Ok well this is kind of depressing and its really bugging me and I seen that some people get good answeres here so I decided to ask it see what peoples suggestions where -
I am 24 and well basically never even been kissed let alone been in a relationship with any one and I feel kind of stupid because other people my age have been in loads already so I end up feeling like a little kid for not knowing what they are on about. Not really sure how to phrase my question because i dont even know what to ask but well help !!! if you think you can
I know my question may seem depressing to some people and yeah it makes me depressed thinking about it so i dont blame you but please dont just make fun at this
2007-02-09 02:43:01 · 3 answers · asked by Benjamin G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you may have put too much pressure on yourself, 24 is not that old. I'm 22 and have only been in 2 relationships. While they are enjoyable, they are also a lot of work and sometimes a lot of heart ache. So don't try to rush anything.
Nobody really "understands" relationships, even if they have been in a bunch. So don't feel like you have missed anything. We all get confused in relationships. Look at all the self help books and questions on here. Nobody knows what their doing. You will realize that whenever you do decide to get in a relationship..
When you stop worrying about it, that's when it will come to you. Just keep your eyes and your mind open. You will find someone that you connect with. And then everything else will come naturally. The only relationship you need to be in is an honest one. Where you both genuinely like each other for who you are. And then you won't have to try to "work", the relationship will form and grow on it's own.
Best of Luck!
2007-02-09 03:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready for all that? If you are, just go get to know someone, and see where it leads. If you aren't ready, don't feel ashamed or pressured into doing something you aren't ready to do. If someone makes fun, then they are crazy. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-09 02:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you dont jump directly into a serious relationship.Go for friendships first,have lots of fun,and enjoy life.
2007-02-09 02:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋