We live separately. We want to exchange our things for good. We made a "tape" with a home video camera about a year ago. He's demanding to swap everything but the tape, which he says he doesn't know where it is, BUT I asked for it back once before when we thought we were over for good (about 7 months ago) and he said “Too bad, I hid it.” I explained to him that it was important to me and he shrugged his shoulders and said with a smug look, “Well, you’re out of f’n luck.” For the past year he has never told me where it was even when 1) he knew how important it was to me 2) things were great between us and 3) we were happily engaged. What guarantee do I have now that he’ll look for it if he has all of his things back? None. So am I wrong for witholding the exchange of items (including the ring) until he produces the tape? What should I do if he doesn't produce it? Or should I just forget about it and let him watch it and miss me? Haha. Input please! Thank you
2007-02-08
15:50:52
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CaliBlueBell
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