Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

My twin sister got an honorable discharge for being raped in the military, & now she's a disabled veteran, making $30,000. & my brother laughs & says, "HEY, she made a career out of screaming rape! Ah hahahahahaha!"

Now isn't that cruel?

2007-02-06 04:11:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I.e. website, person, friends

2007-02-06 04:10:50 · 4 answers · asked by Trainee H 1 in Singles & Dating

I was born on 2/29/76 leap day. Which means I only have a true b-day every 4 yrs. Just so happens I was born on that day. Does this day hold any kinda special meaning in the stars?
I read my horoscopes everyday and believe in astrolgy but have never read anything on this so i was wondering if anyone knows about this; Thanks a bunch

2007-02-06 04:10:49 · 4 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, here's the deal....

My friend is divorced and has two children. He and his ex do not have a custody agreement yet. His ex was in a bad car accident and had to be taken to the hospital. He wants to go and get his kids from her parents, who have no legal rights to the kids right now, but they wont simply give the kids to him because they have control issues and they are very stubborn. He doesnt have an attorny yet, and he wants to know what he should do... How can he get the kids without a lot of conflict?? He's contacted the sherriff's office and someone else about it, and they wont help him. Will it look bad in cort if he goes to get his kids?? Or will it look bad if he doesn't try to get them and take care of them while their mother is in the hospital???? I dont know what to tell him because I dont know about any of this stuff!!
I should note that her and her family have kept the kids from even talking to him for about two months. This is a nasty situation!

2007-02-06 04:10:26 · 13 answers · asked by Aimee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 04:09:33 · 12 answers · asked by Trainee H 1 in Singles & Dating

After he said he wasn't "ready" and that he wants to wait till were married, he wrote me an email yesturday that said "At that special moment....and the right time and place,i will make love to only you" What does that mean?! Is he "ready" now?? has he changed his mind and is just gonna "go with the flow" I dont know what hes thinking and i'm to scared to bring it up now!! What do you think hes saying? I'm ready anytime he is...but i dont want to say that if hes still "not ready"......What do i do???

2007-02-06 04:08:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just reading a question from a lady that fell in love with someone and someone mentioned transference. What the hell is this? Why do psychiatrists have to label everything?! Regardless of the situation you have fell in love! You can fall in love with someone at any time, at any place and in any capacity, professonal or not. Does anyone else believe this crap? I am in a situation where I have fell in love with someone in a professional capacity but it's because I have bloody chemistry with him. I like the person he is and thats it! Bloody transference - next they will be spouting that it's a medical condition. For God's sake you fall in love with people coz you like them don't you? Or is it me? Can anybody explain this???

2007-02-06 04:08:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 04:08:04 · 12 answers · asked by Trainee H 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband kissed and made out with a common friend of ours who is also married. Actually my hub and I, and her and her hub have been married for 4 years. Well my hub and the woman had the kiss at her place one time and then I had a source tell me that he and her talked about not meeting again and not kissing again because they are married and it's wrong, but that they really like each other. When i see them together in public, my hub stares and dances with her, he flirts with her and somehow still can't stop observing her. She writes my man alot of harmless emails and he replies to them all. Now my question is my hub and I moved to another state for his job. We have lots of common married women here. Is it possible for him to kiss one of these woman here and make out with her, or would he be too guilty and just keep to friendship with other married woman, especially after having a kiss and makeout session 2 years ago with Ann?

2007-02-06 04:07:35 · 25 answers · asked by Saira D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 04:07:21 · 57 answers · asked by Misty P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have good educational background and i am more intrested in studies. i earned many titiles and always strive for it. i am in love with a guy very serious tat we cannt live without each other. i cant judge my self which is imporatant. and the time is so less that we have to deside because he is aroung 28 and have to marry now. and if i go get marry him. i have leave my career plans( to become a scientist) and if i leave him . i can really feel that everything is lost in my life and my achevment is mear waste. and if i think i can continue after marriage. i shouldn't get the break in my job because i was the R&D based . pls suggest me what i have to do

2007-02-06 04:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by bhargavi y 2 in Weddings

Is it normal for a woman to have no sexualy drive whatsoever? My wife is 28 years old, and she nerver never nerver wants to have sex. I always initate it. If i dont then she is happy not doing it. Its not like i am bad at it, (not trying to be concided) but i am good at it. I like to please a woman and it makes it more fun when i know she is in to it. When we do have sex, she acts like all she wants to get it over with and that she is just fullfilling her "womanly" duties. It never used to be like that and i have no idea what is going on. Any Ideas?

2007-02-06 04:07:03 · 17 answers · asked by paul b 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im mad about my best friends cousin but!!!!?


he moved away to work 2 hours away and attends college at the weekend, this all happens where he lives, im forever textin him and emailin him i wanna tell my best friend but 1 she i think she would be uncomfortable and be angry but thats her feelin, any way thats not the question, the question is, Am i chasing something i cant have???, if he works all week then attends college there is no time for any sort of a relationship, im so confused what would u do???

2007-02-06 04:06:09 · 16 answers · asked by misssherlock06 3 in Singles & Dating

I have played second fiddle to ALL my husbands family since day one , despite cruel things being said to me and a foul mouthed swearing sister in law- Husbands brothers wife- I can take no more- he NEVER puts any of them in their place or backs me up I am so hurt and have always shown him 100% loyalty- he wants anything for a quiet life -is scared to upset anyone except me it seems.how can i make him see he is destroying our 17year marriage?

2007-02-06 04:05:48 · 13 answers · asked by PenB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 04:04:59 · 26 answers · asked by DANiiA D 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this might sound like a stupid question to some ppl but...
Is it really necessary to get a facial every month and up to three days before your wedding date?

I was told that since im getting married in june that i need to start getting facials in March, April, May and then 3 days before my wedding day in June. Almost every bride i know goes crazy getting facials as well but...is this necessary or do brides just do it because thats what everyone does? Does this help the makeup artist or something? What is the real deal or advantage?

My skin is very very sensative and i do break out but i cant use acne scrubs or anything like that because it'll make my skin dry and flaky. Currently i am using St. Ives Apricot scrub for sensative skin but i still break out from time to time. I tried using the regular St. Ives Apricot Scrub but it still made my skin dry and flaky which is why i switched to the Sensative skin one. Am i suppossed to be doing something else as well?

2007-02-06 04:04:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This guy likes me and i like him but neither one of us will fess up tell each other that we do. He flirts with me and I couldn't tell at first. I found out when his best friend and my peer passed me a note telling me he did...I am getting really confused on how to deal out the news and solve this problem

2007-02-06 04:04:28 · 5 answers · asked by Angel Wings 3 in Singles & Dating

Be honest.

2007-02-06 04:02:59 · 3 answers · asked by josh 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married for 4 years - since then my wife is exploting me financially. She keeps on quaralling with me till night 3-4 . Now my parents came to stay with us - she keeps quaralling with me till night 3-4 and doesn't allow us to sleep. If we say something thertens us to book us under domestic violance law. I want divorce but she is thertening she will do attempt of sucide ( not sucide) and make complaint againt us. What should I do ? Is there and law that can protect me ? or all laws are favouring females

2007-02-06 04:02:58 · 15 answers · asked by She C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my wife has lost it. She used to be so slim and pretty and very careful of paying bills on time and making sure the house was clean, clothes were washed, etc. She was always alot of fun and loved being with me (sexually). Ever since we had our kids she has gained weight, let the house go and has let some bills be late too. I have quit a few jobs here and there to go back to school and she had to pay for everything but I am working now and she can do better. And the weight gain and dirty house are just about too much to handle. She has always worked, I'll give her that much. She has to have a hysterectomy in April, and she says she feels bad but how bad can she feel, she's 36. I'm tired of it. She cries all the time. Says I'm mean to her but I only say mean things so she will straighten up. Need some perspective.

2007-02-06 04:02:40 · 21 answers · asked by im_anazz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 04:02:30 · 20 answers · asked by loveable doll 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a nice guy,it's 4 months we are together...I'm happy!! The thing is that my mom and some of my friends against this relationships cause he is russian as I...and all of them keep saying that i should find an american guy,to get married and stay here,and they are asking me all the time "Why you went to the USA?You could find a russian guy here..."my mom says : "Stop seeng him at all! don't comunicate with him and his friends"!!
she doesn't even know him,nobody knows,but everybody think that I'm doing mistake dating wit russian guy in USA!! I don't know what to do...we quarrel with my mom all the time we speak on the telephone!! What should I do to make my mom to stopsaying what she is saying and do what she is doing?

2007-02-06 04:02:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 04:02:10 · 7 answers · asked by Peter J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love me hunny and i would like to get hitched but i wanna know just how many years do we have to be together to get married..i love him and know i want to be his wife

2007-02-06 04:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

no im not a perv just looking to go out on a date {wisconsin} i figured this is better than the personals ,there all prety whacked on some of the sights

2007-02-06 03:59:56 · 10 answers · asked by wis12pack 1 in Singles & Dating

OK It's my turn to ask a question, I am in canada and my son is with my x in the usa .... he goes to school in the states and he does his holidays here in canada, as a mother i miss my son to death!! and lately i feel my son has been loosing intrest in his mother he hardly calls me and when i call him he tells me he does not feel like talking ... what can i do to change this , he is 13 years old .. i can not go back to the usa i am a canadian and can not work in the usa help? and thanks

2007-02-06 03:59:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why do you like watching porn? thats what i want to know and how much money would you spend on it? would you consider buying bootleg porn?

2007-02-06 03:59:37 · 16 answers · asked by jay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are getting married in June, we both like different shades of blue but i want my wedding to be bright and have other colors than just blue. What other colors will compliment the blues?

2007-02-06 03:59:37 · 20 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Weddings

the qualities that you look in your life partner, physically as well as mentally...

2007-02-06 03:59:07 · 7 answers · asked by joy 1 in Singles & Dating

can any give me advise how to help her and how i can cope with this situation please

2007-02-06 03:58:27 · 9 answers · asked by Bertie D 4 in Marriage & Divorce