Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

so much cheating and heartbreak in YA and in the world, why would anyone want to get married and put your heart on the line a again? Is it possible to be married and be happy?

2007-02-06 03:31:02 · 2 answers · asked by Cute Stuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am wondering if I am taking issues with my husband a lil to personal. Lately he has been working a lot and we barely get to see each other and I find doing everything on my own. I am sorry to say it but he is the type that thinks only the women is the one who maintains the house clean, takes care of the kids, and also brings home an income. While he thinks the men should not do anything but go to work and bring home the money. I fight with him about this mentality, I love him dearly he is a great father, and husband . What i am wondering should I make a big fuss about it or should I just leave it alone?

2007-02-06 03:30:27 · 38 answers · asked by ivonne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am trying to make a ist of 365 reasons i love my husband...the higher you go...the harder it is and the more you repeat yourself. does anyone know any ideas to help me with? maybe things i can think of to help me bring out more of my own ideas? please hep me

2007-02-06 03:29:46 · 12 answers · asked by chantal h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A nice man or give me an opportunity to meet nice people....I dont want to study a language. What's a fun course?

2007-02-06 03:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I pay all her utilities, and provide her with additional spending money, it totals about 400.00 a month, my sister has her as a renter paying no rent in lieu of babysitting and other activities. Can we both claim her or which one can claim her legally?

2007-02-06 03:28:45 · 6 answers · asked by Holly S 1 in Family

I have a friend who left his wife and family for the "other woman". He was having an affair with a co-worker. He claimed he was not happy with his married life and wanted more. He has only been separated/divorced for 10 months. He moved in with the other woman two months ago. Now he is having trouble making ends meet financially. He does not pay child support even though he is supposed to. He has no friends other than her friends - except for me and I do not see him much anymore. It was as he if he simply walked away from everything and everybody he knew. Even his son only sees him every other weekend! I am worried about him. He has given up everything for this woman who is ten years younger than he is. Can their relationship possibly last? Will he wake up one day and realize that maybe leaving his wife and son and everything they built together was not such a good idea? What do you say to someone like this? Or do I say nothing and let him learn the hard way?

2007-02-06 03:28:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 03:28:33 · 7 answers · asked by DIANA G 1 in Singles & Dating

...and my friends asked him if he fancies me and he said yes she's very attractive. But the thing is he doesn't wanna fall in love again because a few years ago a girl broke his heart and said something really evil to him. He says he has given up on love. What should I do?

2007-02-06 03:28:04 · 17 answers · asked by x me x 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy wants to know what i want for my birthday, however i dont have any idea. What could i say to him ??

2007-02-06 03:27:48 · 11 answers · asked by x--becki--x 1 in Singles & Dating

i dress up well and in very good shape. Than why it happened with me? i feel so undesired when he does not even look at me and turn me down. its making me not attracted to him as well, but I do efforts.

2007-02-06 03:27:46 · 9 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was planning on getting her some flowers and a card, and we're going out to dinner. But I'm just not sure if I should ask her out that night. We both like each other, that's no question. Would it be too cheesy to ask her out that night, or is it the right time??

2007-02-06 03:27:04 · 22 answers · asked by fromthe407 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 03:25:58 · 31 answers · asked by RED ROSE 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend aged 14 have been going out for 3 months now and the only thing we have done is hugged and hold hands. Next week we are both going to an under 16's nightclub where there is no adults what so ever. The thing is that he has asked me to get in with him..(french kiss him) but the thing is I have never done it before..and all my mates will be there..what if i do it wrong...help me...is there a wrong and right way to french kiss..?

2007-02-06 03:25:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At what point does age difference interfere in a relationship?

2007-02-06 03:25:38 · 6 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Singles & Dating

And specially grls 2 or 3 yrr younger than me or of my age dunn't want to date me.what shall i do?I am depressed

2007-02-06 03:25:12 · 1 answers · asked by aashya jha 3 in Singles & Dating

I have always loved my brother to bits. We have been very close and good friends. Our childhood memories still thrills me. Being an elder sister, I have always fullfiled my duties towards my brother. But since he has got married(love marrige), I feel that he is going away from me... We don't talk in the same way as we use to, his wife always feels insecure when I am around or when he talks to me or about me. What should I do? How can I make my self understand..... I don't know. But it hurts..... a lot!

2007-02-06 03:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok. i am now 18. my parents got a divorce when i was 13 and i have 4 brothers and sisters so i kind of had to be the fill in parent. i wasn't allowed to date till i was 16. and now that i am 18 and in a long term relationship my father is tightening rules. i have never smoked in my life.. don't plan to, i don't drink, i go to college, have a full time job that i have had for 1 1/2 years, and been with my boyfriend for a long time. granted yes i usually fall asleep when i get home from a long day but he is making me still have a curfew, i can' use my car for anything but school and work, i can only see my boyfriend for 2 days out of the week, i have no key to my house cause he doesn't trust me. but i don't party... what can i do to make things better? :(

2007-02-06 03:24:07 · 12 answers · asked by booger 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been best friends with this guy for abotu a year now. i just got out of a long relationship so i wanted to take it slow with this guy. Me and this guy decided to go on a date and it turned out like perfectly. We kissed and stuff, but it wasn't weird becuase we have been best friends for so long. I am just really worried to get hurt becuase I have been hurt so many times in the past by guys acting like they are really into me and then only wanting one thing from me in the end.

He tells me that he is crazy about me and that he loves that we have the same values and morals and everytime we kiss he always like strokes my back and my hair and stuff, not trying to like do anything else... I just don't want this to turn out bad becuase I really like him.

I guess what I am really asking is how do I know if he is sincere in what he has been saying to me?

2007-02-06 03:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 in Singles & Dating

I have spoken to him about this a million times. he needs reading every night before sleeping. We are youg couple in 30s got married an year ago and never had a sex life which everybody experiences atleast once in lifetime. I do everything and try to make him happy. he is all affectionate and caring and kissing me all the time, but nothng beyond. if I initiate that does not turn him on too. I ave not had good experience even wit our few encounters. I have decided to make it work but donno know how. he is a perfect guy otherwise and every women thinks is a good catch.

2007-02-06 03:23:47 · 14 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a mother of 2 children with another to be born next friday (thank God) lol i raised my oldest 2 on my own until a yr ago when me and my husband got married (they arent biologically his) alright well i have a 19 yr old sister who ive never gotten along with that goes around telling people that she is the one who has raised my kids and bought everything in the begininng i just shrugged it off but now it is really starting to make me mad she has never done nothing for them i wont even let her babysit because she is WAY to immature well all know shes a habitual liar but its the fact of the matter ive told her in front of her little friends to stop lieing she knows she aint never done nothin for them and starting to get it under control now but my question is am I the only one out here with a crazy relative like this or is there more of yall?? Has anyone ever had somebody try to take credit for what you do with your kids?

2007-02-06 03:23:46 · 4 answers · asked by squirrellchica 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are signs that a girl likes you without making it too obvious?

2007-02-06 03:23:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom came into my bedroom at 5AM this morning saying "Here, read this, I hope your happy" My father had written her a note saying that he no longer loved her, and that she had changed and that pretty much they are getting a divorce. My mom said that is is my fault because her an I always fought. I dont what to believe that it is, and everyone is telling me that it isnt, but my mom seems to think so. How do I make it so that I dont feel this bad. like I have done something wrong.
An additional fact. I hate my mother, I really do. All we ever do is fight and argue.

2007-02-06 03:23:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sister Margaret did that once. She took off her white polyester/rayon shirt, stuck Post-its over her nippies and leaned over the wall to a bunch of guys playing Cricket. Damn gravity made the things look like she was Rapunzel letting her hair down

2007-02-06 03:21:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a bit of a qaundry
My Daughter and her partner have a small baby, she has returned to work after 6 months maternity leave to work part time, he has been sacked for having 37 days off from April to December, although he says he was made redundant he has signed on and receives nothing she has taken on an extra day to pay bills he moans about looking after the baby......and takes it out on her.......I want to do horrible things to him......she blew off her chance to go to university to be with him... I know he says he loves her.. but that does not pay the rent......am I just a moaning old so and so or should I castrate him now?

2007-02-06 03:21:27 · 20 answers · asked by sylvie c 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-06 03:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by Fenix Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They stay at home all day while their husbands work even harder to pay the bills. I would do anything to stay at home and play with my kids, watch tv, and have naps all day while my wife went to work. I would also guarantee that the house would be spotless and dinner would be made when she got home. And more importantly I wouldn't complain about it because, afterall, I was at home all day playing with my kids!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-06 03:20:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been dating a year and have never bought me anything is this a problem?

2007-02-06 03:19:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...........I've known him for over a year and we get along well, we talk to each other almost everyday online or on the phone, but yesterday he declared his love for me, and then said that it was all a joke, dont know whether to believe him or not -

Would guys make sick jokes like that because when he was telling me, it seemed really believable......??

I wouldnt expect him to make sick jokes like that, but then again, i didnt expect him to tell me he loves me either; i dont know what to think - do you think it would be possible to carry on as friends like normal?

2007-02-06 03:18:46 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

Can it work?

2007-02-06 03:18:46 · 8 answers · asked by Ben W 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl, who seem to be allway trying to chat with me in class, besides she keeps asking me to massage her and she absolutely "melts" is I tickle her or touch her hair; everyone says she likes me, but Im not sure, what do you think?

2007-02-06 03:18:34 · 8 answers · asked by chato_mc 2 in Singles & Dating