Ok so I'm with this guy right now and I'm not really happy at all. He Doesn't make me feel special and I've been with him for 6 months and he hasn't even told me loves me once (my first real bf told me he loved me after a month or two). He doesn't have a job and he smokes weed and sells it and I'm trying to get away from smoking because I think it may be making me sick. I Just feel so sad sometimes and I hate to break other people's heart but I also think I Deserve to feel Love...
There another guy I talk to online and He seems like he'd be a better person for me, He doesn't smoke and never has and we have some common interests but he lives Kinda far away,..Should I leave the guy I'm with now and try and get with the other guy??
2007-02-08 17:26:32 · 8 answers · asked by ♥♡♪♫☆♥♡♪♫☆ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, the other guy lives about a 30minute drive so It's not that long distance...
2007-02-08 17:36:54 · update #1
I'm not sure if you should leave him for this other guy but i think you should leave him. 6 months of putting up with no love is 6 months wasted.
2007-02-08 17:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your current boyfriend is bad news. Seeing the grass greener on the other side made you realize that, and you should appreciate the second guy for that. However, don't rush right into a relationship with him either. For one, it'll make it look like a rebound relationship to everyone involved, and two you need to be comfortable being single at least a couple of weeks before you get into another relationship or you'll be a relationship hopper and be all needy if you're not with someone. (I was like that for a few years, so trust me on that!)
2007-02-09 02:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the zero and get with a hero there is alot of fish in the Ocean although maybe long distance relationships let alone internet relationship may not be a personal favorite
2007-02-09 01:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jose P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to grow up and have kids. Your smoking can cause birth defects. . .And watch out for "guys" on line. You really don't know who you are talking to. Don't be in such a hurry. Don't define yourself by who loves you. Learn to love yourself first and the rest will follow. And stay away from the worthless ones if you are looking for love. Would you really want to be with someone like that for the rest of your life? Work on improving yourself and the one you are looking for will come to you.
2007-02-09 01:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, if you don't feel loved, and you disapprove of your current man's occupation, I would reccomend leaving him first. Then, keep in touch with Mr. Long Distance, but just date around some. Find someone who appreciates you. Dont just look for someone better than your druggie bf, look for someone who would be BEST for you.
2007-02-09 01:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like u have nothign to lose anyway. it is a pity thou u didn't write which country u live and which country your new guy from the net lives. he might be just using u to get to civilized country or for some tourism
2007-02-09 01:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but your current boyfriend sounds like a loser to me.
You can do so so much better.
2007-02-09 01:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by LS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him! he's no good for you..
your just punishing your self... we only live life once so enjoy... you deserve to be happy...
good! luck!
2007-02-09 01:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋