Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

i asked out this girl the other night and she said yes. i later recieved a text saying that she doesnt know if she should have said yes. i convinced her to give me a try. (we have been hanging out w/ each other for about 8 months) the thing is, why would she have second guessed herself. is there a chance she might have no feelings for me and just being nice. im going to see her in 2 days and thinking of buying her a rose and writing a poem to win her heart. is this a good thing to do. got any suggestions

2007-02-05 06:13:39 · 12 answers · asked by Cloud Strife 1 in Singles & Dating

Truly 4-7 times a day and we both cant get enough! Do we need help or just keep on keepin on?

2007-02-05 06:13:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 06:12:57 · 15 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Singles & Dating

not meant it?

2007-02-05 06:12:26 · 21 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend Nicole is very independent. Before christmas she found out she was pregnant and didn't tell anyone. She then found out she had cancer in the uterus and had two options: 1.Have surgery to remove the maybe canerous cells and take the chance of loosing the baby or 2. Have the baby with no surgery and take the chance of dieing. She didnt' tell anyone. She then found out that she had no choice but to have the surgery because it was cancer for sure and it was going to be on the 28th of december. On the 27th she told her parents.

Today she told me that she had this problem and lost the baby. Now she wants me to be her alibi because she may have more problems and she doesn't want to disturb her parents hollidays so she told them she was going to Athabasca (8 hours away) with me to see my husband. She is leaving tonight after work at 10:00 pm and doesn't want me to come. i am worried about her and i don't want her to drive that far especially late at night after work. Help

2007-02-05 06:12:01 · 4 answers · asked by Kelsey 2 in Friends

I was outside attempting to fly a kite with my son. Everytime the kite got up in the air it came crashing down. After this had gone on for awhile, my wife stuck her head out the front door and yelled "you need more tail." I turned to my son and said, " son, I will never understand women. I just told her an hour ago I needed more tail, and she told me to go fly a kite." What is wrong with you women?

2007-02-05 06:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 06:11:28 · 1 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking at having my colors be purple and silver, and i am having a hard time finding bridesmaid dresses in those colors that look elegant for an evening wedding. Please help, and it is not a themed wedding. I just have those colors.

2007-02-05 06:11:21 · 15 answers · asked by blondie_sheilds 1 in Weddings

Its our wedding anniversary tomorrow how many of you want to wish us a gud yun........We live far away from friends and family and have been left to ourselves,,SOB STORY......So please send us your best regards......You never know we could start a world record...Do you want to be opart of this tremendous opportunity.....god bless and god willing

2007-02-05 06:11:11 · 45 answers · asked by GRANDMA 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 06:10:30 · 25 answers · asked by mimi1980 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 06:09:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 06:09:10 · 6 answers · asked by bluemug2 2 in Singles & Dating

does sex hurt...or does it depend on the person?

2007-02-05 06:08:32 · 21 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. I recently got divorced. My relationship with my ex-husband was abusive emotionally and physically. He cheated numerous times and would make me feel like nothing. Since then I have gotten a wonderful man that treats me like a queen. However, in my mind its like how can this be real? No one can love me like he does. It is very hard for me to believe. With my past experience I question him about things and it’s almost like I am accusing him of doing something like being unfaithful or lying to me. In my heart I know that he would not cheat on me or lie to me. He never has and we were friends before we got together. He knows what I went through with my ex and we have been through a lot. Some days I get so paranoid about what he is doing, I check his emails some days just to see if he is up to something. Sometimes I go through his phone to see who he has been talking to. He has given me no reason to do any of this and when he is not at work he is with me. He texts me throughout the day and tells me he loves me all the time. If there is anything me or my daughter need he makes sure that we have it and that we are taken care of. I try to trust him and throw the bad thoughts out of my head but it just does not seem to work. I cry a lot because I don’t know what to do and most of the time I think the worst. This guy makes sure that everything is ok but in my head I do not think things are ok. We do communicate and I try to tell him how I feel or how he makes me feel at times but nothing seems to give. We have decided to take a break from each other to see if it helps. Honestly, I do not want to be away from him and I do love him dearly. I want to save our relationship and I know he wants our relationship to but with my insecurities and my accusations as he would say it is putting a major strain on our relationship. Can anyone please help me before I lose the man that I love because of my issues??

2007-02-05 06:08:05 · 3 answers · asked by dayauburn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she needs one

2007-02-05 06:07:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, so there is a considerable age difference between my boyfriend and I. I'm 20 and he's 28. He's been out of college for sometime now. So he's always on my back about not being mature(his mother tells him "You're an idiot. You can't spend the rest of your life expecting her to catch up to you, she's younger!"). Anyway, we used to fight about me being naive, too trusting, and too nice...but I'm not like that anymore. So anyway, today this kid who never does his work asks for my number for study help. So I gave him my number and he asks me "You need mine?" and I'm like "Hahahaha! No, what for? You're the one who needs help." So I shared this with my boyfriend after class because I am always upfront and honest with him. He gets mad and acts like an asshole acting like I did something horrible. What did I do? If the guy is being shady, I have no problem telling him off...that's not even an issue.

2007-02-05 06:07:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for Valentine's Day. What do you guys secretly want?

2007-02-05 06:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by da_real_one 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u know when you are totally over someone that you believe that you once loved. It took me 4 years to realize that maybe i dont like thsio kid anymore.... but how do i knoe for a fact??

2007-02-05 06:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be honest do blokes only go for looks, im quiet insecure and wonder why a good looking bloke would go for me dnt get me wrong im not ugley but there are plenty of other girls that are much better, i never feel good enough i find myself going for blokes that are really nice but not much in the looks department so i force myself to like them cause i know they would feel grateful to be with me not like really good looking blokes who probably think they can do better .

2007-02-05 06:06:32 · 7 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

I have two stepsons and a stepdaughter. (Grown up now.) My husbands ex-wife never cared that the boys liked me, but was jealous of her daughter getting on with me. I didn't stand a chance of getting close to her. She was very young when her mum influenced her and eventually she wouldn't come anymore. Last week we met again at my stepsons daughters christening. My stepdaughter walked straight passed me and spoke to my husband, much to her mothers delight. I felt so frustrated and hurt because I've never actually done anything wrong to her. What I feel most hurt about is the fact that my husband knew she'd ignored me, but spoke to her anyway. I feel this looked to her as though she could treat me as she wanted because her father didn't care much. I don't him to fall out with her, but couldn't he have shown her that he won't have me treated like that. Later I asked her to visit anytime and she turned me down. Am I wrong to feel hurt by his loyalty to me?

2007-02-05 06:06:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

because i'm wondering how much personality counts or if boys just go for looks!!!!!!

2007-02-05 06:06:11 · 10 answers · asked by EGG HEAD! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 06:05:58 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont understand why my husbands treats me bad then expects me to enjoy having sex with him what do i do

2007-02-05 06:04:58 · 12 answers · asked by chick4god 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey im feeling much better i was wondering if anyone would give me a hug hehehehe i wonder if someone could be my friend i love having new friends who are loving caring kind funny understanding
it hurt alot knowing that someone was pretending to be ace frehley i know i said for guys to pretend to be him but i guess i was being silly but hey im over it anyway just wanted to see if i could make a new friend today and well you know its nice to have loving friends though i do have a best friends but hey i dont mind having more thatnks for caring and giving me advice i really enjoy it here.

2007-02-05 06:04:15 · 6 answers · asked by kat k 1 in Friends

The tongue or the Ball park frank( I have to say it this way so not to have it kicked off) or both.

2007-02-05 06:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by cowboybronco01 4 in Singles & Dating

What turns you men on?
What makes you want to come home early/

2007-02-05 06:03:42 · 7 answers · asked by Gossip 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband left me for someone else. Anyway, I have two kids. An old boyfriend contacted me and has visited town to see me three times. He says that he is separated from his wife. He lives out of town.
How can I tell whether this is true or not? I HAVE NOT slept with him and I know how men can be. What advice can you give?

I asked him why they split and he said that she wouldn't listen to him or do anything to make it better. He aked her to not let the kids sleep in the bed. He asked her to join a gym with him. He asked her to go away without the kids at least four weekends a year. He asked her to go out to dinner with him once a week. He asked her to kiss him hello and goodbye. She refused to do any of it. OK. May be true or not. That doesn't mean that he will divorce her, right?

Part of me says to just not date until someone shows me the divorce papers signed by the judge. But there are a lot of separated people out there. How do I tell when it is ringing true?

2007-02-05 06:03:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was out with my friend on Friday night, and got horribly drunk (embassing at the age of 28 I know). Anyway, a lovely guy that my friend knows helped me back to my friend's flat. I collapsed on the sofa and he put my feet in his lap. Later, when my friend and her boyfriend went to bed she told him to look after me, and he did - all night.
We slept on the floor, and he just cuddled my all night. He didn't try anything on, possibly because my friend warned him that I am quite nervy and don't like being put unde pressure.
He was a real gentleman, in the morning we were chatting and he was playing with my hair.
When he left in the morning, we didn't exchange numbers but he asked me to promise I would go out with them again, and he kissed me cheek and my belly ring (that he had been playing with during the night).
My friend asked him yesterday for his number for me, and he gave it to her. Today I texted him to say thanks for looking after me, and he said he is going away for a week

2007-02-05 06:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 in Singles & Dating

My wife had an affair. Sometimes it's hard for me to come, or even stay hard during intercoure. Because I can't get it out of my head that she cheated on me. The other day I said something that hurt her feelings I didn't mean to. "I can't get turned on by looking at you anymore, I used to be able to look at you and get excited and I don't anymore." What can I do to make this right, I didn't mean any disrespect toward her or her boby.

2007-02-05 06:01:28 · 21 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 06:00:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating