ok so i really use to like this guy. we were flirting and everything but then it just stop. and i got over him. he never asked me out or anything. i still really like him. and i was going to tell my best friends but there is one problem. one of my bestfriends like him too. and i don;t want to hurt her but i am all mad inside cause he talks to her alot more than me. and i know jealosly is not the answer..but im just really mad. i don't know if i should tell her i still like him...or not. we have a dance at school. and hes going too. and i am. and my best friend.
please i need adviced :/
2007-02-09 08:13:59 · 11 answers · asked by gracieee_xoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you see i tried to get over him...but i still really like him.
2007-02-09 08:34:01 · update #1
Get over it! I'm pretty sure he's into her more than you and it's not worth losing a friend over. If he starts back flirting with you that makes him fair game but this is not the case. Just try to find someone else to excort you to the dance. Who knows, maybe he'll get jealous himself. Good-Luck!!!
2007-02-09 08:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you and one of your best friends like this guy? Which one of you is friends with the guy? Have you both known the guy for a long time? Have you known him longer than she has? I'd say you shouldn't do anything behind her back. You should be very direct with her. Honesty is always the best policy.Call her up and say "Listen, I know this is really awkward but I really like so and so.", "I am under the impression that we both like him, what do you think should happen?" A good friend will say "I don't know" or ask how serious you are about him. If she is a bitchy friend she would say "you have him" and go and hook up with him herself. Or say "he's mine.". The most you can hope for is that your friend is a good person and can work this out with you responsibly and with a mature outlook. Talk to this girl and work(talk) things out.
2007-02-09 16:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by markbigmanabell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your over him stay that way...leave him be. Tell your friend you used to have feelings for him but you wish them both the best. Friends before guys
2007-02-09 16:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your really dont wanna hurt your friend you should just tell her that you still like the dude, or you could see what the guy and your friend have goin on and see if you should really like the guy or not cuz a man should never come in the way of your friendship
2007-02-09 16:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by lilsienna1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a guy is nothing to lose a friend over... seriously... if you like the guy... great.. she likes the guy... great... I can tell you from experience... a guy would say 'bros before hoes' ... adapt that motto... don't let some stupid guy get in the middle of BFF... its just that simple... you'll each find different guys to like...love... etc but its hard to not have your best friend....
2007-02-09 16:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by teche16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the dance together.
Maybe that'll give you time to talk to this guy and your best friend, just not at the same time.
Tell your friend how you feel and tell the guy how you feel.
If she's upset, tell her your whole story.
2007-02-09 16:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by .:xXx:. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to HIM not her. At the dance say like "Want to dance?" And then talk to him. And jealousy is not the answer definitly. But you are probably jealous aren't you? I would be. But even if he goes out with your friend, There is no reason to hate your friend.
2007-02-09 16:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your friend is a good friend then you should tell her and she should understand, at the end of the day let him choose who he wants to be with and make a deal with each other that whoever he may choose the other should be happy for them.
2007-02-09 16:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should tell your best friend you still have feelings for him cause she might be tring to go out with him so tell her before anything happens
2007-02-09 16:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by AnAlUp3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask him out. If your best friend is really a friend she won't be mad.
2007-02-09 16:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋