Should I believe him?

Question

I have a problem with trust. I was in an abusive marriage for 9 years. Ive been divorced for a year. I am now engaged to a wonderful man. Well he accidently send me a picture on my messenger, then canceled it. I ask, can I see it, what was it? He said sure, you can see it. Well, It was a picture of 4 other guys and 2 girls. And one of the girls was wearing his hat. He wasn't standing by her in the picture or anything, but automatically I think he is cheating. He explains to me that the girl is his friends cousin and she is 15 years old, and she wore his hat because it was raining outside and he was being polite? Does this make sense to anybody else? The girl does not look 15 ! Its so hard for me to believe him. I can't tell if he is lying or not. And I don't want to run from what could possibly be the best thing in my life. Anybody got any suggestions before I screw this one up?

Answer 1

Don't let your suspicion to run wild, it can only cause a breakup. Maybe u are right, maybe your inference is correct, still there is no need to be suspicious. If something does not make sense, don't point your fingers at him and say that he is cheating. Relax, what does'nt make sense today, will someday make sense when the full picture is unfurled. Today, u have only a birds eye view. Your suspicious nature may break your relation today, but when u find out that your suscpicions were baseless and incorrect, it may be too late. U can't easily mend a broken relation. so, don't be suspicious.

Answer 2

Ask to meet his friends cousin!
Better yet, do some following sometimes..
If you have uncertainties about his faithfulness to you then it wouldn't be wise to get too 'deeply' involved with him until you feel sure you can trust him completely, which you obviously don't right now!!
I had suspicions when I was engaged and only three weeks away from my marrige date.
A friend of mine went with me to follow my fiance', and 'low and behold' I caught him out-
side a local nightclub, in the shadows of parked cars, standing up and screwing some slag of a woman up against her van.. And just think, he had told me he was working late that night, well, 'he sure was wasn't he!!
I'm glad I followed my instincts, as it kept me from marrying a 'con' man..A real loser!!

Answer 3

You have every right to be paranoid but you should really relax because trust is something that takes time to build. When you get screwed over you have a hard time trusting anyone (been their done that). But you might just be jumping to a conclusion that could ruin your relationship. So just let time take its course.

Answer 4

as a results of fact the angel Gabriel instructed me that Jimmy Carter will improve into the Antichrist aka Dajjal (8th King in Rev. 17) and he will serve yet yet lower back era in place of work after the loss of lifestyles of Obama (seventh king). The angel Gabriel instructed me in Aug. 1973 whilst i became in Phillipsbrug, Montana that Jimmy Carter will improve into the Anti-Christ, and that he is going to alter his call, and divorce his spouse! Obama is going to die first after which the Anti-Christ aka Dajjal who became between the previous 7 Presidents will take his place! Rev. 17:10 And there are seven kings: 5 are fallen, and one is, [and] the different isn't yet come; and whilst he cometh, he ought to proceed a short area. All 7 kings have been all alive till the loss of lifestyles of Ronald Reagan June 5, 2004 whilst George W. Bush became in place of work ; one million. Gerald Ford 2. Jimmy Carter 3. Ronald Reagan 4. George H. W. Bush 5. bill Clinton 6. George W. Bush.... is spoken of interior the present demanding (and one is) as a results of fact till Reagan died (June 5, 2004) all 7 have been alive! 7. Barack Obama.......and one is yet to come again! he will die some days after he will improve taxes! Obama is likewise in Dan. eleven:20 Then shall upward push up in his supplies a raiser of taxes [in] the attention of the dominion: yet interior few days he would be destroyed, neither in anger, nor in conflict. Rev. 17:eleven And the beast that became, and isn't, even he's the 8th, and is of the seven, and goeth into perdition.

Answer 5

I think man are professional liers. but if this is the only reason u have ..i will give him a chance. (but check his phone and every thing u can.) I don't think i will never ever trust in a man again. But u can be wrong abt u man. give him a chance.

Answer 6

Well does this person have a habit of lying to you? Your the one that knows him. If he does not lie to you then why would he choose to do so now?

Answer 7

sounds like he's telling the truth, anyways, nice guys are polite, it's something i would do