For example: If a girl had never had a boyfriend or kissed etc until she was 18, she would be considered a good girl/innocent. But if a boy had never had a girlfriend until this age and had never kissed then people would think he is a loser and/or call him gay.
Also if a girl loses her "innocence" before she is 15 and/or has a lot of boyfriends then she is called a "slu*" but if a boy does it then he is a "player"
Why is this so?
2007-02-08 16:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a question that has been asked for generations. Eve started it. It is Eve's fault. Do you think it is Eve's fault that women have periods and suffer every month? I am a 58 year old virgin and my children and grandchildren will tell you that too.
2007-02-08 17:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well really its the same just the way people have taken it in...a player is a slut and a loser is a innocent guy/girl. A player is more than likely to have a STD just like a slut so to me they are the same and they are the cause of the spread most STD's. A loser or a good girl is more than likely to have a good career or to end up married in his/her 20's. To me people just try to fit in to much which is why most teens have low self esteem now days. I just be me and Im not a player but alot of people accept me as who I am because Im just down to earth and I could be a player but I have better things to do in life then to get an STD by a slut. Players go with the sluts and the sluts go with the players..have you ever noticed that? And that means if one of them has a disease then most of them have it.
2007-02-09 01:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Memphis10Grizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the library and pick up a book called "The Moral Animal" by Robert Wright...
2007-02-09 01:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls and guys have completely different mindsets when it comes to dating, the opposite sex, and all facets of relationships. this is just simply human nature.
2007-02-09 01:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well cuz he's a guy.. its different.. if its for a girl.. its different also?.. lets just say the term "equal for all" dont really go for the genders.
2007-02-09 00:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Sinful Azn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people love to judge. Its sad really.
2007-02-09 01:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Kryss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexist world.....
2007-02-09 00:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by s1d90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋