2007-02-05 06:12:57 · 15 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're just dating for fun, then it shouldn't be a problem but if you want to get serious with him, you have to accept that his kids will come first and realize it probably won't work unless you're able to change your opinion.
2007-02-05 06:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Try to establish what it is that you don't like about the kids and work on it. If it fails, then discuss with the father of the kids and try to reach a solution. If all fails then leave the Lover-daddy and the kids alone,don't deal with him but move on.
2007-02-05 14:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by cizy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a different guy a.s.a.p.! His kids will always come before you, and you have to either like them, or leave. Don't waste any more time if you don't think you can accept the kids. (Me, I never dated guys with kids, just to be safe - I didn't want to have to worry getting along with anyone else but him; it's hard enough for just two people to get along, without throwing more people into the mix.)
2007-02-05 14:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
Those kids are MORE a part of his life than you can be. If you don't care for the kids, you will always have the dark cloud of resentment because when it comes down to it...You are NOT first in his life. Most women can't handle the second seat.
2007-02-05 14:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either move on or make a determined effort to get along with the kids.
The kids are his for life---
2007-02-05 14:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by ceetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu move on, the kids are his number one priority and if you don 't like them, that's something you have to deal with. Leave the man alone.
2007-02-05 14:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by confuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. A good Daddy is going to always chose his kids over you. Move on, he's not the one. Sounds like you're not up to playing Romper Room.
2007-02-05 14:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by McKenzieT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in love with the guy? then love his kids too .OtherwIse, kill them but do not get cauth you know the consequenses or better still,leave alone there thousands of single guys everywhere
2007-02-05 14:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by perboil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be with him! His kids are always going to be there! So just find another guy! why were you with him from the beginning!?? that's dumb!
2007-02-05 14:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't -- kids come first and if you don't like them you shouldn't take a minute of his time.
2007-02-05 14:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋