I need some attention too, not just her career and studies. There's a couple of girls I know that are interested in me. What should I do?
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2007-02-09 07:47:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't cheat on her! Only scumbags cheat! Instead, talk to her about your needs and if she says "Too bad, I'm busy with my career and studies" then suggest you guys take a break from the relationship and go out with other people.
If it's not working, break up!
2007-02-09 07:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Marisela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you cheat on her you will always be known as a cheater is that what you want? If she is dedicated to her career appiciate that and know that you will be the centre of her attentions when her masters come in. If you cheat, you will never be able to change what you did, take my advice and appriciate her. If you sit her down and tell her exactly how you feel, she will spend every extra minute with you to show how much she really cares. Tell her the truth and show some emotion, it only makes her realise how much you really care. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to understand whats important in the beginning. You have the rest of your lives together and she realises this, but do you? Take care, hope this was helpful, Heather
2007-02-09 15:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her school means a lot to her. If you really want to spend time together why don't you try helping her study. If you think that all she thinks about is school then why don't you leave little love notes in her books or something get creative. And no you shouldn't cheat cuz if she finds out then that would break her heart.
2007-02-09 16:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor baby...needs attention and gf is busy. She deserves better than you. You should be supporting her and proud of what she is trying to accomplish with her life. All you care about is getting attention! Yeah, I think you should cheat so she will find out and move on to someone that appreciates what she is trying to do with her life! Maybe one day you will grow up and realize that you are now out of high school, and it's time to do away with the selfish high school mentality.
2007-02-09 15:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not curious about your thoughts. They are perverse. Would you have wanted her to cheat on you, if she was in your position? So, stop right there making excuses for something you probably I’ve already done. Your type is the reason families are no longer steady, safe, or secure.
2007-02-09 15:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Trishcia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a real question? Seriously.
She's probably doing all of this so that you guys can build a family. Why don't you go find a girl with a crappy job and lots of free time? That sounds like a better match for you.
If you want this to work, talk to her. Cheaters suck.
2007-02-09 15:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy? NO u should not cheat on her..have you even tried talking to her about this? letting her know how you feel? if you think about cheating on her just because shes busy with her career and school..then she may not be the one for you..because if u loved her.- cheating would NOT cross your mind. what so ever.
2007-02-09 15:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by chicksgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hoping she realizes that she's wasted any time she has spent on you and she completely leaves you alone. She's probably doing all of this stuff so she has the confidence to date better men than you are. You are selfish and an ***! You deserve to be treated like crap and I hope the next woman you are with gives you herpes! Selfish ***!
2007-02-09 15:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. End the relationship, if you really cared about her you would never consider hurting her this way. Grow up a little before you try and have a serious relationship.
2007-02-09 15:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is not the one for you. Life is too short, move on find a girl that really rocks your world. The current girl fiend will get over it, move on and find someone that rocks her world. From the sounds of it you are way too young to be tied down. Just move on!
2007-02-09 15:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by Julie J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋