Alrighty, here goes. Me and this guy dated for several months, three years ago. He had to break up due to obligations to his adopted daughter (she was having issues). At the time I always knew he would be back some day, and yep, he's back. We went for dinner last week; drank, ate, talked, kissed...the chemistry is still there. My question is, he knows how I feel about him, would he have returned if he didn't feel at least partially the same about me? It's been over a week since we went out and he hasn't called to talk about getting together again. Am I being impatient? It might be helpful to know that he is somewhat shy, a loner, and doesn't make fast moves on girls. I am tearing myself up over this with my insecurity. I don't want to lose him again.
2007-02-08 14:46:50 · 3 answers · asked by mickeyg1958 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would question his motives. He would probably know that he would have a chance if you were still available. He might have been testing the waters so to speak. He actually may have some feelings for you. I am a shy loner myself, however, if I was in his situation I would not be so distant in trying reestablish a connection with someone I had a relationship with. If it is there then it is there. Do not let him just come around when he is ready or wait for him to call. It will just make think that has someone he can turn to during a dry spell and that is just wrong. Call him. You should waste time on someone who is not going put out some effort.
2007-02-08 14:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is shy why dont you call him?
we guys like when girl call too, ya know....and if he is a loner it might be even harder for him to call you
2007-02-08 22:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him yourself and talk to him ask whats going on. if he's moved on then u move on plain and simple. good luck
2007-02-08 22:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋