Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

my mom and my dad divorced .. and my mom and i live in the old house...and we kepted in mind that we needed to split the house(money) with him .......my dad has not send a single child support ... can we go talk to the lawyer and have him get the rights for us to have the WHOLE house and not make my dad give child support? ( and trade in trade out thing)

2007-02-08 14:53:23 · 6 answers · asked by YiNg--- G 1 in Family

I like this one girl and we;ve been friends for a while. Lately we havent talked much, only online, and rarely awknowledge eachother in the school halls. I was thinking of going to the movies or to dinner with her or something to reignite the friendship and later to expand it. Im just afraid that it will be very awkward and that ill turn her off since im not very outgoing and a little geeky and she doesnt usually lead conversations. Even the idea of her getting into my car seems awkward, not cuz of the car cuz its nice, but cuz i dont know how to communicate with her especially if its one-on-one. Any ideas? i dont know where to start. I dont talk to girls often. Regular conversation starters wont work cuz we know basic things bout each other already. Maybe we need an activity or something to do together. IDK. DOnt worry by geeky i didnt mean fat or anything, Im on a swim team so im pretty lean.

2007-02-08 14:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so theres this extremely adorable guy I met 6 months ago. And by adorable, I mean funny, sweet, nice, and he'll do anything to make me laugh.

But heres my problem: When I first met him, he told people he liked me, & then I told people I liked him (without knowing he liked me). We both found out we liked each on the same day. That caused some awkwardness. But he never asked me out (he's shy).

Then, around 2 months later, he said he didn't like me anymore. End of story, right? wrong.

Lately, he's been acting like he likes me again. Like, he asked me to go to the library with just him. And in the halls, he puts his arm around me when we're walking & hugs me spontaneously. Also, he remembers things I tell him that normally none of my friends would remember. Like the name of my great-great aunt for example & he shares his life with me too. & we have our inside joke moments.

Many of my friends tell me he likes me and to just ask him out. But I just don't know. What do I do?

2007-02-08 14:52:49 · 8 answers · asked by webuysocks 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the qualities/looks you like in girls?? Explain please! Thanx

2007-02-08 14:52:39 · 5 answers · asked by LALALALALALALA 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I think I seriously love this guy, but he is a year older than me, so we go to two different schools. Now, it is against our religion to date until we are 16, but he is turning 16 this year, and will probably already have a gf by the time I get to really see him again! I just don't know what to do! I mean, I have changed so much since he last saw me and stuff. We used to IM eachother all the time, but now he is just too busy!

2007-02-08 14:52:08 · 13 answers · asked by Camel Catcher 1 in Singles & Dating

i gt married abt 2 yrs ago and wish to renew our vows again. But not in churches as i am Hindu. Will a certificate be given? are they any legal ones conducting this ceremony?

2007-02-08 14:51:47 · 2 answers · asked by Violet Calla 2 in Weddings

There is this guy and i am friends with him and he asked to see my boobs and butt and now i am not sure if i like him.... HELP

2007-02-08 14:51:09 · 15 answers · asked by panda16_4life 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend was mad at me and wouldnt tell me why. So i repeatedly asked her what was wrong. After she left, my friend tapped me on the shoulder and said, next time dont keep asking. He told me to just shut my mouth. He said women want us to think about what we did. He said i dont really have to think about what i did, i just have to make her think im thinking about what i did. He said no matter how hard you try, you will never figure out what you did because he said 99 percent of the time women are mad at you is because of something so incredibly stupid that no man could ever figure out what they did. Is their any truth to my friends words. He does get around.....

2007-02-08 14:50:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well, i am going out with this guy and i really like him, but my ex-boyfriend, who i also like still wants to go back out with me, my friend didnt like him and she told me that he was cheating but he said he wasnt and shes known to lie alot, i kinda want to but i dont want to hurt my current boyfriend. hes always complaining about how he has gotten dumped bad by other gurls, and like how he wont ever dump me, but i think hes just playin self pity on me. i really need help, and fast! please help!!

2007-02-08 14:50:47 · 4 answers · asked by turtle_chic77 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking of making some Valentine's cards for a group of girls I know. Something to sorta repay them, especially after me near-constantly hitting on them. And who knows, whatever happens happens right? But the problem is, I dont know how to make some Valentine's cards. Anyone know how? Or should I just focus on one of the girls because I know her favorite flowers and I was thinking if i should get them for her. What should I do and how?

2007-02-08 14:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by dr.fluff 1 in Friends

heya.. I know you folks may be a bit sick and tierd of all these hysterical girls complaining about their boy problems... well i cant promise you that im much better :P

Well okay, I am a freshman in highschool and i have a big crush on my friend dan... we do flirt a bit but it always seems more like joking around.. or niether of us really acknowledge it or try to make a big deal out of it... but i really feel something there..

However, he is really confusing me... i start to think we may be heading on the track to something more than friends but suddenly he metions a girl he hooked up with not long ago and apparently "loves", and also another girl that he dated a while back that he is still friend with

I would normally take the hint but he really does seem to flirt with me often... and today especially... he partnered with me in world history and moved near me in french yesterday...

I may be iggnorant or just blinded by love.. so if you can i would love some advice :)

2007-02-08 14:49:25 · 13 answers · asked by curls 3 in Singles & Dating

specificallychinese and japanese people?

2007-02-08 14:49:17 · 15 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

Do u think that it doesnt matters how old you are to be in love?

I need to know for a project! Thanks!

2007-02-08 14:49:08 · 4 answers · asked by *Music ♥ Love* 3 in Singles & Dating

I've known my man for 10 years but after I married we stopped talking to each other. Around the time I filed for divorce, I ran into him. I was given the divorce and my man and I decided to get back together. It turns out that I've matured a great deal and we can actually conversate for hours. I got full custody of the children and their father is not allowed visitation because I was able to prove that he was very abusive and could not be trusted alone with them as he had used our daughter as a sheild while breaking my ankle. Occasionally, I will let him see his children out of pity. They are his kids too, but he shouldn't have acted the way he did. My man asked me a couple of days ago if I wanted to marry him. We've both been through a divorce and I just don't want to out of fear of the future. Having to have that pinned to me for the rest of my life and all the hassle of possible bad endings. What does everyone think? My mom thinks it's great, but she's old school too.

2007-02-08 14:48:25 · 13 answers · asked by Proud Muslimaah-Beautiful Islaam 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have started to date a wonderfull woman. We both work, but she is a doctor and make a lot more than me. I've made it very clear to her that once I've cleared all my debt from a business I owned that went under, I will do just fine with the automotive company that I work for now. at dinner yesterday, she said that she wanted to start buying me some new clothes and update my style of dressing. She said, "I hope you don't have a problem with being a 'kept man' ". I explained thatI could never be 'metro' and I won't change who I am. What do you think about the 'kept man' comment?

2007-02-08 14:47:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf doesn't know the difference between being controlled (pussy whiped) and being nice to his girlfriend. ((((example: we were at a party & I wanted him to come home w/ me cuz we hadn't seen much of eachother, but he wanted to spend the night... He thought I was trying to control him )))) I put up with alot of ****, and he is so far from being "whiped" it's not even funny. He basically puts his truck, snowmobile and buddies over me, and I don't complain. He knows that sometimes I get irritated by it, but it's never because I ***** about it. I keep my mouth shut, and let him do what he wants... We only see eachother a few times a week, and he seems okay with that, but I want to be with him more... I don't want to break up with him because I love him... he just needs to get his priorities straight... do you agree?? I need outside oppinions.

2007-02-08 14:47:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 14:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alrighty, here goes. Me and this guy dated for several months, three years ago. He had to break up due to obligations to his adopted daughter (she was having issues). At the time I always knew he would be back some day, and yep, he's back. We went for dinner last week; drank, ate, talked, kissed...the chemistry is still there. My question is, he knows how I feel about him, would he have returned if he didn't feel at least partially the same about me? It's been over a week since we went out and he hasn't called to talk about getting together again. Am I being impatient? It might be helpful to know that he is somewhat shy, a loner, and doesn't make fast moves on girls. I am tearing myself up over this with my insecurity. I don't want to lose him again.

2007-02-08 14:46:50 · 3 answers · asked by mickeyg1958 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm a sophomore in highschool, and there's a freshman girl I saw who I want to get to know. I haven't really talked to her, but sometimes we make eye contact in the hallways.

I have NO classes with her, and i only see her in between some classes.

Sicne it's just between a few classes, I can't really go up to her because she's with all her friends and we don't get much time to switch classes.

I wanna go up to her, but I can almost never find her during any of the breaks or in the morning or after school.

If I did find her in the morning or after school, how would I say that I've seen her around and think she's beautiful and stuff? It kinda sounds stalker-ish to me. But I'm not sure how else to put it.

In another question, someone said that I should ask if she dropped a note, and have it say liek my name, number/e-mail or something and just disapear around the corner and not to trip on my exit lol.

would it be wierd giving some1 a note who haven't talked 2 be4?

2007-02-08 14:46:44 · 5 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Singles & Dating

I just don't know what to do. Each time my mate and I go out, he expects for me to pay. He never reach for his billfold unless I just walk away and leave him holding the check. This has been going on for over a year now. At first I didn't mind because he was unemployed but now he has been working for nine months. When he has to pay the rest of the the night is very gloomy. But if I pay for the date, he is so sweet and loving.What to do?

2007-02-08 14:46:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes my husband tells me to do things which I really don't agree with. Should I disobey him or just go along with it without question?

2007-02-08 14:46:04 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I read it on the internet. I really love a girl and I want to learn to be a better man and kind man to have her love me. I would change myself for a girl. Don't tell me to be myself. Yes, I will be myself to certain extend. But I can also change myself too. So how to be a kid at heart. She is a kind girl and about me? Not too sure. Because I like her and she is a kind person, I would like to learn how to be kind. She is my inspiration. So in short, what type of person is a kid at heart? Behave like a small kid or maybe it means basically be kind like a kid at heart?

2007-02-08 14:45:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 14:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and when we dont do her cloths like she asks she gets even mader

2007-02-08 14:44:19 · 32 answers · asked by missdiva 1 in Family

I got married 6mths ago and am having my reception next month, with a ceremony and everything. It will be pretty informal since we are legally married, we just couldn't afford the reception right away. my question is, my caterer (which will be buffet-style) said we can do paper plates or china. Is having paper plates kinda tacky? I think it is but would like to hear other opinions. It costs $2 more per person for the china.

2007-02-08 14:44:05 · 40 answers · asked by pchiz 3 in Weddings

2007-02-08 14:44:00 · 2 answers · asked by Diaci 1 in Singles & Dating

After being married so many yrs i think a husband/wife knows their spouse well enough to know that their spouse would never cheat on them.

2007-02-08 14:43:34 · 17 answers · asked by lisa c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 14:42:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 14:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by maw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend only makes about 1200 a month from his job. his ex is getting child support from him and they are taking about 600 a month from him, from my understanding they are only supposed to take 20% also $160 of it is for dental & medical insurance why does he have to pay her full medical & dental insurance? why are they taking so much? also, we have a child on the way and this just started... do his payments to her go down when our child is here because there is no way 3 people can live off of 600$ a month? and our child will be the one starving his ex makes more money than he does why is she getting so much?

he would like to see the child but she forged his name on the custody papers and now she's got full custody why, if she chose to have full custody is he paying at all? i think if a mother is denying the father his child visits he shouldnt have to pay anything.

2007-02-08 14:42:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family