So I've recently become "un-single" and am very into my new boyfriend.. but here's a small little dilemma.. my best friend and I both model for a lot of companies and have gotten a lot of VIP invites to clubs and what not, and tonight our agent got us on the list at this REALLY hot club, and I can't bring my BF because he's going snow boarding for the weekend...so being that this is a new relationship, I don't want to risk anything by making him think I'm gonna be all over other guys, or vice versa (he is the jealous type i think) but at the same time I reeaaally want to go to this club, and he and I both know I'd never cheat on him or anything... what should I dooo???
2007-02-09 07:47:37 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow thanks.. i'm for sure going now.. Sorry if that question came off really shallow or superficial.. i'm not that kind of girl...How i will choose a best answer i have NO IDEA! ;) thanks all <3
2007-02-09 08:16:31 · update #1
Wow, are you shallow. Seems like you pretty full of yourself. I won't answer your question because it is so petty and you sound like a real shallow little b*t*h!
Get a real life...one that is about giving to others!
2007-02-09 07:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Being a women must really be tough. You REALLY worry about stuff like this? That's gotta be hard.
How can I explain this...Your boyfriend...he has no.....emotions. Ya, that's what I'm trying to say. He doesn't care about you going to the club. Just do whatever it is you do for him before he leaves for snowboarding, then again when he gets back. Maybe feed him too. That's it!
There never was a problem here at all. All these issues are just in your head.
2007-02-09 07:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he knows you won't cheat then there shouldn't be a problem.
When you have a career where you are eye candy and arm candy at vendor shows and such, then you need to explain what you do thoroughly for your partner. If the partner has an issue, sorry, bye bye partner, this has been your career, and should not effect your personal life the way you think your partner is going to be reacting to your career.
Also, why date a guy that is jealous all the time? Many many fish in the sea, and your a model, do the math.
2007-02-09 07:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are going to have a horrible time in your relationship with what you do and having a jealous boyfriend. I guarantee you within 6 months you will not be able to put up with his verbal tirades about where you are going, with who, etc. every time your agent gets you on a VIP list. and if you are getting all these VIP invites you might as well mingle while you are there and meet people and have fun.
2007-02-09 07:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he likes you he will understand. Espically since hes a model as well. When an opprotunity like this really hot club comes along, you need to take it! He would probably do the same thing. I wouldn't be jealous in the slightest bit because I understand that it's a business.
2007-02-09 07:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by MrRoboto48 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the club. Don't start off this relationship by cutting yourself off of the rest of your life because he might get jealous. That only tells him that he can control you or that you don't need any time from him.
The best thing to do is go and show him that you can be trusted. Have fun!
2007-02-09 07:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by smikeymouse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you should go to this club i mean its not like he's not going to talk to people in the hotel where he is staying(not in sexual terms ) he's going out why should you not he has to understand that you also have a life out side of the 1 with him and that it's not going to stop just cause he's not there
hope that works out or if not it's probably 4 the best
2007-02-09 07:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the club. Public appearances is apart of your career if he can't handle the heat and attention might need to move on. But should talk to him and express your fears and see what his may be so you two can come to an understanding.
2007-02-09 07:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by ahottmess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you are going and that he can trust you. After all, if he is going snowboarding, and you can trust him not to hook up with other girls, then he can trust you. Being honest and up-front about it with him in the first place is the kind of thing he should value from you, if the relationship is really going to go somewhere.
2007-02-09 07:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to the club.
If he can go Snowboarding (with women there) then why cant you go to a club (with guys there)....
Jealous type guys are funny in the pants honestly.. insecure and scared they would rather YOU change something about you that they dont like rather than changing something about themselves
2007-02-09 07:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋