2007-02-08 15:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by bw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been staying with eachother each weekends and plan on getting married he lives far away.our families are okay with it too. i would just like others opinions
2007-02-08 16:29:17 · update #1
To be entirely honest., I don't believe. you want to hear the right answer.
Why do I say that?Because you've appended your question with " i love him very much".
Ok, you " love Him". then surely it's ok to do what ever he wants, even if it means disrespecting yourself and acting like a live in whore. No offense, but if you are ready to live with him and he is ready to live with you then why not get married. Too soon you say, i agree, then isn't it too soon to have sex and risk having a baby or then opportunity to have an abortion that is inarguably avoidable. isn't it "too soon" to pretend your married, living with someone is not a test run. if you want to set yourself up to go from man to man to man and never demanding the respect a woman ought to receive, then yes move in because you "love him"
2007-02-08 16:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by y_qadash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you, in my personal opinion, it's to soon to move in with your boyfriend. I really hope that you wait for at least a year before you move in with him.
2007-02-08 23:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel M.......my suggestion: hold tight to your autonomy and your own place. Please don't be in such a rush to co habitate. Develop the relationship with him while keeping your own place, your own interests, your own goals. So much more healthier that way........
2007-02-09 00:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your really in love.....just make sure you know what you doing that's a big step. i did it...were not together., but it had nothing to do with the living arrangement
2007-02-08 23:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!! and you know it or you wouldnt be asking.
2007-02-09 00:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋