Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

He can say or do something, and think it is ok, or make excuses for why he did it, but if i do or say the same thing, he gets mad!and then he wants to compare me to him, and be critical and judgemental, and point out all my faults, and then excuse his own....and also, after he attacks me verbally, and says horrible things, he will play it down , and try to put his own spin on what happened, so that he doesn't look so bad for whatever he did or said....any advice would be appreciated!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-08 17:01:13 · 14 answers · asked by Donna L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 17:00:09 · 3 answers · asked by Steven A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is the average size. I think i am small at 4 1/2" but wife says i am normal size. i was a virgin when wwe got married and she was not. so not sure she is telling the truth. We have been married 12 yrs but always wondered.

2007-02-08 16:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by chefyooper3 1 in Singles & Dating

Even years later? My Grandma has been gone since June 4, 2003 and I got to see her about an hour after she passed away and she looked like she was just sleeping in her bed. I guess that's why I don't have closure. She just did not look gone. I miss her badly and I love her and I know she would be proud of me and my 2 little kids. I am sad that I don't get to see her in person but I feel like she never really left me. I guess I never got that kind of closure. I have her picture still in the frame. My mother says I need to just "get over" my Grandma, but she doesn't show emotions outwardly like I do. My mother's reaction to the way I grieve is, "Why are you still sad about this you need to get over it." Mind you, I get on with my life just fine I just have moments when I really miss her and wish I had her to hug.

2007-02-08 16:58:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-08 16:56:59 · 13 answers · asked by sweetdumplin10 2 in Friends

20 year age bachler,not very smart but a good freind

2007-02-08 16:55:47 · 8 answers · asked by lucky 1 in Singles & Dating

For example: If a girl had never had a boyfriend or kissed etc until she was 18, she would be considered a good girl/innocent. But if a boy had never had a girlfriend until this age and had never kissed then people would think he is a loser and/or call him gay.

Also if a girl loses her "innocence" before she is 15 and/or has a lot of boyfriends then she is called a "slu*" but if a boy does it then he is a "player"

Why is this so?

2007-02-08 16:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 16:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today, a boy (a guy but I call him the boy) asked me, "well....i'm craving for pizza...if you'd like to have dinner with me after work...give me a call...i don't want you to starve or anything!"

What do you think? Yes/No? How long to wait? I do like him but am unsure if it's something more....

2007-02-08 16:53:02 · 12 answers · asked by idodgesubs313 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married, and so is she - both of us are not interested in leaving our spouses. However, we love each other. Do you think a relationship like the one in the movie Same Time Next Year is really possible?

2007-02-08 16:52:23 · 9 answers · asked by striker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that simple im 35 and ive never hugged/kissed/had any relaionship with a female (or anyone for that matter!) not sure but im getting the nagging feeling i will die alone.... well not too big of a deal but i would like to try talking to a girl once... first of as a girl do you find mine my age wih ZERO experiance with women odd? and guys how do you sugget a guy like me approach a women... i think im a bit old for the club/bar scene (which ive never been to) and i DONT want to come of as creep, id rather be alone hat freaking people out because thats not what im about.. okay any help welcomed

2007-02-08 16:51:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does that mean he respects me or something? What kind of a statement is that?

2007-02-08 16:51:57 · 4 answers · asked by you_confuse 1 in Singles & Dating

Is he too intimidated by VS.
I think its sexy for men to buy their women lingerie and he just refuses to do it!

2007-02-08 16:51:09 · 17 answers · asked by ahafner2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have gotten myself into a situation where I am living with a person who wants me to remain in a relationship with them when I do not have the same level of interest as I once did. The person is a nice guy who has made an effort to be there for me but I just do not feel love for him. He keeps asking me what he did that was wrong or why he deserves to be punished when all he did was be there for me, etc. and he asks for an explanation as to why but when I have said the things I am thinking feeling he continues to press for more when there really isn't more. And when I present answers to him that he cant/wont accept he then tells me that I haven't given him a chance and then goes on to insist I give him an opportunity for him to prove his worth. I have no doubt in my mind that he is a great guy who will take care of someone but I just have no remaining interest in it being me.
So how can I get through to him to let him know whats what? I tried being nice.

2007-02-08 16:50:55 · 13 answers · asked by job_hunt_07 1 in Singles & Dating

I have fallen in love with my boss, i really like her and dont know what to do, the problem is that she is married , im abour to quit that job becuz i found one better, but i owuld like to know if she has even noticed me, i would really like to tell her but i dont know how, not even im sure if i should what do you all think ?

2007-02-08 16:50:43 · 14 answers · asked by sabin_f5 3 in Singles & Dating

broken up and faught till the point where we are screaming and yelling at each other. There is a age gap about a year a and some change but she is barely out of highschool and im on my third semester of college. NEWYZ should i stay with her or should i use what has happened to us so many time as a indecation that we cant be together?

2007-02-08 16:49:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after you had a one night stand or made love to/with that person for the first time?

And things feel different since then?

2007-02-08 16:47:44 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's a long story...so i'll try to make it short. Me and my ex-husband, might i add we married each other 2 times, we're together for about 10 yrs. We have a 5yr daughter. He is in love w/a girl that lives in another state and see's her between 1 and 3 times a month. He still calls me for sex and friends, and i just found out that they have had sex. Which it's hard for me cause i want him back, but he say's he's crazy over her and has to figure it out. Neither one of them will give in and make the move to be w/each other. He told me the other day he was jealous as hell over me and couldn't bare the sight of me even talking to other guy's but he's gone out w/her to clubs too and even watched her dance w/ other guy's and he did not get jealous at all....thats what he says. So any advice on this would be greatful. If you can at least answer the "jealousy" thing it would be helpful but if you have any advice on the rest....TY!

2007-02-08 16:47:31 · 5 answers · asked by ;p 1 in Singles & Dating

my problem is a bit complicated.

I have a girlfriend that I love with all of my heart. no doubt.

but I also have a close friend. a friend I used to have feelings for.

a friend I still have feelings for.

the first day I knew that I loved her, I was going to tell her.

this was around november, I believe.

but I found out she was taken that same day.

somebody beat me to the punch.

I thought "no big deal. I'll just wait for her"

I waited and waited and waited and waited and waited and waited and waited.

And one day I became fed up.

I gave up.

in early january.

and I tried to get over her.

the day everything changed..it seemed like another normal day.

I called a random phone number I was given a few days earlier.

I was talking to my current girlfriend.

I saw my friend again, after about a week of not talking to her.

she said she broke up with her boyfriend.

the guy had a bunch of hickies on his neck. he said he got drunk and didn't know what he was doing.

I tried to comfort her.

but I knew that if I did..

I would just fall in love with her again.

And I did.

while I was still with my girlfriend.

I began to think I wanted to leave my girlfriend to be with my close friend.

something told me that my friend loved me.

for whatever reasons.

I tried to make absolutely certain.

the only thing that happened.

was that I feel in love with my girlfriend yet again.

she was unaware of all the things I was feeling.

(keep in mind..I didn't cheat on her in any way. I just had thoughts..)

I thought it was all over between me and my best friend.

well.

that was until I saw her with her ex again.

it drove me nuts.

I saw the two together, and I couldn't control my emotions. I nearly lost it.

and I made a decision.

me and my best friend..we go to the same school together.

the more I see her, the more I think about her.

and I began to think I wanted to leave to my girlfriend's school.

that wouldn't really work out..

but one of my other friends told me something my best friend said about me.

she said I was stuipid for wanting to leave my school just to be with my little girlfriend.

it angered me.

it made me convert all my feelings for my friend into feelings for my girlfriend.

I know you probably think I'm nuts, by this point..

I don't know. I just don't know.

I'm at my wits end.

somebody help me clear this thing up.

2007-02-08 16:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats your choice?

2007-02-08 16:44:44 · 20 answers · asked by firshizel 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for awhile off and on and recently we've been fighting a lot or he will do a lot of things that bother me. It's coming to a point where I really don't want to be with him anymore. And on top of this, I think I'm begining like another guy. What should I do?

2007-02-08 16:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is in 7th grade, ok... a boy in her class likes or (liked her) but she went out with him and then broke up with him the next day because she wasn't very sure about it. Helloooo she's only 12yrs old!! i told her to stay away..anyway now one of her "best friends" who supposedly was helping her to be with him again has suddenly fell in love with him too (or at least it looks like it) Now she is poisoning everybody against her including him (i think) I told her to take revenge...go out with him..slap her little st*pid friend and get new and better friends....any suggestions???...thanks...I'm 19yrs old.

2007-02-08 16:43:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all, how many of you believe that marriage is a neccessary thing in life to do, and why do you think so?

2007-02-08 16:42:58 · 24 answers · asked by rahul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 16:42:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering what makes a person commit such a crime? And if women dont like it then why dont they report themselves being raped? Do they secretly like the fact that someone likes them so much they'd do anything to get with them?

2007-02-08 16:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by alltheladies009 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend, the love of my life, and me were sneaking around cause he's dating some other girl cause his mom doesn't like me and she approves of this girl. we dated for 4 years and he's everything to me. i let it go though cause i don't feel like i should be the other woman, i should be the only woman, if he really loved me. i've done everything, but i feel like somethings not right. he is financially dependent on his mom and she's real controlling over him.its real sickening. and he hasn't made any effort to get a job and get moving. so i took a step back and im moving along, as best i can though it hurts so much. i know it will take time. its the smartest decision i've made =( i'd like some thoughts on my dilemma, keep them positive please. thanks

2007-02-08 16:41:54 · 11 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone recently confessed to me that he is desperately trying to hide his feelings for our mutual friend, who is currently and obliviously in a loving relationship with someone else. What should I tell him?

2007-02-08 16:40:26 · 6 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean we had sex for a long time and just for the last few months he doesnt want to do anything like have sex or take showers together anymore and im just lost..I dont know if im doing anything wrong so pleaseeeee help me and what should i do?

2007-02-08 16:39:27 · 18 answers · asked by whiskeygirl410 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 16:38:42 · 4 answers · asked by enchanted_dreamer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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That's him
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That's me

I'm usually never a shallow person but in the past two years I've been with this guy who is totally out of my league in everyway possible and I don't know why he picked me at all. 8 girls have crushed on him and only 1 dude has crushed on me since the start of our relationship. I know I'm not supposed to care about those sorts of things but in the back of my mind the thought of us not working out because of my insecurity consumes me. I know I love him and he claims to love me to, however I feel that I am wasting his time. Is there anyway to boost my self esteem up without plastic surgery? Should I tell him how I feel or will I sound crazy?

2007-02-08 16:38:19 · 5 answers · asked by Kismet 3 in Other - Family & Relationships