I have fallen in love with my boss, i really like her and dont know what to do, the problem is that she is married , im abour to quit that job becuz i found one better, but i owuld like to know if she has even noticed me, i would really like to tell her but i dont know how, not even im sure if i should what do you all think ?
2007-02-08 16:50:43 · 14 answers · asked by sabin_f5 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hellooooo she's married!!!!!!!! stay away from married guy'girls...there's someone waiting for them at home who loves them....you wouldnt' want someone to be checking out your wife's a** right?????
2007-02-08 16:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old adage: proximity breeds familiarity. Meaning, the closer you are to and the longer you are around someone, you develop feelings that otherwise normally wouldn't occur. It's quite possible that you have a crush simply because you are around her a lot. Once you start your new job, I bet these feelings will diminish on their own. If I were you, I wouldn't tell her because 1) she is married and not available to you, 2) it could affect the time you have left on your job (or your reference from there later), 3) it could ruin what is a good relationship/friendship that you have now, and 4) it could cause her trouble in her marriage and I'm sure you don't want to be responsible for that. Good luck in your new job and in finding a nice, single girl to start a relationship!.
2007-02-08 17:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen hun one quick word of advice - never ever tell a women out of the blue that you love her - she will run like hell. Or in your case, fire your *** quicker than you can say "HELP".
And then ofcourse, are you very sure that you are really in love with her? Isn't it maybe just a crush? Or lust? If it is simply lust, then take another approach. I don't know if you have any social events at your workplace but try to corner her oneday (gently ofcourse or she'll do the running / firing thing). Don't spoil the moment by saying anything stupid like "you really like her" or "I have fallen in love with you". Simply corner her and kiss the daylights out of her. Not too long a kiss - just a short, dazzling kiss. The kind that would make her knees go numb. - And then turn around and walk away!!!.
Don't stay long enough for the slap or for any words to be spoken. Just leave. Never mention that kiss again and never try and flirt with her at the office after that. treat her as you always would. I promise you - if she feels at all anything for you, SHE will come looking!!!.
Good Luck
2007-02-08 17:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Aneska G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget it. She's married. You don't need to go down that road.
You're going to a new job. Chances are you may meet a nice SINGLE girl and you wouldn't want to have to explain to her someday about how you made a fool of yourself pursuing a married woman.
Besides, her husband might be the jealous type. You're not ready for a tombstone yet, are you???
2007-02-08 16:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by miri-miri-off-the-wall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 23:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, alot of drama is going to come with that. And if she's married I think you should just leave her alone bcuz married women dont get a divorce to fast and if you havent left the job yet, personal life could effect your business life.
2007-02-08 16:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea.The most important thing to remember is that she is married, you need to find a new job, and move on...I'm sorry, it will be ok though. Take care.
2007-02-08 16:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause she married doesn't mean they don't have problems so I will say in touch with her and one day with the she has a problem with her husband it be your shoulder she come crying on
2007-02-08 17:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back up Bucko!!!She's married & your gonna be jobless!
2007-02-08 17:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-08 16:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋