...........I've known him for over a year and we get along well, we talk to each other almost everyday online or on the phone, but yesterday he declared his love for me, and then said that it was all a joke, dont know whether to believe him or not -
Would guys make sick jokes like that because when he was telling me, it seemed really believable......??
I wouldnt expect him to make sick jokes like that, but then again, i didnt expect him to tell me he loves me either; i dont know what to think - do you think it would be possible to carry on as friends like normal?
2007-02-06 03:18:46 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the best thing you can do is just pretend it didn't happen and be like normal with him, if he seems a bit weird towards you then you should talk to him because its obvious then that he did mean it but after felt embarrassed
2007-02-06 03:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about him. If you are only interested in him as a friend then tell him. Just ask him if he meant what he said. He may have said ti because he really feels that way and it was a way for him to tell you and then deny it because he might not have gotten the reaction he expected from you. If he is truly a friend i don't think he would have meant it as a sick joke. I think if you really want to be friends you can work it out but you need to find out the truth first.
2007-02-06 03:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you made a face he got scared over. I'm sure you were suprised and speechless and didn't know what to say and he got scared you didn't feel the same and he didn't want it to ruin the friendship you 2 have so that was the only way he could take it back to make things right.
If you have feelings for him tell him. Or look him straight in the eye and ask him for the truth. If you feel the same I say go for it! Sometimes those are the relationships that work the best, the ones that start out as friends first.
Good luck.
2007-02-06 03:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the L word is said theres no going back. He probably said he was joking as a fear of rejection.
If you have feelings for this guy tell him!
If you dont, ask him why he pretended he loved you and ask him what he wanted to achieve from telling you he did as a joke.
But it definatley sounds like hes scared of being rejected if he does tell you his true feelings x good luck
2007-02-06 03:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him about what he said. Make it clear that you just want to know the truth and that you won't be angry at him if he can be honest.
If he says it was a joke, then you need to tell him that you didn't find it funny and ask him why he said it. Then you need to work out wether you want to be friends with someone who messes with your feelings like that.
If he admits that he did mean it, then we are onto the next question.. do you love him?
2007-02-06 03:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Pinkgemgem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have said it and then thought "I've made an @ss out of myself" If you feel the same way (you like him" then maybe its time to take your friendship a bit further speak to him but do it in a manor that wont embarrass him further - you never know he might have liked you for a long time and has only just found his courage!!
2007-02-06 03:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by CXPhantom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can still carry on as friends, but at the same time tell that it was really bad of him to joke around like this. but after reading your question somewhere i think that he likes you as it might have just slipt out, but before getting on to any further decisions i think you should get to know more about how he feels about you inside (by indirect means). if you have further problems e-mail me at-
nikitarobinson_1993@yahoo.co.in
2007-02-06 03:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just shy and unsure as to how you would react, that's all. It's taken himself days to get the courage up to tell you and then after he has the courage disappears and he's left wondering how you will react.
If you love him, tell him, if not just carry on like it never happened.
2007-02-06 03:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by The Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can carry on as friends, as long as you discuss this first. You should tell him that you thought that was a cruel joke, and you´d appreciate if he didn´t do that anymore.
2007-02-06 03:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by No se 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do u feel for him after that "bad" joke ? can you be friends like nothing has happened or better talk to him and tell him that u did not liked this ...after you cleared this up i see no problem of beeing friends
good luck to u
2007-02-06 03:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋