which boy should i choose?

Question

well, i am going out with this guy and i really like him, but my ex-boyfriend, who i also like still wants to go back out with me, my friend didnt like him and she told me that he was cheating but he said he wasnt and shes known to lie alot, i kinda want to but i dont want to hurt my current boyfriend. hes always complaining about how he has gotten dumped bad by other gurls, and like how he wont ever dump me, but i think hes just playin self pity on me. i really need help, and fast! please help!!

Answer 1

you need to decide which one will make you happy and will be there for you when things are bad.i alwaws said an ex is an ex for a reason but to each their own.do not let either guilt you into a deceison either way take your time and make sure you are making the right choice for YOU.good luck with what ever you decide

Answer 2

sounds like both are not 'nice' guys. Your current boyfriend sounds like a whiner and eventhough your friend could be lying about your ex, maybe, just maybe, there could be some truth in it (unless of course you find out the truth yourself). You really should not listen to any of the advice given here as ultimately this is your own destiny. Listen to your heart (or guts!). What does it tell you?

Answer 3

well, if the friend who told you is known to lie and you still have feelings for the ex then your just gonna have to break the news to the current, you'll never be happy and its not love if your always thinking about some one else.i say you obviously still got feelings for the ex and if you believe he was truthful then go for if you doubt him for a secong dont ruin what you currently have.

Answer 4

I dont think u should go back to your ex, until u know what your current bf situation is. u need to clear your mind and take control. good luck