Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

what should I do with me girlfriend? I'm not saying she's all that bad but she never let's me be who I want to be. All the things that i used to do when i wasn't with her, she made me stop cause she didn't like it. Now, I feel that she doesnt except mr for who I really am. What should I do? Anyhting will help.

2007-02-08 17:50:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was going thru a divorce and met this divorced guy. We always had a good friendship but slept together thrice in December. Since our last sexual encounter, he has not wanted to have sex and said he first wants my divorce to go thru. Fair enough! but i have been divorced now for a month and he is still avoiding being intimate with me. We still see each other regularly and i tried initiating sex but he does not seem to do it. im very frustrated as i really like this guy and dont know how to approach the situation!

2007-02-08 17:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I argue on a daily bases about stupid yet serious stuff, and its really starting to irritate me. We've been together for 2 years, We never used to be like this, I know we love each other but I just want to know how can I regain that spark we had and just enjoy each other's company without having to argue.

2007-02-08 17:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Singles & Dating

I need help figuring this out. There is a friend of mine I have some collegiate extracurricular activities with, and shes into alot of the same things I am interested in. She seems to look forward to hearing from me, and I caught her looking to see if I was in the room the other day, and when we made eye contact she just smiled at me. Am I reading too much into this, or does this mean shes interested? Answers from women are especially appreciated.

2007-02-08 17:45:18 · 8 answers · asked by bolinger81380 4 in Singles & Dating

Paris vaut bien une messe - Henri IV


C'est à propos de cette cérémonie qu'il aurait prononcé ces mots : "Paris vaut bien une messe", mais des interrogations persistent sur la date et même sur l'existence de cette phrase (qui aurait pu être prononcée par son ami et conseiller Rosny, futur baron de Sully)

2007-02-08 17:44:16 · 3 answers · asked by kath_lilbraids 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 10 months. We are both very serious about this relationship and willing to try anything to make it work. But things did not go as hoped at all. We have been constantly fighting over the past 10 months. Recently, we finally agreed on a separation until we see a therapist. We are both very strong headed, talkative people, but we never communicate. He thinks I have emotional problem, careless of his feelings, and selfish. I think he is full of resentment and always assume the worst of me. I am afraid we are different in core values and family expectation. I am a very dependent, time and attention demanding person. When my demands are not met, l feel abandoned and mad. He thinks I am unreasonable, and never get enough . We have tried to talk so many times, but never worked. All we did was yelling on the phone to each other like crazy. None of us can let each other go, nor fixing the problems. Life is painful.

2007-02-08 17:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by The confused one 2 in Singles & Dating

We went out about two years ago, and havent contacted each other within 2 years because we go to diffferenct schools but next year we're going to the same high school and i dont want the cold shoulder from him. i dont know how he feels about me becus ii havent seen him so long and i dont know if he's gone out with anyone else. im kinda curious how do i talk to him before high school starts next year?

2007-02-08 17:42:14 · 13 answers · asked by xshinylishuss 1 in Singles & Dating

I play guitar and I was thinking of writing a song for my girl? but I was wondering if she would think it was too much. is it a timing thing too? like don't do it too soon?

2007-02-08 17:41:33 · 23 answers · asked by yaabro 4 in Singles & Dating

so im going to give a friend i know a stupid gift for Valentines day like a cut up paper the shape of a heart and write "Happy Valentines Day! then put her name on it" but if she starts joking around like she says this sucks. then i'll tell her fine i'll get you some chocolates or something if she says ok then i got the opening for getting her chocolates without giving her something for Valentines day and feel awkward.

2007-02-08 17:40:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought my boyfriend of 3 months a big valentines card with the lyrics of "Dear Jamie..Sincerely me" in it [His name is Jamie..and he finds it amusing to hear me sing several verses of the song to him].

Is there anything else I should get for him? We've had sex before so like something else along those lines. hahaha.

2007-02-08 17:39:11 · 8 answers · asked by Pristine 3 in Singles & Dating

Like if you know a chick likes you what do you do you play hard to get help me with your language please

2007-02-08 17:38:13 · 10 answers · asked by DKC36 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby & I found out that my daughter is not his (she was born before we were married) and now we are getting a divorce. Can we file as if we had no children since she is not his biological child but carries his name? We are in Oklahoma.
Thanks

2007-02-08 17:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by CURIOUSSAM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like do you think the uncle and his wife could try and get custody of the child

2007-02-08 17:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by rebecca a 1 in Family

so yeah im already dating someone but i met my ideal guy.. and hes totally the guy of dreams but i went in so much sh*t with my bf that letting him go is really hard... i made up my mind one time and i picked my bf but now that the ideal guy's gone it hurts me and its making me feel that its him that i wanted not my bf... and it hurts me to know that hes trying to avoid me... do i like him or is it just because i dont wanna loose him as a friend??

2007-02-08 17:34:43 · 5 answers · asked by honey bunches of oats 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 17:34:29 · 25 answers · asked by wel-come 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 17:34:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

normally i'm about 3" but when im..errected..im 6"..is that small?

2007-02-08 17:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by Philip M 1 in Singles & Dating

My good friend Yue Hong promised to have lunch with me on Friday. So, I cancelled off all the appointment including the farewell lunch with a colleague whose last day is also Friday. But out of the sudden, Yue Hong asked me for lunch on yesterday (Thursday) as he thought he can get his CDRW back from me with movies there. But quite disappointingly, he did not get it.

So today when I asked him for lunch, he said he wanted to have lunch with his colleague after meeting! and now I was left alone in the office like loneranger ghost floating around here and there.

Should I trust him anymore? by the way, he is chinese!

2007-02-08 17:31:47 · 11 answers · asked by YueHong 1 in Friends

im going to leave and move back with my son and ex as i miss our family. my current b/f did not get the point over 16 months that he has let his mom interfer i have grown tired,stressed, depressed and at wits end. did i love him? yes but i thought i was dating him not mommy too. we never do nothing go anywhere or have a life. the past summer the most we did was went fishing which i enjoy. however, mommy made it a big deal. if i go back home it wont be like this. i will have my space. and love, if it comes around okay. if not im content. i wont cheat i firmly believe in being faithfull to the person your with. i feel sad for my boyfriend who will hate me like all his other numbers but im not happy here. no room to breath. opinions please?he wont die? i think she wants me to feel guilty and boss me like him.

2007-02-08 17:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by greg b 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl in my class, but we've never talked before. For valentines day i wanna give her a home made card
is this a good idea for a first impression?
any other BETTER ideas?

2007-02-08 17:30:22 · 8 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem with trust. I was in an abusive marriage for 9 years. Ive been divorced for a year. I am now engaged to a wonderful man. Well he accidently send me a picture on my messenger, then canceled it. I ask, can I see it, what was it? He said sure, you can see it. Well, It was a picture of 4 other guys and 2 girls. And one of the girls was wearing his hat. He wasn't standing by her in the picture or anything, but automatically I think he is cheating. He explains to me that the girl is his friends cousin and she is 15 years old, and she wore his hat because it was raining outside and he was being polite? Does this make sense to anybody else? The girl does not look 15 ! Its so hard for me to believe him. I can't tell if he is lying or not. And I don't want to run from what could possibly be the best thing in my life. Anybody got any suggestions before I screw this one up?

2007-02-08 17:29:38 · 7 answers · asked by Sonya_&_Ayad 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a(good )friend owns a bar and another (semi)friend who does catering. the caterer did a job at this bar but the price was to high so by mutual agreement they will no longer use her for catering since the caterer won't go down in price. well for superbowl party i offered to bring fried chicken. turned out i ended up doing a whole feast. 100 pc. fried chicken, 3 different salads,chips guac and salsa, cornbread other chips and dips. veggie tray etc. all homemade stuff for 50 people. my bar owner friend asked me and since they are friends i agreed to do it. some other people were supposed to help but never did so i did it solo. my cater friend called and invited us to superbowl we declined because of the plans i had(she knew i was cooking) 4 days go by and i get a vicious call saying she heard i did quite the spread and how could i "f" her over like that. she was livid! did i dis her or is she wrong? i did not do it for $ i did it for all my friends. they paid for food only.

2007-02-08 17:28:06 · 4 answers · asked by jezbnme 6 in Friends

2007-02-08 17:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by love 1 in Friends

2007-02-08 17:26:42 · 18 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm with this guy right now and I'm not really happy at all. He Doesn't make me feel special and I've been with him for 6 months and he hasn't even told me loves me once (my first real bf told me he loved me after a month or two). He doesn't have a job and he smokes weed and sells it and I'm trying to get away from smoking because I think it may be making me sick. I Just feel so sad sometimes and I hate to break other people's heart but I also think I Deserve to feel Love...
There another guy I talk to online and He seems like he'd be a better person for me, He doesn't smoke and never has and we have some common interests but he lives Kinda far away,..Should I leave the guy I'm with now and try and get with the other guy??

2007-02-08 17:26:32 · 8 answers · asked by ♥♡♪♫☆♥♡♪♫☆ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 17:25:20 · 51 answers · asked by Devil Dog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I not let go of him. He is the typical Pisces, I am the typical Virgo, and sometimes I just wonder why I like him so much.

Pisces opinions especially.

2007-02-08 17:25:11 · 5 answers · asked by Femme 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Spanish? Deutch? French? German? British?

2007-02-08 17:24:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please, no weird answers...he is a great kid.

2007-02-08 17:24:27 · 9 answers · asked by Corona 5 in Family

2007-02-08 17:23:38 · 40 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce