After an a$$ breaks your heart into 3 million pieces.... how do you ever get over it? I mean, really. I feel like a totally different, untrusting person now... does anyone ever really recover? I have this feeling that I will never be the same??
2007-02-09 08:20:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You won't be the same, and frankly, would you want to be?
Every experience we have helps shape us into the people we eventually become. Every experience gives you a foundation to move on, learn and grow.
You will heal, you will trust and love again.
2007-02-09 08:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes people do recover.It all depends of course on how u take things.If u keep beating urself down and asking urself what went wrong,then yea,those 3 million pieces will only double.But if u BELIEVE that its his loss becuz u know ur a great girl then im more than sure that ull have taken the positves and the negatives of this relationship and work on improving errors for ur future relationships. Things happen in life for a reason, and as much as we wish we could change the past,we cant.All we can do is move on and learn the valuable lessons of every pitfall. Im sure u have a lot to offer to someone that will really appreciate them.
God Bless
2007-02-09 16:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by martin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will recover, it takes time. Also no one ever gets truly over someone. They learn to move on, and be with someone else. Go out with you friends and have a good time. But enjoy the single life. Do things for yourself, such as take a yoga class or go shopping more often. Love is never easy but if it was then we wouldn't go through it over and over. Its a lesson learned, just remember that.
2007-02-09 16:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by jennisea04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the question?
Why would you want to be the same?
Life is about growth and believe it or not, you are more fluid than your "personality".
The lesson here is "not to trust". The lesson here is becoming an owner and not a victim.
Your calling is to take charge of your life instead of expecting someone else to fill in those gaps that you don't have time to work on.
You will recover!
The better question is, "Will you discover?"
And finally, time does not heal your wounds. You heal your own wounds with God's help!
2007-02-09 16:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you won't ever be the same.
You're smarter. You have more experience.
You know more about what you want in a man.
You can't just jump back into the dating world, so seeing your girlfriends and just hanging out makes me feel better. Maybe flirt with a few guys on MySpace to make yourself feel good about yourself again. When you feel you're ready, try dating again.
Good luck!
2007-02-09 16:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Dana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you won't be the same...you'll be better! Forgive him and move on, but beware of the qualities that u don't want in your next man. I don't mean compare him to your last, but learn from your experiances and move on. Believe me it gets easier day after day!
2007-02-09 16:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you wont be the same. But yes time does make things better (trust me).. You may feel crappy now, but it will pass..
Soon you will think of it as a life experience.
2007-02-09 16:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you recover. It just takes time.
2007-02-09 16:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you never get over it only thing can do is go on with your life, for there is always better ahead.
2007-02-09 16:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by LynnS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds.
However, it does not mean you will forget. You will be more cautious with the next relationship.
Hugs.
2007-02-09 16:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋