Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

My wife is recovering from surgery almost 2 weeks ago. It is my childrens weekend to spend with me. Their mother was sick , flu like, earlier this week as well as my daughter. My oldest son is currently ill and will not be coming. My wife is concerned that if my daughter and other 2 sons come they will bring the flu. They have no symtoms and are not sick in anyway. I'm irritated at canceling my weekend with them on the off chance that they might bring the flu. Shes irritated that its even a question with me about them coming down. What do you think ?

2007-02-09 07:59:01 · 11 answers · asked by EGOman 5 in Family

Well I'm 14 and hav never had a gf. I'm considered one of the nicest guys girls know and I get straight A's. I really like this girl and we talk during 3rd period. She's single and is their somtin I should be doin in order to get her attention in order for her to like me or for her to get to know me better?

2007-02-09 07:58:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why when the women on this forum admit to cheating in thier marriage, most women say its ok and forgivable as long as it stays in the past?

But if I talk about "sowing wild oats" women on this forum berate me and tell me to stop thinking with my other head.

2007-02-09 07:57:50 · 11 answers · asked by Billy Bob D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance lied to me about going to a strip club. He told me that he hasn't been to one since we started dating but recently I was balancing his check book and I noticed that he had been to one last April. He claims he forgot about it and he didn't feel like he had to tell me then that he had went because he wasn't sure he'd spend the rest of his life with me at that point in time. I was 6 months preg. and had been staying with him for about 8 months. I'm not mad that he went because it did happen almost a year ago. But I am mad because of what he said about him feeling that he didn't have to tell me. It kinda makes me wonder what else he isnt telling me!!!! The strip club that he went to is an hour away from his job and 2 hours away from home. There are plenty of strip clubs in the town he works in...Why go that far out the way? He claims that he forgot when he went and what time of day he went. And also claims that I have no reason to be upset about this. Shud i jus forget about it?

2007-02-09 07:56:39 · 6 answers · asked by April 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex-wife, through trickery, has managed to get a default judgement against me. They gave her everything she asked for, shild custody, spousal support, the whole nine yards. We're in CA. What can I do to contest this judgement?

2007-02-09 07:56:18 · 13 answers · asked by cailano 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I was asked to the Winter Formal by this person I like but I am going out with some one else. I really like the person I'm going out with but this outher guy is nice, sweet, funny, and kind. But my boy friend doesnt want to go to the dance, and i sorta dont either!
What Should I Do?

2007-02-09 07:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so Im an 18 yearold girl and Im starting a young girls group at my church, there are 4 girls, they are all freshmen in Highschool. The group is going to be about relationships, growing up, coping with lifes issues, peer pressure, you know, those kinds of things, with somewhat of a christian basis. I dont want it to be all bible lessons but the material should tie in to God somehow. anyway, I would love it if any of you know any good websites to get information and material to help me out with that, or even if you have some good ideas yourself, I want the group to be fun and different and I want them to learn from it at the same time, Im usually good at these things but I want my first lesson to be good so they'll be as excited about the group as I am. :] thank you very much!

2007-02-09 07:56:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i wanna mastubate but dont know what to do? help

2007-02-09 07:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley D 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi i need some advice guys. I am quite a shy person and i was actually starting to get somewhere with my work colleagues ie them starting to get who i am etc... Well weve recently had new starters in october of last year and the people who i was putting the effort in with and was getting some response from seem to want to bother more with the new girls more than me and its like im not as interesting to them anymore. The one is really friendly and tends to ponce on all the guys i realise that its because they are first contact in the office as theyre by the door but how do i regain my friendship with people. As i have withdrawn alittle from peeps as i feel not as interesting as the new gals and even on work dos its them who the guys want to speak to

2007-02-09 07:55:16 · 2 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years dated a girl named Sheena before we got together. He moved 2 1/2 hours away from her then we got together soon after. They only dated for a few months and he says it was just casual. He even said that they never even slept together. All of the sudden a few months ago she called his phone and left a message saying that she misses him and she wants to come see him. She knows he is with me. I got upset but let it slide. A few weeks later she called him again and said the same thing. I was 2 months pregnant at the time and emotional so I called her and asked her nicely not to call back again. She got sooo angry and started saying that Im crazy and she said how do you know he isnt cheating on you know. I said I just know! He never has the time. She called him again and he was starting to get mad and told her not to call back. A week or so ago she called my phone and called me a ***** and said that she was sleeping w my bf. Rich heard her and grabbed the phone.

2007-02-09 07:55:08 · 5 answers · asked by angel l 3 in Singles & Dating

If so, how did it happen? how did u react and how did he react.

2007-02-09 07:54:55 · 14 answers · asked by Secret W 1 in Singles & Dating

So today i found out my bf is going to join a gym by his job and I was not happy and started thinking crazy like he is gonna find a another grl that is hotter and maybe start wanting to be with one of them I know I have to become more confident because i hate thinking this way I know its not right I know guys hate that in a girl. I am a pretty girl its not like im ugly so why do i feel this way?? Well for starters I know one thing a women is not supposed to depond on a man to be more confident but in my relationship I barely get complimented and shown affection and I tell my bf of over 3 yrs that he should but he says its just not him or just "ok" and nothing a part of me thinks he doesnt love me like I love him before we started dating I was extremely confident had a great body and just let it all go so I recently joined a gym by my job so why am I soo mad and jealous?? I really need your opinions on this just please dont leave any mean comments I know I have probs dat im tryng to fix

2007-02-09 07:54:53 · 10 answers · asked by bkgrl718 3 in Singles & Dating

2wks ago my b/f was totally nice to me and considerate and he says stuff like, "I'm so crazy about you." Ever since the day after that, he's been really distant, never IMing me or calling or texting me or asking to hang out and then about three days ago, he IMed me while I was idle saying that he said he really had to talk and that something really bad happened but he didn't want to talk about it and he wanted to tell me that he wasn't going to prom anymore (he'd invited me a while back). Now, ever since then, he doesn't talk and when I IM him, he's always cutting me off saying stuff like, "Can't talk, tired." "Can't talk, busy." And he never IMs me or anything, he doesn't contact me at all.

What's his problem?

2007-02-09 07:53:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can I be a down to earth girl ? what do down to earth girls do ? how do they acts ? how to they speaks? anything even a small things u know... let me know what is that !

2007-02-09 07:53:28 · 3 answers · asked by persian_ladyyy 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy at my school, and I think I might be starting to like him, but I don't want to get any more feelings unless I know he likes me back. What's the point of liking someone if you don't have a chance? How do I know if he likes me or not?

2007-02-09 07:53:14 · 9 answers · asked by !Smile! 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some new kinky ideas for my lover. She likes to experiment, but being completely tied up scares her, so we cant do that. Wanted to know if there were any toys i could use on her that married women prefer or things like that. Thanks for the input. Be creative.

2007-02-09 07:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by Drew 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i hardly kiss what can i do to get him to kiss me more

2007-02-09 07:52:48 · 4 answers · asked by i am in love 2 in Singles & Dating

What annoying/irratating thing does your partner do that really bugs you?

2007-02-09 07:52:15 · 10 answers · asked by pageys 5 in Singles & Dating

does this name mean something else in a foriegn language, like jerk, idiot, or jackass? seems all the Dohertys I know are freekin weirdos

2007-02-09 07:51:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It feels like nobody really listens to me, nor does anybody really think I have feelings about anything, and they just act like I am not in the room with them. They assume that I feel like this and they don't really care for what I really think and they don't bother ask if I am okay with everything happening in my life.
Also, it seems like nobody ever comes to visit me, or atleast nobody really thinks that I would want someone to visit me every so often. Atleast they could ask me if I want to go to a movie or go out and eat somewhere.
Does anyone have any kinds of opinions on what I should do?

2007-02-09 07:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Roxas of Organization 13 7 in Family

2007-02-09 07:50:47 · 16 answers · asked by ymisitnhere 1 in Family

Well i ment this girl in real life when she was visting my friend. She lives in a different state so after she left we started talking over the internet and we became really close. She told me she like me over the internet and we saw each other like 3 other time after we ment. Then when she was down here one time she ment this other guy and she started going out with him and we stop talking. But now she moved here and she broke up with that guy she was going out with but we still don't talk that much. Im pretty sure she doen't like me anymore cause she beautiful and popular and well im ugly and not popular. We haven't talk for like 6 months and i still really like her and don't know what to do. I know this doesn't make sense but please give me advice i just really don't know what to do and im pretty sure she likes this other guy

2007-02-09 07:50:27 · 9 answers · asked by a guy 1 in Singles & Dating

qutoe on woute this is what my friend said "we were talking about ur acting and he was blushing SO BADLY and staring at his feet"...does this mean he likes me? they say that everytime she mentions my name he turns read

2007-02-09 07:50:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 31, my boyfrind is 33...we have been living together for a few months, right at the beginning we had sex 2 times a week....then 1 a week, and right now its been a month so far...he says he is stress at work and that his therapy makes him feel exhausted and with zero libido. do some guys just dont enjoy sex? what should i do?

2007-02-09 07:49:30 · 24 answers · asked by dear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-02-09 07:47:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some attention too, not just her career and studies. There's a couple of girls I know that are interested in me. What should I do?

I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic. If you are curious on the rest of my thoughts, read up:

http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend

2007-02-09 07:47:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I've recently become "un-single" and am very into my new boyfriend.. but here's a small little dilemma.. my best friend and I both model for a lot of companies and have gotten a lot of VIP invites to clubs and what not, and tonight our agent got us on the list at this REALLY hot club, and I can't bring my BF because he's going snow boarding for the weekend...so being that this is a new relationship, I don't want to risk anything by making him think I'm gonna be all over other guys, or vice versa (he is the jealous type i think) but at the same time I reeaaally want to go to this club, and he and I both know I'd never cheat on him or anything... what should I dooo???

2007-02-09 07:47:37 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend slept with someone who is married, now she left her husband and is living with him. (i dont condone him sleeping with her b4 u say it) Now she is living with him, calling him to her friends and co workers-her meal ticket and sleeping with her husband, a guy she works with and some other dude. He's about to put some of his stuff in her name-(if they break up she could then take with her) Hes the type that would take it out on the person telling him. How do i tell him without him knowing it was me? and him believing it????

2007-02-09 07:47:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if a male TV presenter tricked a female contestant to put on a blindfold, and then he sucker punched her hard in the breasts or in the privates? THAT ALREADY HAPPENED!!!
And while the woman was on the floor in excruciating pain, embarrassment and humiliation; he laughed very hard at her, then he said a very fake “I am sorry, I am so sorry” while still laughing!!!
She pretended not to be too upset because she has a contract with the TV channel; and because she doesn’t want any scandal, she just wants to “forget” about it just like any sexual assault victim!
Amazingly the public saw it live on TV and did nothing about it; in fact they thought it was funny!!!
How can this be acceptable? Assault is considered to be a prank?! And on TV?! Assault is not allowed by LAW!

Watch the video here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Io99H5bPyPU

2007-02-09 07:47:10 · 3 answers · asked by f_vidigal 1 in Singles & Dating

when I get any other money, she demands an answer for what I did with my money. I'm 23 yrs. old with a college degree & my own apartment. When I was 18, this woman took my Social Security backpay check of $3,946 & my trust fund money from my biological dad which was $5499, & with my savings account, I didn't know her name was on the account, & the bank tellers are telling me that it's her right to take it because according to them, it's HER money. How is that if the checks say MY name on them & not hers? She won't even tell me what she did with my money, but then she demands an answer for how much money I have in my bank account & stuff like that, but she's so cheeky that she won't even tell me where MY money is & what she did with it. I was told it's too late to take her to court.

& with a little of the money, she took me shopping, & I was 18, going on 19, & she wouldn't let me pick out my own clothes & shoes, & then got embarrassed when I got mad. Wouldn't you be upset too?

2007-02-09 07:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family