2007-02-04 01:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like how. is she asking you if so and so is pretty, or what?
always say not to me. that way if you think she's pretty you don't necessarily have to admit it. but if you say no you are the prettiest i know, then she will think you are insulting her intelligence...
walk a fine line my friend....
jealousy is not pretty...
more details would help though..
2007-02-04 01:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well some ppl are immature and will get a friend to come on to you .... then!!! you dont need her. It's hard enough to find someone you can be open too and trust.
But, at the same token ... you are asking this question, so you feel a little guilty about checking other women out, or you wouldnt be waiting for an answer.
If you are starting to look at other women, be sure to check yourself. If I've been in a relationship for a while and things may not be so easy after a while for various reasons, and I start to look at other men then I know (for me) that I need to figure out why my relationship has gone sour or be a woman and tell the man I'm with that I dont love him anymore.
When you are truly in love with a person, you dont SEE other ppl as sex objects (not in my book), you see them, yes, but you dont wonder what it'd be like to 'jump their bones'.
You have to ask yourself ... do I love my girlfriend enough to sit her down and work through these problems (probably lil ones that flustered up into big ones by now) or do I explain to her how I'm feeling about what's going on (this would be probably be a lil difficult for you as MOST men arent good at sharing their feelings).
There are all kinds of ways to try and talk to her about it .. even asking her directy: Why are you testing me with other women (she may get a frill from it) or she may not be testing you at all; it may be your guilty side kicking in.
I hope this helps some.
sharon
2007-02-04 09:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's hard to make sure if a guy or a girl will cheat, but when a girl makes a point of testing the guy well it's time for the guy to kick her to the curb for not trusting him. She should find out by communicating with the guy and know she has to trust him. And if there is a rumor or a friend comes up to the girl and says well I saw or well I heard the girl should find out first to see if it's true not jump to conclusions. That's a good reason some many relationships break up because of rumor and friends who are jealous because they don't have someone or want him.
2007-02-04 09:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, very few women are going to come out and ask you - 'so, do you think she's hot?' So it might be much more subtle. If she is asking about other chicks...yup, you are being tested. Just remember these helpful answers and you will be all set.
a. Oh no sweetie...she is not pretty at all. You are much prettier
b. Of course I wasn't looking at her butt, why would I be doing that?
c. I wasn't flirting with her...I don't flirt.
2007-02-04 09:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the overwhelming obsession of modern society. Sexual promiscuity is so unrelentingly stressed that anyone who does not appear to the highly interested in it is generally considered to be a crank. Social pressure induces people to try to maintain juvenile lustiness long after the sensual high of youth has subsided. Thus millions of people remain emotionally immature all their lives. It is a sick world.
Actual civilization teaches its members to sublimate their sexual desires for higher, spiritual purposes. Modern civilization exploits people’s sexual cravings, makes a business out of it, and sends people to hell by the millions.
Seeing all this, the Vaisnavas are sorry. If only people could understand this simple fact: We are all eternal servants of Krsna. Our sexual desire is simply a perverted reflection of our heart’s deepest longings to love Krsna.
If you want to live in a Vaisnava monastery, then please e-mail me at bhakta.corey@yahoo.com
2007-02-04 09:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Bhakta Corey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't give in to the temptation to flirt with other women and it won't matter whether she is testing you or not.
2007-02-04 09:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by assimja ta obind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She opens her mouth.
2007-02-04 09:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u would never know
2007-02-04 09:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋