Please Help, Adults only(already asked but added details)?

Question

This Question is for ADULTS in Long term Relationships (1 year or more) ONLY

How many times a week do you and your partner have "relations" on average?

What do you think is too little?
Why?

When is it ok for things to slow down?

Honest answers only please...


Reason I asked:

We went from the begining - every time we saw each other

to

Now maybe once a week. (even tho it has gotten considerably better over time)

I just started going to school at night 3x a week till 9 ish
work 9-5 mo -fri
and work sat 4 till 10

He wants to but never initiates it because he fears me rejecting him since im always so tired

I am the one who initiates it when ever we do.

I'm afraid no that we arent seeing eachother as much as b4 AND our sex life is slow that things will fall apart.

He has fully expressed being scared that I am not attracted to him any more... and I have told him I definetly am.

What can we do?
And do you think something is wrong?

Answer 1

Been with my man seven years, and after a while it does slow down. It sounds like he is a little insecure. you two should talk about things for one, also try to spice up your sex life, different positions, role play, props, etc.

Answer 2

I know that this says for adults. But i have a girlfriend and we are both 16 and we have been going out for about 1.5 years and we have sex about 6-8 times a week. We do it just before school then sometimes when we have free periods and then after school. It only takes 5 minutes but when you have the time then take as long as you want it feels great.

If you think he is too tired then maybe get him in the morining or ask him to take an hour off to come home and then you guys can get it on.

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Answer 3

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Answer 4

wow i sort of went through the same thing...me and my bf of almost a year and a half used to always get busy in the begining of our relat.but then it started to decrease bc according to him the excitement of the spontanity decreased bc we were always together. but recently we have found the excitement again lol. id say talk to him about it. trust me if the love is there things will not fall apart. most relationships go through this. you guys need to set time aside and just talk and let each other know how you both are feeling. and try "love coupons". you can print them online and give them to each other. this way if you redeem a coupon saying you want a sensual back rub (etc) it will bring the spark back. good luck with everything and i hope i could help!

Answer 5

you've passed the "passion" stage and entering into the "relationship" stage, now communication is really important. For a man sex IS important, that primal thing, but it is not everything. Don't know your relationship, but either he is timid or has been rejected allot before or had argument over it so he steps back a little or is passive. Either way communication is very important. I too work hours over end, but sex is not a whole day thing (making love is), so even when tiered, I personally find time for her when she wants it or when I see the signals that she wants. talk.