and I mean a partner, someone you would have sex with and create life with, not a child or a family member.
It seems that infantile needful attachment & romantic infatuation and all that young selfish greedy self interest arises simultaneously and is unavoidable!
Your thoughts?
2007-02-04 01:02:14 · 4 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the test would be that - if that your person was to say to today: "I am leaving this relationship now" (and tell you they are leaving for any reason whatsoever), you would say: "awesome, I so love you and I am thrilled that you are persuing what is most important to you - how can i help"?
2007-02-04 01:14:53 · update #1
no, not at all possible...
you love your children because you are genetically programed to do so,you also have an unbreakable bond with them.
with other people you chose to 'love' them, maybe it's for a reason, a season, or a life time. but just as easily as you love them, you could also hate them.
there is a fine line, and sometimes it is crossed, i wish that i could find someone to love me as i love them, but i have given up all hope.
destined to walk my path alone, it's OK though...
good question, i like your way of thinking...
2007-02-04 01:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I for one am like that. I want and need no relationship. I just love all the women to pieces, but have female friends that know how I feel and I know how they feel about this, and its been working great for the last 5 years. No problems on our end. We are all happy with this arrangement. No one is commited to anyone, and we all have our own life and choose to be the way we are and am happy with one another. i have even went and spent the night with some of them, and we slept in the same bed, but that was all it was, slept. Sex is NOT a requirement to have Female friends.
2007-02-04 01:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because i am in love with my partner and he is in love with me, it dosen't mean that we own each other, we are strong enough, and love each other enough to set the other one free if needs be, but having said that we both have a deep and strong bond, but we are not relying on each other to breath.
Together we have created a beautiful life and i could never be without my children, i would go to the ends of the earth for them, and die for them.
If my partner made the choice to leave, i love him enough to set him free than manipulate the situation to have him stay only to resent me?...no i'm not saying it wouldn't hurt me i am only human, but that is how much we love each other, at the moment our little unit is as strong as it can be.
2007-02-04 04:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My relationship to my wife is a complete and great love. We are partners, indeed. We created a family that is strong, supportive and meets the needs of all of us.
2007-02-04 01:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by voodooprankster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋