After he said he wasn't "ready" and that he wants to wait till were married, he wrote me an email yesturday that said "At that special moment....and the right time and place,i will make love to only you" What does that mean?! Is he "ready" now?? has he changed his mind and is just gonna "go with the flow" I dont know what hes thinking and i'm to scared to bring it up now!! What do you think hes saying? I'm ready anytime he is...but i dont want to say that if hes still "not ready"......What do i do???
2007-02-06 04:08:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a very mature boyfriend and he sounds like a keeper. When he says that all he means is that he loves you and he wants that moment to be special between you two. He doesn wanna just have sex with you he want s to make love and he wants it to be done right and within the right time. He's ready but then again he's nto ready to do it under the cirbumstances that you guys are in now....just love him and respect his decision and when the time is right it will happen...good luck
2007-02-06 04:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wait until you get married. "At that special moment" sounds like your wedding night to me. IF you're scared to talk about sex with a person you want to do it with, you're soooo not ready or mature enough to have sex. I mean, come on- you're too scared to TALK about it, yet you think you can handle doing it? Do nothing, and behave like a lady he would be proud to make his wife.
2007-02-06 12:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just give him time to "be ready" and he will let you know. It is very commendable that he wants to wait until you are married to have sex. That is really the way it should be. Have fun when you do get there.
2007-02-06 12:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
he is gay and in the closet. He is leading you on with those emails.
don't get emotionally attached to him as when he decides to come out you will only be emotionally hurt.
I suggest you dump him and find a straight guy.
The only other option/reason he wouldn't want to have sex before marriage is that he is a religious fundamentalist which would indicate mental instability to begin with (it is one thing to be religious, it is another to be a fundamentalist). I would suggest you dump him or he will begin to use terms of "god" as an excuse to control you and your lives together.
2007-02-06 12:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bluto Blutarsky4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him because he just might be senting u mixed messages because he's confused if he said he wasnt ready and wanted to wait til marriage he wouldnt just change his mind. i think u need to ask him.
2007-02-06 12:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by Raven24k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait until he takes the lead and starts something. Unless you want to start something.
How old are you?
2007-02-06 12:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still wanting to wait until marriage.
2007-02-06 12:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by C.K. 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have to wait...
it maybe his way of measuring your patience on that matter...
good luck!
2007-02-06 12:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go out and bang someone else and then tell him "sorry, I couldn't wait anymore".
2007-02-06 12:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow...if you are too scared to talk openly to your man, then u have to go back to being single...
2007-02-06 12:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋