Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

while keeping it with in a budget of a 21yr old male who owns his own apartment. i wanna do something special for my lady but im in michigan here and im knew and without good ideas.

2007-02-09 08:22:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the pic works now... i think... lol

Hey people! rate these girls from 1-10 (1 being worst, 10 being best) I’m doing this because i am worried about one of those girls, she wont stop dieting! i told her she is slim and beautiful but she thinks i am just saying it because i am her sister. i want your opinions, i think all those girls are pretty and slim (they are her friends) especially my sis but she wont listen :(. for privacy I have blocked their faces.

all i want you to do is rate each girl from 1-10. thanks x

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2007-02-09 08:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by ... 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-09 08:21:09 · 40 answers · asked by dirkjohn69 4 in Singles & Dating

After an a$$ breaks your heart into 3 million pieces.... how do you ever get over it? I mean, really. I feel like a totally different, untrusting person now... does anyone ever really recover? I have this feeling that I will never be the same??

2007-02-09 08:20:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad and i don't really get along but i still love him.i just came back from school and heard that my dad is really sick.i don't know what to do.

2007-02-09 08:20:00 · 14 answers · asked by sawsan m 1 in Family

Ok I was out last weekend at a bar celebrating my twin cousins birthday, anyways I see my other cousin there also with his friend, and my cousin introduced his friend to me, and we hit it off right away. Anyways he and I flirted with each other all night, and we exchanged phone numbers and I called him and told him "hi this is so and so, just seeing what you are up too, and I will give you a call back later"
What do I do?? Should I call him back?? How long should I wait, My cousin did say he is hard to get a hold of, I don't want to seem like I'm obsessing over him, but he is really cute, and is a nice guy.
thanks ashley

2007-02-09 08:19:45 · 5 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 08:19:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 08:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she was at his parntes place and they didn't now how old she was and the he called me on sunday and told me went happen and he was in troulbel with then

2007-02-09 08:19:00 · 11 answers · asked by romeo m 1 in Singles & Dating

I know all girls are differnt but im askin for an overall view.

2007-02-09 08:18:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neighbor is a lady who have two kids, one is 1 years old and the other is 2 years old. She's a sweet lady who is my family friend. But the problem is that she's a lazy woman because she don't cook that much, and her house is a dirty house too.

Me and my mom at first we thought it was funny how she is so lazy but now, it's serious because she's like a family and I want to tell her that she needs to take care of her kids, give them food and clean the kids and the house. But do you think I should say that to her? How should I say than? Or am I wrong for entering her business?

2007-02-09 08:18:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we were hanging out he wanted sex. but so did his friend and u like the friend so u did him.

2007-02-09 08:17:59 · 5 answers · asked by Baby girl 101 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been married for 20yrs every year there is some argument or the other because my husband doesnot get along with my side of the family. I have been getting a cold shoulder for the past 20 yrs.. i know i feel very stupid, but when we r together, we really get along. He does not comuinicate very well with me its either his way or the highway.Now since i went against his wishes and i want to talk to my family when i want he has decided that we can not be husband wife anymore. we will stay in the same house in different rooms, he wants to seperate for a while. we have 2 kids and a business together. we always did business things together and we make a very good business team, but personally he won't budge and he sulks for days while i have no one to talk to or socialize .am i stupid to still care for this guy?

2007-02-09 08:17:24 · 17 answers · asked by billi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am inlove with my soulmate, yep he is the love of my life we are engaged...the problem is I have gained weight over the years and now I'M about 265 instead of the nice 165 I was when I met him.
he says he still loves me, but I can see through his smile that it is breaking his heart inside. I am thinking about leaving him, UNTIL I can lose weight. YES he still would be there...I am his life and soul.. NOTHING IS WORKING.... no matter how much I try to lose weight. I can barely pull through so why put him through that?... either I try to lose weight on my own or with him nothing works.
the weight has caused depressed and that is a serious problem as well.

2007-02-09 08:17:07 · 18 answers · asked by La'Grange 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in 7th grade. I've been the most popular person lately talking too much and being sooo friendly. but now im out. i did nothing wrong. the teacher worrys about me and how lonely ive been so she talks more to me sometimes. do i need to make more friends? give me tips on how to get to "the cool crowd" and i dont accept answers with "just be yourself and if they dont like u, that's their loss."

2007-02-09 08:17:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband who's a contractor is working on his first wife's milllion dollar home. She left him for his brother and abbandoned their son 25 years ago. Their son whos' now 33 seems to be the one who keeps them in contact so my husband is working on her home. I asked why he would do work for her after the hardship she cause him and he said because it's easy money. And she didn't treat me badly so why should I care? I've very upset and he knew, I would be but is doing the work anyway. He won't tell me what work or how long it will take! And he spends every Sunday with their son either riding bikes or hiking for 8 to 12 hours which makes me lonely. Please any advise would be great.

2007-02-09 08:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by Lori's Discovery 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughts out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to the time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him? I still enjoy having sex with him and enjoy making him dinners, spending nights at home alone but the smallest things are driving me crazy!This is my first non dramatic relationship where I actually trust the guy could this be why maybe cause it is so unfamiliar?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit....Thanks!

2007-02-09 08:16:34 · 1 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is 18 and visiting here from england
i really like her
what could i do to make her want to continue talking to me after she leaves
i really like her
we have talked alot and we always smile and laugh together and we have alot of fun together so i think she likes me too
what do i do
what can i do to let her know i want to continue talking to her besides actually saying i want to still talk to you
i will ask her that before she leaves
i really like her and dont want to lose her

2007-02-09 08:16:19 · 21 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

I have given this relationship with my husband all I've got. We have a baby of four months. Recently my husband and I have just fought and bickered about the stupidest things every night. I work full time and then come home and take care of the baby full time (I'm not complaining)..but I still need to do all the chores. He says he'll help but doesn't. My baby still will not sleep through the night.he is a sweet baby but when he's awake so am I. The dishes are piled high in the sink right now because I didn't use them and he won't wash them. I clean every weekend and if I ever point it out, he says "Well I pay all our bills." and things like "I didn't ask you to clean.." it makes me feel depressed and degraded.
Now his thing is to start an argument with me when I come home from work about something he knows will get me going. I started just not responding to avoid the fights but it is becoming pent up inside now. I don't know what to do to make him stop. I suggested maybe we could talk

2007-02-09 08:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 08:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by SCHMUCKY 3 in Friends

ok so i really use to like this guy. we were flirting and everything but then it just stop. and i got over him. he never asked me out or anything. i still really like him. and i was going to tell my best friends but there is one problem. one of my bestfriends like him too. and i don;t want to hurt her but i am all mad inside cause he talks to her alot more than me. and i know jealosly is not the answer..but im just really mad. i don't know if i should tell her i still like him...or not. we have a dance at school. and hes going too. and i am. and my best friend.

please i need adviced :/

2007-02-09 08:13:59 · 11 answers · asked by gracieee_xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

Even though he denied it 4 months ago, I caught him(my fiance) setting up a threesome with 2 other girls for this Saturday..........I feel like such an idiot for believing him the first time........
I am heart broken.I feel so betrayed....but even though he did this to me again! I still love him so much........ why can't I hate him..........?

2007-02-09 08:13:46 · 38 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Singles & Dating

I just get very sad when I hear of yet another couple getting a divorce, nobody seems to have a happy and healthy marraige anymore. My question is this why do couples give up so easy is marriage worth fighting for? In my parents generation love was more comittital not as sex orented and people endured the trials and kept going on for the Lord and eachother? Do you think people know what getting married is really about? Why do people spend thousands of dollars on a wedding yet wont pay hundreds of dollars to get counselling to preserve thier marraige?

2007-02-09 08:13:32 · 12 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What does "fingered" mean?

2007-02-09 08:12:55 · 6 answers · asked by Renae 2 in Singles & Dating

what are some clues i can get help from..talking, words, actions?
need hep to figure this one out..

2007-02-09 08:12:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother wont ever leave me alone. he will do anything to make me mad. (and i think he knows what to do to make me mad) i've tried ignoring him but it just doesnt work. i've also tried being really nice to him and i will admit that i'm not always nice to him either but he usually starts it. what can i do to make him stop doing everything to make me mad????

please give me some advise. PLEASE?????????

2007-02-09 08:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Family

I met this gal the other day, she is cute, spunky, with a lot of personality. After talking and listening to heri fianlly exchange e-mail. She gives me her business card with her phone number, but i told her i would e-mail her first. Normally i call within 3 days if i ask for and get her phone number. Do i call or do i see if i get e-mail back first? Replies from women proferred.

2007-02-09 08:12:18 · 35 answers · asked by royaperry 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 08:12:16 · 13 answers · asked by notsoposh 1 in Singles & Dating

I am BADLY anorexic. I am 11 5'1' and 67 lbs. And being this skinny, in my middle school boys won't stay away. I don't understand, why do they want me if i have NO fat whatsoever? + They touch my booty and they pick me up. AND I HATE IT. I can't control it because i am so little. So i can't fight back. They say nast things to me. Anything in the book. They say like " You are the hottest girl in 6th grade girl!" And whenever my friends are around the boys call my friends ugly and me "SOO HOT" and it makes my friends mad. And my friends always wish they were me. i do not like all this attention. PLEASE DO NOT SAY I AM BRAGGING I AM NOT!! AND SAYING THAT DOESN'T HELP!

2007-02-09 08:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl is from england she is 18 and we have talked alot
i really like her
she is leaving in 1 week and 1 day
when we talk she always smiles and laughs and we have a good time
i feel like tonights really my last chance it is that 1 day
how do i let her feel as though she wants to keep talking with me after she leaves
what can i do when we talk to let her know i want to still talk to her besides saying i want to still talk to you
i will say that before she leaves sometime
i'll see her a few more times before she leaves but i feel like it has to be tonight or i will loose any chance of ever talking to her after she leaves
i will see her again in the summer but only for a little
i dont know what to do i really like her and i think she likes me to

2007-02-09 08:11:57 · 5 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating