...im 30 now and i'm with a woman so yes mom would shoot me...just calm down and take a deep breath and let some time pass.
2007-02-09 10:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow buddy sounds like u need to talk to ur mom and tell her that ur motives werent wat she thought and that she needs to stop and think before she buttsinto your life, then call and try to tlak to her paretns the best you can tell them that u werent goin for homerun! maybe itll help, if theyre really religious then they must believe n forgiveness, so take a cahnce to talk it out! u never know! tell them that u love their daughter with all ur heart and would do nothing to undermind her integrity! best wishes!
2007-02-09 10:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋