Ideas to unawkward things on first date?

Question

I like this one girl and we;ve been friends for a while. Lately we havent talked much, only online, and rarely awknowledge eachother in the school halls. I was thinking of going to the movies or to dinner with her or something to reignite the friendship and later to expand it. Im just afraid that it will be very awkward and that ill turn her off since im not very outgoing and a little geeky and she doesnt usually lead conversations. Even the idea of her getting into my car seems awkward, not cuz of the car cuz its nice, but cuz i dont know how to communicate with her especially if its one-on-one. Any ideas? i dont know where to start. I dont talk to girls often. Regular conversation starters wont work cuz we know basic things bout each other already. Maybe we need an activity or something to do together. IDK. DOnt worry by geeky i didnt mean fat or anything, Im on a swim team so im pretty lean.

Answer 1

Talk to her about it

Answer 2

If you share a common taste in music, make sure thats playing while she's in, so that if all else fails you can talk about music.

Umm, maybe whilst in the car just talk about old time when you or her did something funny together??

Maybe you could apologise for not being as good friends as before and say you dont know what happened.

The only way you can realise how to converse with her is after you get comfortable with her, and the only way you can do that is by talking to her. I'm sure you'll have plenty to talk to her about.

Answer 3

Find something you both enjoy and try to make a date out of it. Like if you both like competition..try bowling..something to get you moving and have fun at the same time. Movies suck because 1. you aren't watching it fully because you're wondering what they're thinking and 2. you cant talk!!
Figure out a fun and motivating activity!! Something you both can talk about and enjoy!

Answer 4

Gosh, you talk too much.