2007-02-05 06:09:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a friend of mine, i met on here suggests whip cream bikini
if nothing else it could be desert after a home cooked meal....
and if he's diabetic, they make cool-whip in sugar free now, and it tastes just as good.
2007-02-05 06:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably is tired. Not necessarily of you, just tired and wanting to enjoy your company and get some rest. So let him. Then think long and hard about what you want from a relationship. You didn't get married but you had a baby? You sound like your mind processes thought like a much much younger person. There are nine years difference between you two. You want to go, go, go and you also want short bursts of energy (sex) and you also have to be constantly watching two children, one of them an infant. Who's watching the kids? Is he? Is this one long date in your mind - until one of you meets someone else? I'm trying to understand why you drive to meet a guy and think this involves sex - meanwhile having his child out of wedlock - and think his 10 hour work days aren't going to affect his energy level. You are a very energetic person, it sounds like. So friendship may be in the cards for you and your baby's daddy. A much younger guy will fill the bill for you - in the sack and also he will match your 'one long extended date' mindset. You're very tired at night, you say? Well, apparently being really tired doesn't mean going to sleep to you. It means having sex just to unwind from your day - and then going to sleep. Your baby's daddy doesn't look at it that way. You're bored and you're thinking you're wasting your time with him. This is not the makings of a long-term relationship. You two can't even get together enough to share the same postal code, let alone something longer lasting. Face it - this is going nowhere. Make long term plans to get a more fun guy in your life but let this guy have access to his child and stay friends with him.
2016-05-24 18:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says it's boring? What is boring? the marriage, the sex, the friends, the repetitive daily routine?
Spice things up, communication is the key to all relationships, get him to open up a little, ask him what is wrong, what is boring. Then together think of a solution. Or you can go to an adult store and pick different things out, ask him what is fantasy is how does he want to act it out. Does he want you to be the naughty school girl, nurse? Does he want to go slow and start with soft slow romantic music, then a homemade candle lit dinner for two, then eat dessert of off each other?
Just talk and find out what is really going on.
2007-02-05 06:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. A kid can spice it up in a hurry as the center of attention. It is part of maturing into the next phase in life. If divorce, you'll never understand the meaning of marriage.
2007-02-05 06:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boring people are bored. Tell your husband to stop being so boring and you and he could have a great marraige. Tell him to come up with some new things. Take a spanish or cooking class together. Let him make some effort of fun for the two of you to do together.
2007-02-05 06:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get a lot of short term style answers, but what some people do, and it is not for everybody, is try a swingers group. You have to realize that it is a lifestyle, not just a quick fix or a fun weekend. It is a complete lifestyle change, and BOTH people have to be for it. It strengthens a good marriage and usually hastens the destruction of a bad marriage.
2007-02-05 06:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try role playing. Try new positions, sexy outfits. Jump in the shower and surprise him. Basically, try something new and different than your normal routine. That's what it's all about. Initiate when he doesn't expect it. Take some nudy pictures and put them in his drawer or a book he's currently reading. Change is good. Give it a whirl.
2007-02-05 06:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's boring??? The sex, not initiating it, same old positions, attitude .......... taking the initiative to change things that you should be aware of after 8 yrs. Fantasy.... Interests.... try masterbating in front of him for him and actually ENJOY IT ! Worked for me after 16 yrs! videoes role play.......
2007-02-05 06:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by torxstick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To spice up your marriage you should try new techniques, toys, different positions.
2007-02-05 06:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send the kids to the inlaws clear out the house and meet him when he comes home from work wearing a whip cream bikini
2007-02-07 09:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋