heya.. I know you folks may be a bit sick and tierd of all these hysterical girls complaining about their boy problems... well i cant promise you that im much better :P
Well okay, I am a freshman in highschool and i have a big crush on my friend dan... we do flirt a bit but it always seems more like joking around.. or niether of us really acknowledge it or try to make a big deal out of it... but i really feel something there..
However, he is really confusing me... i start to think we may be heading on the track to something more than friends but suddenly he metions a girl he hooked up with not long ago and apparently "loves", and also another girl that he dated a while back that he is still friend with
I would normally take the hint but he really does seem to flirt with me often... and today especially... he partnered with me in world history and moved near me in french yesterday...
I may be iggnorant or just blinded by love.. so if you can i would love some advice :)
2007-02-08 14:49:25 · 13 answers · asked by curls 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and again thank you for putting up with and answering a silly teenage girl question :P
2007-02-08 14:49:57 · update #1
Honey, first and foremost, not all questions asked by teenagers are silly and not all questions asked by adults are complicated. There are some of us who have experienced this before, hence, we know. Then there are some of us who have only experienced this for the first time, so, how can we be blamed? People tend to take love seriously, they want to, hence, all the questions flooding Yahoo Answers. I suggest, you ask him more about these girls. Does he still have feelings for them? If he elaborated more and said, "It doesn't matter anymore", that's fine. It's good that he opens to you. Hang out more with him. Do not rush love. The more you hang out, the more comfortable both of you will be in each other's company and the better things will work out. All the best!
2007-02-08 14:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like this guy is a flirtatious type pf person. Now I am not sure of the details, however, try this: Show him less attention, don't flirt back. Trust, there is nothing a guy wants more than a girl he can't have! Don't be mean to him nor ignore him, just try not to flirt. Also, these other girls he "talks" about, it could just be his way of trying to see if it makes you jealous. DON'T act jealous!
2007-02-08 14:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Drew C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Me and this girl started flirting and stuff when we met in 9th grade, and we are still friends. But the friendship isn't that good anymore. If he is a really good/close friend, don't do it. Something is likely to happen and when sh*t hits the fan, the friendship goes down the toilet too.
2007-02-08 14:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by slick j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that there are allot of 17% correct answer to meet your skill level with to help u, u play the way the games go at school and make the best of it, the more u c that it is chance that u are being ployed in to this or is it a head game that has u two together, look at your 17% as a gifted kid and c your own best quantum leap
2007-02-08 15:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend Dan is a little unsure of himself. Why not take the pressure off and just back off for a while. Be friendly and nice, but don't come on to him. You may be too aggressive. If he is interested, he will pursue you.
2007-02-08 14:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he were an older guy, I would say he's keeping you on the sidelines incase this doesn't work out with this other girl. But, I think there isn't much to this. I think you two are friends and tease each other. I don't think it's more than that.
2007-02-08 14:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have said it before and i will say it again. Talk to him. Comminication is the key, if you just shrug it off you will forever wonder what if. If you go for it you will have the answer.
2007-02-08 14:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, you just have too go for it and take a chance and if he doesnt want you in that way then you'll know and you wouldnt have to go through life wondering what could have been and what would have been...YAKE A CHAANCE AND LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL
2007-02-08 14:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by xoxo-gina! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is way too long. Maybe you should make your questions shorter and more people will respond. Most people will not take the time to read long questions unless they are really bored.!!
2007-02-08 14:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by kittykatmendez 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he is still fickle minded...give him more time..dont rush into things yet, u might get heartborken.
2007-02-08 14:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Calla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋