My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years dated a girl named Sheena before we got together. He moved 2 1/2 hours away from her then we got together soon after. They only dated for a few months and he says it was just casual. He even said that they never even slept together. All of the sudden a few months ago she called his phone and left a message saying that she misses him and she wants to come see him. She knows he is with me. I got upset but let it slide. A few weeks later she called him again and said the same thing. I was 2 months pregnant at the time and emotional so I called her and asked her nicely not to call back again. She got sooo angry and started saying that Im crazy and she said how do you know he isnt cheating on you know. I said I just know! He never has the time. She called him again and he was starting to get mad and told her not to call back. A week or so ago she called my phone and called me a ***** and said that she was sleeping w my bf. Rich heard her and grabbed the phone.
2007-02-09 07:55:08 · 5 answers · asked by angel l 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She hung up again and called about 10 more times hanging up each time! I started to cry because I was so upset. Rich held me and swore that he would never do that to me. I trust him but now I find myself searching his pockets and phone. I dont want to be like that! Please help me I dont know what to do!!!
2007-02-09 07:57:14 · update #1
She's trying to f*** with you so you and bf will break up and she'll have a shot at him. Don't let her succeed! And if she keeps it up, it's called stalking.
2007-02-09 08:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by selena n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok from reading this it can be one of two things a. either shes a crazy ***** for real and just doing that to make things bad between you and rich because she wants him or b. she is a crazy ***** that is tired of being the other one and has slept with him lately now I understand you trust your man but before you do you must think hard and good if its possible some of us women love our men so0 much that we go thru a case of denial like no0 my "____" wouldnt do that to me or even like you said he has no time im not saying that its an excuse all I am saying is that you never know what if? If I were you id do the same thing even though most would consider it wrong because we should "trust" them but truth is no one wants to be played for a fool so just keep your ears and eyes open meanwhile and with her well IF nothing is really going on between them then she will feel like a a$$ eventually and stop harassing you guys but just think about this why would she call out of no where and say this?? please dont let yourself be played good luck
2007-02-09 16:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would change my phone numbers to unlisted ones to start.
You might really need to sit and have a chat with your boyfriend, tell him how she has affected you, that you do trust him. But you do not trust her and you feel threatened by her craziness.
2007-02-09 16:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you have a child, all of this mess is irrelevant.
If you don't trust your man, then you are in a personal hell.
Who do you trust, a jealous b$%^h or your man?
It's your call.
2007-02-09 16:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust him. She's playing with your mind so that you'll leave him. She probly feels bad about herself. Stick by his side and help him deal with her.
2007-02-09 15:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jesus Christ Track Starrr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋