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I am BADLY anorexic. I am 11 5'1' and 67 lbs. And being this skinny, in my middle school boys won't stay away. I don't understand, why do they want me if i have NO fat whatsoever? + They touch my booty and they pick me up. AND I HATE IT. I can't control it because i am so little. So i can't fight back. They say nast things to me. Anything in the book. They say like " You are the hottest girl in 6th grade girl!" And whenever my friends are around the boys call my friends ugly and me "SOO HOT" and it makes my friends mad. And my friends always wish they were me. i do not like all this attention. PLEASE DO NOT SAY I AM BRAGGING I AM NOT!! AND SAYING THAT DOESN'T HELP!

2007-02-09 08:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

5 answers

First, you need to see a doctor right away. Anorexia is a severe problem, and if left untreated, can result in a weakened immune system, infections, stunted growth, hair loss, brain and organ damage, and death, just to name a few. Your body mass index is low enough that you should be in a *hospital*, not in school.

But as to unwanted comments, touching, and other invasions of your privacy, this is called SEXUAL HARASSMENT and it is a CRIME, and should not be tolerated. Boys are not doing this to you because they like you or find you attractive. Sexual harassment is all about power, intimidation, and making other people feel helpless. Skipping meals will not make it go away, and neither will ignoring or downplaying the problem. You have to start fighting harrasment by any means necessary. Harassment can only exist as long as other people are ignorant or tolerant of it.

Your health should come first of course. But once you have your diet and weight under control, you need to talk to the police, your school principal, and your parents/guardians. What is happening to you is not your fault, and you need to protect yourself, and make sure these scumbags get what they deserve.

2007-02-09 08:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 1 0

Your petite there is nothing wrong with that and if the guys like it well let them and if your friends are mad to bad they will get over it enjoy the flirts b/c one day as you get older that will change and you will only wish to have a man tell you your hot. lol

2007-02-09 16:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0 1

You need to see a doctor. People do die for this problem. It could lead to worse things that could not be good for someone of your age. Do your parents know about your problem? Seek help!

2007-02-09 16:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by J M 2 · 0 0

Get help for your anorexia. The treatment will also help you with your relationships with friends because you cannot have a great realtionship with other people unless you have a great realtionship with yourself.

2007-02-09 16:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by principessajordan 2 · 1 0

What do you want, them to call you ugly, get over yourself and injoy it before gravity get ya

2007-02-09 16:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by toymod 5 · 0 1

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