Well I'm 14 and hav never had a gf. I'm considered one of the nicest guys girls know and I get straight A's. I really like this girl and we talk during 3rd period. She's single and is their somtin I should be doin in order to get her attention in order for her to like me or for her to get to know me better?
2007-02-09 07:58:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to do is pay more attention to the things that she really cares about. This will get her attention and understand that you will be not only her friend but her best friend. This is what life is all about, being the best friend you can be to your partner. If you really care you will care about what she cares for. Its not a lesson in life its what you know in your heart. If you can do this, then you will have a great relationship. Love her and you will get the love back. Life is too short to live with regret. The decision is yours. Hoped that this helped, take care Heather
2007-02-09 08:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...DEFINATLY do not listen to that first answer you got! (Not smart, man.)
Dude, there are so many ways to get a girl's attention. Valentine's Day is coming up, so buy her something nice. Avoid chocolates, cards, etc...it's to ordinary. Find something original and from the heart.
Think of something you KNOW she likes. Now, think of how much money you have. Can you afford it?
And if you don't want to do that, ask her out to a movie "just as friends." I'm sure you can work from there.
Good luck man!
2007-02-09 16:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm an ancient now, but I can still remember this from my childhood enough to share my theory. Some boys were intimidating, some weren't. The dumb ones weren't! Because even if they acted all tough, you could outwit them in such a way that you looked good in the end. The smart ones were the intimidating ones--the less approachable, the more coveted prize, and you had to be more on your toes with them. Many girls pretend not to like them because they don't want to look bad if a smart one turns you down. So, girls "pretend" to like bad boys but secretely want the nice, smart ones.
So....you'll just have to make yourself more approachable to this girl.
2007-02-09 16:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon your too young to get a gf!! you have your studies to think about. I'm 14 too and i found it soo distracting when i had a boyfriend. But if you like her go for it, maybe ask her to study around your house or something. If your a nice guy like you say you are then I'm sure she will go for you to. But don't go for her for the sake of getting a gf because that's what all guys do at are age! Treat her well if you truly like her!.
2007-02-09 16:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Pureness =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. girls hate guys that put on a front, trying to be something they're not. be nice to her, and be genuine about it. most of all, don't pressure her into a relationship. the best, strongest romantic relationships are built on a solid friendship. let what will happen, happen. even if u don't get w/her romantically, you will have gained a good friend. try and find out what ur shared interests are. it's no good being w/a beautiful girl if ur bored out of ur skull when ur around her. most of all, respect her. i can't stress that enough. respect her, and treat her as your complete and total equal. women are *not* the weaker sex, and we hate to be treated as such. we have thoughts, emotions, feelings, hopes, fears and dreams, just like guys. share those w/her, and i'm sure she'll share hers w/u. Good Luck!!
2007-02-09 16:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by kelleygaither2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last, you're too young to understand women, you need to learn. Guys usually start having sex between 14 and 17, girls start between 12 and 15. Date a bunch of other girls, there's only about a million you can fall in love with.
2007-02-09 16:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at 14 most girls arent thinking much about the nice guy with a future...they are thinking about the hot/cool guy who is the envy of others...and it will only get worse for about the next 15 years of your life...so if your looking to get a girls attention you need to morph into the guy that type of dude they are most interested in...
be rebelious and fearless...and find your own sense of self and style...but dont let your grades suffer because of it...your gonna need money and stability to get girls later in life.
2007-02-09 16:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by boosted 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still so young...I wouldn't worry about not having a gf yet. Say hi to her, talk about your classes about classwork. Ask about music she might like...things like that. Maybe suggest you and her and some friends go out sometime
2007-02-09 16:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what she likes like teddy bears and flowers and surprise her one day find out what type of music she likes take her to dinner or a move or a concert but mostly the move like a romantic one or get The Titanic on DVD and ask her to come over and watch it the try to kiss her
good luck
oooxxxooo
2007-02-09 16:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by i am in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see if u 2 can see a movie or something and get to know her better then take it from there. good luck
2007-02-09 16:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋