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My boyfriend and I argue on a daily bases about stupid yet serious stuff, and its really starting to irritate me. We've been together for 2 years, We never used to be like this, I know we love each other but I just want to know how can I regain that spark we had and just enjoy each other's company without having to argue.

2007-02-08 17:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

every couple suffers this situation after 1 or 2 years.
now wat u have to do is trying to look for sth else u r interested or can concentrate on. .
tat's realy good u said u still love each other. coz if there is still love, everything can be solved.
u love, tat's why u argue.coz u care. the same with him.

so just think its not only ur problem, its his also.
just imagine, some day u suddenly have one great make ups and behave cutely, then u will see some shining lights from his eyes....
BEST OF LUCK.

2007-02-08 18:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 0 0

Life is to be enjoyed and if its pride thats getting in the way let it go.Admit when your wrong and try to point out good things about your boyfriend.Have patience and think about what your going to say before you say it.Before you argue think about if its really that important?The more you show him how loving kind prideless and patient you are the more he'll want to change and not to argue with you,he'll see the good in you and maybe that spark will come back little by little.Do things together like fitness or a sport you like to get your mind off your minds too!You should structure the times when you have serious issues to bring up like make a time to talk about it and dont get up until you come to some kind of agreement this will make the fights less frequent and more serious,not just throwing anger back and forth.I hope you work this out because it'd be sad to let true love go!

2007-02-09 07:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 2 · 0 0

Honestly, you've got to step back and truly evaluate the relationship. Do you still get that lurch in your stomach when you see him? Or do you just spend your time bickering? Do you love every minute you spend with him? What is it you usually argue about? If they're just silly little things, maybe it'll only take one side (you) to help that improve and get back to the way it used to be. If you really love this guy, and I mean really as in you're not in it for selfish reasons but for the happiness it brings you both, then you can work this out together. Talk through it with him and let him know what you've been thinking about. Good luck with him girl. Just remember to do what's best for you!

2007-02-09 02:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by iluvatm 2 · 0 0

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost four years and we would argue alot too but it was because i found out he cheated on me when we first got together well we finally got over it and all i want is us to be happy...i would cry like everyday because of him but now everything goes way better because he tells me he loves me and shows me love and I do the same and we dont even argue anymore AT ALL
both of yal need to show eachother that yal care for eachother then everything will get better

2007-02-09 02:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by jessica p 3 · 0 0

When you both know its irritating you should know where to stop.Whenever an arguement is about to start,turn the conversation somewhere else.

2007-02-09 02:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0 0

that is how my bf and i right now....we argue constantly and i guess thats what happens wen u have been together for a long time....try to do this (dis is wat i m trying now) wen ur going to start arguing change da subject or dont even mention that subject and things will go good.

2007-02-09 01:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0 0

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