Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

i cant move on from one past that i really want to leave,well in the past.i had this online thing with this guy(before i got together with taylor).he said his name was mythyus cromarty.then said his real name was mike hanns.and he is/was from scotland.he never wanted to meet,but,odd as it sounds i loved him with my whole heart.and never(when i had friends)had time for my friends.i just sat by the computer waiting for him.
i dont know what i did wrong,but he never came on for a few days,i was worried.so i asked a few of his friends where he was,then the next day he went off on one and told me never to contact him.it happend years ago(less then 5 years ago).i still think about him,even though tay was my soulmate.i cant stop thinking about mythyus/mike.its driving me nuts.maybe thats why part of me is insane now. :(
how can i move on?is there anyway to?he left me with so many questions.why did he get mad at me?i loved him even though we never met and he never wanted to.
help me!please.

2007-02-04 01:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by cory_paige_davis 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 01:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 01:19:43 · 20 answers · asked by whyowhyowhysocomplicated 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance use to write me the most beautiful letters and cards. Now I get a Valentine Day card signed with an ?. It was an impersonal card. No I love you or anything. He is in Iraq. I asked him if he is excited about his up coming R & R and he says "no yet". He text me, calls or emails every day saying he loves me. I don't feel it. My nerves are shot. He is British and they say Brits are as touchy-feely as us Americans. But I am nervous too. My friends think he really just wants a "green card". Meanwhile I have 2 ex-boyfriends asking me out, but I love my boyfriend with all my heart.. It just seems when I started sending him romantic cards and letters, he stopped. Shouldn't he be excited about this R & R and our wedding plans?

2007-02-04 01:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this person who just hates to be last at doing anything.

2007-02-04 01:18:30 · 4 answers · asked by peanutbulls 4 in Friends

There is this guy that I like a lot. Only two problems. First off, he lives in a different town so i don't get to hang out with him very often, but when we do we have so much fun. We still talk, even when we aren't hanging out, over the phone, aim, etc. Second off, I don't know if he likes me the same way. I think I see signs that he likes me, but I mite just see them b/c I want him to like me. When we do hang out, we usually hang out with other friends, too. We will go to the mall or the movies, etc. I have caught him looking at me, and then he would quickly look away. He would walk real close to me- bumping into me several times. If I go outside when we are waiting for a ride home from the movies (b/c I am hot, etc.), he would follow me outside, even though everyon else was staying in. When we talk it is either flirty-make-fun-of-eachother-talk, or serious stuff, like stuff you don't tell just anyone. So am I seeing things that aren't there? Should i tell him I how I feel?

2007-02-04 01:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by yo. 3 in Singles & Dating

What can a woman say to melt your helt, or make you feel closer to you. In general, make you feel good.

2007-02-04 01:16:21 · 11 answers · asked by halo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 01:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Blood_Child69 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 01:15:00 · 13 answers · asked by waiting patiently 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some of them are getting pretty raunchy, but i would like to tell them in a nice way..

2007-02-04 01:14:37 · 10 answers · asked by RT 1 in Friends

i was talking to a guy online about going to one of his games, and i said something like this:

me: "heyy, sorry i havent gone to any of your games yet, i always say im going to go to one, but i never do. i feel like a b****."
him: "nah, thats ok. you'll get to one. i dont really care."

does it seem like he does care, but he doesnt want me to know, or is it just that?

2007-02-04 01:14:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this gorgeous half asian guy while i was doing an intership at the hospital few days ago. we talked and giggled. we walked together and had good time.(at least i had good time). intership was not the thing that excite me the most. but there i was with him. time just flied!!!! soon i found out that he is not just cute but funny and smart.
he will come to hospital again the day after tomorrow. i thought of asking him his number or e-mail. but the problem is, i have this national championship thingy which is quite important to my career(to be exact, resume.) on the same day.
if i go for this championship, my resume will look great but i will never gonna see him again. if i go to hospital instead of championship, i will be able to keep in touch with him but my resume will lose quite a big thing..
i am sure he is not a normal guy that i can find anywhere. he is very special!! what should i do?? any advice will be greatly appreciated. :)

2007-02-04 01:13:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate to think of him every single moment but he's so much embedded in my thoughts that my life has become abnormal. he knows it all n confessed his love too but his ambitions make him ignore me. there is a lot that we should know about each other but he want to finish his priorities first.( i'm pisces, he's scorpio)
What to do ???

2007-02-04 01:13:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

then she tries to justify it by saying her friend needed her because her friend was upset about breaking up with her bf

2007-02-04 01:12:51 · 23 answers · asked by patton16701 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my wife argue back and forth everyday about anything you can think of. We feel we only get along at one time, and that's during sex.

2007-02-04 01:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There not bad or anything, just embarassing.

2007-02-04 01:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Éleanore Amour♥ 3 in Friends

She says hi to me every morning, even though I don't say it back. She seems nervous when talking to me when we're alone. She did my work for me during class when I fell asleep, and she wanted me to be in her group when we were going on a trip. Does it seem like she likes me? Hell, I can't even tell if I like her.

2007-02-04 01:09:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you like your best friend.

2007-02-04 01:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by elvira 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 01:08:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He broke up with me, does this mean he no longer has a heart or he never had one in the first place?

2007-02-04 01:08:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 01:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by ticko 1 in Singles & Dating

but I dont really mean and need it. how can I react to solve this problem?

2007-02-04 01:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by *Grace* 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help me answer these questions fast it is important to answer it.

2007-02-04 01:03:43 · 18 answers · asked by uka_uzo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 01:02:32 · 5 answers · asked by Prabhavathi Y 1 in Friends

and I mean a partner, someone you would have sex with and create life with, not a child or a family member.

It seems that infantile needful attachment & romantic infatuation and all that young selfish greedy self interest arises simultaneously and is unavoidable!

Your thoughts?

2007-02-04 01:02:14 · 4 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he acts like he like me too. alot but sometimes he is real mean to me. especially when we are around his friends. wats up?

2007-02-04 01:01:51 · 7 answers · asked by yaya 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 01:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Girls what would your ideal first date scenario be?

I would like something like Golf where you have to help each other (I know its a man thing)

The more unusual the better

2007-02-04 01:00:26 · 9 answers · asked by davie 2 in Singles & Dating

I was out last night with work colleagues and a girl who I work with said she wanted to clear the air (I thought everything was ok). She said to me:

She wants us to get on - at work and outside
Told me that I should drop the 'attitude'
She wants to trust me and hopes that I don't back stab her e.g. talk about her behind her back
She wants us to get to know each other better

When we're alone we find it difficult to talk to each other and it goes silent ASAP.(happened today at work!)

Each time we talk, I find it more uncomfortable/difficult as I don't know what to say!She's asked if I'd go to her birthday bash in a few weeks - I don't know what to say???

Why did she feel the need to 'clear the air'???
Suggestions on how to deal with this???

p.s. we do flirt with each other and she has a Boyfriend of 2 years.Colleagues say we have a love/hate WORK relationship

2007-02-04 01:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 12 and my sister is 16 and she is not supposed to drive without an adult yet. But I wanted to go to my friends house and it is just a couple of blocks away and it was raining. So I asked her to zip me over there and she did. Mom found out and told Daddy.
Now my sister and I got grounded 2 weeks each. Also we got spanked by daddy with the belt 10 smacks on the bare butts bent over grabbing ankles. We share a room so we had to watch each other. And I have to write some dumb essay on responsibility for my actions. My sister has to write one on why driving in the rain with only a permit is dangerous. The essays have to be at least three pages typed single spaced.

The grounding means no car for her no phone for either of us and when we come home it is right to our room and then out for supper then back to our room. Chores will be assigned each weekend. Other than that we live in our room. At least they did not take away our TV or X-Box or computer.

Is this fair?

2007-02-04 00:57:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family