We went out about two years ago, and havent contacted each other within 2 years because we go to diffferenct schools but next year we're going to the same high school and i dont want the cold shoulder from him. i dont know how he feels about me becus ii havent seen him so long and i dont know if he's gone out with anyone else. im kinda curious how do i talk to him before high school starts next year?
2007-02-08 17:42:14 · 13 answers · asked by xshinylishuss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do u still haf feelings for him becoz frm ur question, it seems that u are still veri concern over what is happening around him.
If u are onli thinking of being back as friends, u can actualli msg him thru msn, handphone or simply drop him an email by starting a conversation on hearing that the both of u will be enrolled in the same high sch n asked him which class or what subjects he is taking or intending to take. This might build a bridge btw u 2 to become frens again.
2007-02-08 17:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by (^InLove^) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to feel weird no matter what, but that goes away. Just tell him what's on your mind. Let him know that since you will bump into each other at school, you want to make sure it's on good terms.
You're very young, life is long, and you will definitely find other boys, but if he was your first boyfriend he'll always have a special place in your heart. Don't confuse that with thinking he's "the one."
2007-02-08 17:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly towards him and show him, without gushing, that you can still be friends, come what may. Don't pressure him or try to coax information about his present status. Let him volunteer this information - remember, it's personal. Just go with the flow but don't push. Just talk about the things people talk about when they haven't seen each other for a while. Be relaxed yet interested. Encourage him to talk if you can't think of anything to say when that moment comes. Be a good listener. We all like good listeners.
2007-02-08 17:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to mutual friends. You said nothing about how things ended, so it is impossible to give you any better advice.
If you dumped him, he would rather walk on broken glass than have you talk to him.
If he dumped you, he might be easily willing to be nice to you.
You said that you were together for two years. Do you think that a guy is just going to think, "Oh, well. That's life!"
NO!
Be careful. If you handle it with no thought of his feelings, he will lash out by telling others bad things about you.
2007-02-08 17:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a special effort to contact him, but if you see each other say Hi, and if you want you can just talk casual, enough time has passed that you should be able to get along. Good Luck....
2007-02-08 17:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Thank you for making me a better person / lover. I'll pick up those lessons that i learned when I was with you. Best of luck to you." Then just walk out with no expectation that he would say something nice back to you. If he wants to talk to you, he will comes to you.
2007-02-08 17:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a call, at least you will know if he wants to still be friends by the way he acts on the phone. Sometimes that is better than in person.
2007-02-08 17:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...it's highschool. People get over it.
Y'all went out in Junior High I'm guessing?? or was it Elementary??
2007-02-08 17:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You treat him like you treat any one else Hi, How have you been? You can say that in a lot of ways. Sounds like you want more. If so use those eyes. . .
2007-02-08 17:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him freely as a friend. don't try to know anything detail but ask how he is & everything going on with him.
2007-02-08 17:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by Cindarella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋