Is this guy correct about women??

Question

My girlfriend was mad at me and wouldnt tell me why. So i repeatedly asked her what was wrong. After she left, my friend tapped me on the shoulder and said, next time dont keep asking. He told me to just shut my mouth. He said women want us to think about what we did. He said i dont really have to think about what i did, i just have to make her think im thinking about what i did. He said no matter how hard you try, you will never figure out what you did because he said 99 percent of the time women are mad at you is because of something so incredibly stupid that no man could ever figure out what they did. Is their any truth to my friends words. He does get around.....

Answer 1

In a way he is right. BUT not all woman are like that. That is a head game and I for one am not in to those. What you have to do is say " what is wrong with you?" If she will not answer you then you have to call her out on being a childish headgame player. Tell her that you are not in to games and she can either talk to you or SHE can think about why you do not want to talk to her. ( not a head game becausey ou have already told her that you are not in to the games. She should know it is because of the game she is playing and if she does not TELL HER) There is no reason for you to have to think about what you did because she should be woman enough ot tell you.

Answer 2

Hell yes he is right about women. And it doesn't get any better as they age or you get married. I get accused of my "tone" of voice all the time because I am a sarcastic self-proclaimed a$$hole. I could literally whisper that i dsagree with her and she tells her mother that I yelled at her.
They have different minds which work in very different ways than men. We can go play a game, beat the crap out of each other and then when the buzzer sounds, go get a beer and laugh about it. They are grudge holding, emotional nut jobs most of the time. Like the old cliche, Women...can't live with them, can't live without them.

Answer 3

"Getting around" is not the same as "knowing how a good relationship works", so just keep in mind who this fellow is. The right answer will depend on the relationship you have with this girl. If you really care about her, maybe you can talk to one of her girlfriends and find out what's going on with her. You can see if she gets over it, but if it is a serious trust issue or if you have hurt her feelings without meaning to do so, you shouldn't let it go.

Answer 4

Listen to your friend, he is wise!! If she is mad, ask her once what she is mad about. If she doesn't want "to talk about it", drop it. If you chase her like that, and keep asking, she owns you, and she will know it. She will know that she can "act mad" whenever she wants, and you will go crazy trying to figure out why. If you drop it, and get on with your life, she will either tell you what she thinks you did wrong, or get over it.

And, yes, men do this to women as well. It isn't about being mad, it is about controlling the other person.

My ex(nothing to do with this) tried this when we first started dating. I asked her once what was wrong, and if she didn't answer, I dropped it and moved on. It is almost the same as a child throwing a tantrum. If you ignore it, they will stop. If you cave in and keep asking, they will continue to do it.

Answer 5

take this from a girl if we are mad at you let us simmer for a while then ask " what did i do wrong, im sorry" thats all you {most of the time} need to say then we think that maybe whatever it was may not of been such a big deal but if you act like you sorry when your not or pretend to be trust me we know let her chill for a while then approch the situation we are hard to understand but we are not stupid to when what you say is a fact or a lie

Answer 6

your friend is right.people have different ways of handling their anger and your girlfriends behaviour is similar to that of most women.yes she wants u to think of what u did and like most men,u probably have forgotten.She might not be ready to talk now and wants to cool off herself.It could also be that she wants you to keep asking until you hit the nail on the head as to why she is mad with you.
Sometimes, the issues which men find trivial,actually hurt us.Give her sometime but in the mean time,keep being nice,get her something you feel she'll like and then i think she'll talk.
When she eventually opens up(if she does),encourage her to be more open with you cos you are only human and bound to make mistakes.good luck!

Answer 7

.she tell you as a woman he is so right man seem to always put they foot on there mouth .and woman get mad .and when men just open there mouth without thinking .some men are incredibly stupid .and yes there is truth to your friends words. now he is a man that knows.......just go back and remember that day and you well know.or ask her are you mad because of what .I said

Answer 8

This IS SO Not correct!!!!!! :-/

If the guy HAS a brain AT ALL, he'd know right away what he did to piss the girl off! The guys just want to play the "innocent" game when they ACT like they don't know what they did to begin with!!!!!!!!

IF men are stupid enough to say, "What did I do wrong? And kNOWING they DID so, then they are stupid enough to "pass the buck" like they enjoy, and say it's the woman!
99 % of the time, I must add!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Women like to stew in the anger for awhile.

Jeff Foxworthy said it best:
Act like a cop pulled you over. Don't admit to any wrongdoing, just nod your head when you hear what you did wrong.
If you try to figure women out, you will look like Frankenstein after three days.

Answer 10

Yes yes and yes

Ask her two times and the drip it; she'll let you know when she is ready, be ready to listen don’t say anything just listen.

Communication is key to any relationship, make sure she knows you know that, and tell her if your mad at me for something talk to me about so I'll know for next time.

Good luck guy.