anybody else with this kind of relative?

Question

i am a mother of 2 children with another to be born next friday (thank God) lol i raised my oldest 2 on my own until a yr ago when me and my husband got married (they arent biologically his) alright well i have a 19 yr old sister who ive never gotten along with that goes around telling people that she is the one who has raised my kids and bought everything in the begininng i just shrugged it off but now it is really starting to make me mad she has never done nothing for them i wont even let her babysit because she is WAY to immature well all know shes a habitual liar but its the fact of the matter ive told her in front of her little friends to stop lieing she knows she aint never done nothin for them and starting to get it under control now but my question is am I the only one out here with a crazy relative like this or is there more of yall?? Has anyone ever had somebody try to take credit for what you do with your kids?

shes not exactly on my christmas list but i do talk to her only because i lost a brother 4 years ago and try to stay in touch with my family cause you never know. I only speak to her about once a month if that and thats only if she happens to be at my moms while im there. just glad to know im not the only one with the crazy relative lol

Answer 1

Hoo boy. I personally would confront her. 'cause that would just tick me off sooooo bad.

I haven't had anyone take credit for what I do with my kids, but my DH used to take credit for what I did for his...they'd come over and get excited to see a new toy left on their beds, which I had bought, and he'd say, "Yeah, I thought you'd like that. Did I pick good?" Not outright SAYING he'd bought it, but implying, when he had not even had anything to do with it. I told him it bugged me, and then he started doing it only as a joke- like asking them hadn't he done a good job on cooking supper when they'd not only watched me cook it but even helped. Now, if he says he did something (Yeah, I made that macaroni last Friday and froze it because I knew it was your favorite.) they know he's joking and roll their eyes and say "yeah right dad. We knoe Stephanie is the one who cooks this."

Also, a few months after my first baby was born, I had a friend of my grandmother's say to me "Well you are a good mother! I told everybody you wouldn't be!"

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Yes, I have a sister in law that was saying she put my husband through collage, while she actually living the life of a true $lut. Finally my husband told her to never contact us again and she hasn't. Thank goodness.

Answer 4

yes, but it really doesn't matter if your children and friends know the truth, they will understand the sister is lying. As for those who'd believe her lies they don't know you well enough and shouldn't matter.