2007-02-08 17:26:42 · 18 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on a lot of things. The woman, for one. Every woman is going to be different. Also has to do with the amount of stress in her life. It's hard for a woman to have a high sex drive if she's worried about everything else on her mind. Not only that but if she DOES have a lot on her mind she most likely won't enjoy it. Women, unlike men, have to be mentally ready to have sex first before she can really be physically aroused. Where as, men are more visual and physically, aroused easier. It's a mental f*** for her. I hate it when my man just bluntly looks at me and says "I'm horny" or "wanna f***"? It's like when a man says to his woman what are YOU cooking for supper tonight? It's so unromantic and unspontaneous. It's like being ordered to do it. Then if the man insists anyways sex becomes just another thing she HAS to do in the day. It's when sex becomes too routine to her when her libido takes a serious nose dive. Women need spontaneous and "new ideas" sex. (TIP: try a back rub first without any suggestion of sex and just let it happen. It'll rid her mind of all the stress of the day. After that, she'll be puddy in your hands. Trust me.) Age can also play a role. Women can love the chase just as much as men. That has a lot to do with why sex is more frequent in the beginning of relationships and then tapers off a bit after marriage besides the routine part of it. I think a woman's sex drive can be just as high if not sometimes higher than a man's. Women just won't let men know that. We love that we have a sense of control in that part of relationships. Then there comes the chase factor again. Women know that if they let their man know just how high their sex drive is they won't try as hard.
2007-02-08 17:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Eulalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women's sex drives are differnt than mens. this is not an answer of how high or low a womans sex drive is that differs from woman to woman. Woman and men get turned on by differnt things, woman and men also think differntly about sex.
2007-02-09 01:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by tabby_tigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean desire than absolutely, but what prompts us is very different. I think that's why many men think women could care less. I think most women need to feel connected to have sex, and men need sex to feel connected. I think its more about the approach than the lack of interest. Does that make sense to you?
2007-02-09 01:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by firecracker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! People who believe that aren't grounded in reality.
Consider:
1. Men don't pracitice the world's oldest profession, but rather it's women. Men don't sit on bar stools selling themselves.
2. We're all familiar with "strategic headaches." Why would women have them if they wanted sex all of the time like men?
3. We're all familiar with "faking it." Why would they need to fake it if their feelings were real?
4. Learning from animals, we can see hens trying to escape from the rooster.
5. Surveys have revealed that women would much rather watch soap operas than have sex. In my opinion if the truth were known, some of them might even rather do household chores, unless they love their husband immensely.
2007-02-09 01:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Joe C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It just really depends on the woman-
some have sex drives that are equal to
or stronger than a man's sex drive.
2007-02-09 01:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes more than the man. The man tires quickly from giving, but the girl does not. The main thing is that the girl needs a lot of foreplay to get aroused.
2007-02-09 01:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!!
Haha...no seriously, it's not. Actually women can have higher sex drives than men. I know mine is higher than my boyfriend's.
It has to do with how women feel about themselves and their relationships.
For men...well, hell, I don't know. I don't have a penis!
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2007-02-09 01:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♠Gotham♠ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard their sex drive is roughly the same, but not at the same points in life necessarily. And we sure do know they manifest themselves differently.
2007-02-09 01:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably in the younger generation the mans sex drive is the strongest...but as folks age the men lose it as the woman reaches her sexual peak...can b e very frustrating.............
2007-02-09 01:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, both change during life. Men's wan and women's wax. Keeps the procreating moving right along.
2007-02-09 01:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋