Im mad about my best friends cousin but!!!!?
he moved away to work 2 hours away and attends college at the weekend, this all happens where he lives, im forever textin him and emailin him i wanna tell my best friend but 1 she i think she would be uncomfortable and be angry but thats her feelin, any way thats not the question, the question is, Am i chasing something i cant have???, if he works all week then attends college there is no time for any sort of a relationship, im so confused what would u do???
2007-02-06 04:06:09 · 16 answers · asked by misssherlock06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok ill make it simple my friend "emma" has a cousin "john" i text and email john who is from my area but works in another town which is 2 hours away and his work involves going to college at the weekend!!! so his week is so busy there is no hope for me is there??? is that understnadable??
16 hours ago
but with him workin and going to college is there any point in doin anything??? like with the distance and the time unvailabilty??
2007-02-06 04:06:38 · update #1
anything can work if u want it bad enough. you havent mentioned how u think he feels? if he is txting you a lot and emailing you a lot. i think long distance relationships can work and can become more serious after a year or so then maybe one of you could move?
2007-02-06 04:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you think that something can be had from the relationship then maybe you could move near to where he is. Cannot see that your best friend would be angry with you. Why not discuss it with her. Think you may find that talking things through sensibly will help. If not forget him, as they say, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-02-13 13:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i was able to gather, he only works 2 hrs away from you. distance hardly is the problem here. you have to try and establish whether he feels the same way about you as you do him and that could be the start of something special. mean while talk to you friend about it. there is no point keeping secrets. its not like he is her ex hes her couz. she might even be able to help you with john. good luck
2007-02-06 12:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't stated how he feels and if he wants to make a go of it. He is the one who is busy all the time so does he feel he can commit to you?
Sounds more like you need to ask to him before you can ask yourself.
If you really do like him - go for it. Just rememeber that you both have to want to give it a go and be able to cope without seeing each other.
2007-02-06 12:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hardwork and plus he seems to have no time other than to work, study and sleep at the moment! Wait till he has more time on his hands..
2007-02-06 12:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by maiko07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think simply put, he may not have the time to even look at his phone, if he's working and going to college. Just stop calling him and mentioning him to your friend. So if you can just be his friend for now because working and going to college can be tough and draining.
2007-02-06 12:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by blckmustng2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait because it not like he going to get a gf if he has no time so just wait until he is less busy
2007-02-06 12:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Raven24k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be waisting my time unless I really really liked the guy
2007-02-06 12:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by **simply me** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he feels the same then 'love' will happen time and distance are no obstacle to true love! good luck!
2007-02-12 06:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noyhimg ventured nothing gained. i worked and studied and still had time to date. if he is into you he will make time
2007-02-06 12:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋