Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

my x g/f had a dream last night that I was in. She was at Target in her hometown which is 5 hours away from where I live. She was with her mom and another guy. She said she saw me and I was with my sister and her friends. She ran away and ditched her guy friend to aviod me seeing her with this guy because she thought I would start a fight with him. She then ran into me and I wanted nothing to do with her, I was like ya hey What's Up and that is it. She said just wanted me to leave the store, but my sister and her friends were taking time. She said it was stressing her out, and she just wanted me to leave so I wouldn't see this guy she was with, because I would start a fight with him. What is the interpretation of this? She doesn't get it either? Why would she not want to be seen with this guy? What does it mean when I see her I don't want anything to do with her?

2007-01-31 12:39:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you know what guy to date??

2007-01-31 12:39:10 · 17 answers · asked by Country Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

tom moved into my condo complex 4 weeks ago after his divorce.he was the one to pursue me but was always a perfect gentlemen.spent 5 hrs helping me setup my computer,called to thank me for watching a movie with him ect.well it was just freindly stuff till he tryed to kiss me one night.then i asked him what his gf would say(saw him with a blond often)and he looked at me like a was crazy and said thats not my gf shes just an old friend.well when i found that i thought he would make a perfect bf.well after we had sex things changed.then his whole attitude changed he was "colder" towards me almost rude.the only time he ever called was for me to come down for sex.than i found out this "old friend" was not only his gf but the person he left his wife for.how can a guy seem so interested in u then do something like this?

2007-01-31 12:38:53 · 19 answers · asked by janeymorgen 1 in Singles & Dating

well its late...and hey even i have my soppy moments...;0)

2007-01-31 12:38:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In this case, a friend of mine got jelaous because today is one of my other friend's birthday, and because of that she envied my friend for recieving more gifts than what she recieved for her birthday. Now what can I do to make her convience that it is not right to act like this, especially when you say it to me behind my other friend's back? All ideas or sugestions are appreciated. Thank You.

2007-01-31 12:38:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So basically, there's this girl (who I heard from her friends think I'm cute and i might have a chance with her). The problem is that I've never talked to her before. I think she's very attractive and wanna try and talk to her before my chances with her is gone. How should I approach and comfront her. Sometimes when i'm nervous, i start stutring like crazy so i dont wanna look like a fool in front of her. What should i do?

2007-01-31 12:38:11 · 2 answers · asked by OneAndOnly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 12:37:54 · 14 answers · asked by Pancake 7 in Family

my husband and i are having real problems in our marriage. he continuallly talks to a girl at his work, and is getting sms messages all the time. he drinks all weekend and doesnt want to spend any quality time with me or our baby. just before christmas this came to ahead, and we were sorting it out, now it seems to be getting bad again - he wont see a counsellor, and is blaming me for everything. i am trying hard to save our marriage, but feel that he is wanting to be in his 20s again, with no committment or any responsibilities. he says he is not cheating on me, but i just dont know what to think - i found a condom in his wallet. i feel so alone, have no one to talk to about this. can anyone give me some ideas on what i should do? i am absolutely heartbroken by all this - i love this man, and have been with him for 10 years. I just dont know what to do.

2007-01-31 12:37:09 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you find it more memorable if you attended a wedding in which the bride and groom were facing the guests, instead of the officiant? Would you find it tacky, or interesting?

I am thinking of doing this for my wedding, but I would like other people's opinion on it.

2007-01-31 12:36:45 · 10 answers · asked by Missing 3 in Weddings

2007-01-31 12:36:02 · 64 answers · asked by the sun should burn out tommorow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a freshman and I have a crush on a junior, but we barely talk becoz we're both shy. What should I do?

Also, what should I do with my arms when I try giving him a hug? Do I just lift them up?

Plz help!

2007-01-31 12:35:49 · 9 answers · asked by Julie L 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i want to kiss my boyfriend and we will have to kiss at school since I dont really see him after, my friend is trying to think of an idea for us um. Ya I would rather him kiss me but I think im just gonna kiss him so um what are some ways to kiss your bf in a small school of 70 kids k-12 grades, and we cant get caught since were not allowed to kiss at school.

2007-01-31 12:35:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this girl about 7 months ago, we fell in love she was crazy about me, few things went wrong and we took a break, then I had to leave the states for 2 months we kept in contact and everything, I told her that I love her and she told me shoe loves me too. We are not together but we cant let go of each other, so then when I came back to States I've been to her house. One night she got really drunk and she started making out with me and told me that she loves me and that she always loved me and everything, but i didnt take it serious, so you ask well whats the problem right? well the problem is that some thing just doesnt glue it together, something is wrong, and I tried not talking to her but she keeps talking to me and I dont know what to do!!

2007-01-31 12:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by ♠DistaUkr♠ 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok my friend is gettin married....she got engaged on her 16th b-day....i mean i am happy for her, but i don't think it is the right thing for her.....I never met this guy and she only knew him for only 2 weeks.....i don't think it is right, but i don't know how to tell her....can someone help me????

2007-01-31 12:35:20 · 15 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Weddings

When a couple renew thier vows, what date would your anniversary be. the first date that you got married on, or the second when you renew your vows, or both ?

2007-01-31 12:35:10 · 14 answers · asked by blue moon lady 5 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past month I have been angry at my friend but I dont know why. Every time I am around her I kinda want to get away. When I see her, I knida get worked up. I dont know why I feel this way. There were zero awkward situations between us. One day I just felt that something was really wrong between us and I didnt like it at all. We still talk but, it isnt the same. Have you ever been in this situation?
I thought it would pass, but it has gone on for too long and I feel upset and guilty. But I cant stop being angry and uncomfortable around her.

2007-01-31 12:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok i dont no what to do. My sisters boyfriend kissed me. Me and my sis r 2 years apart. She is 15 im 13. Her boyfriend is 15. And now she found i have no clue how and she is real mad at me. What do i do. The kiss wasnt just any old kiss if u no what i mean. Please Help me!

2007-01-31 12:34:26 · 1 answers · asked by 707 2 in Singles & Dating

Can you tell me all the meanings of dreams please!!!

2007-01-31 12:33:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My Best Friend and I have known eachother since 6th grade and we have been really really close. Recently we have been drifting away and it hurts me soooo much because we used to be like sisters. Now whenever I ask her whats wrong she says "Your not funny enough" and "ur too serious" and "ur always depressed". But I cant get her to understand that I cant be funny when I feel hurt, when she ignores me and makes fun of me and then she expects me to be funny..thats alittle weird. Then she says that she cant be the same bff she used to be, because im always depressed and emotional and im TOO DEEP and that she needs FUN in her life...but the reason I am depressed and emotional is because I hate feeling avoided and ignored and treated bad to...and when we became best friends we promised to listen to eachother in times of need..and at the moment I am having some problems..THATS THE REASON IM DEEEP..and it would be nice if i could talk to her..cuz she used to have my back..now its all drifting

2007-01-31 12:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by raisinbunion 1 in Friends

To make the story short: I have a b/f and for about a week (actually, ever since Friday the 26th), I've been feeling a little empty. I'm not sure about my feelings about him anymore, it's been basically four months. The thing is, when I see him and after I see him - I'm always really happy, and when I talk to him on the phone or after, I'm always really happy. When I think about nice things he's said to me in the past, I smile and become really happy. But we never really get to hang out a lot and other than what I just mentioned, I can't tell whether or not I still really like him as a b/f or just as a person. And to top it off, there's this other guy who basically blatantly stated he likes me (you'll know from my other question titled TWO GUYS) and even though I DON'T like him that way, I feel guilty that he likes me and I was even talking to him AND my b/f at the same time online. The other guy is nice and funny as a friend.

In reference to my b/f, I feel obligated...

2007-01-31 12:32:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the fuss. I mean if I don't remind her how will she even think about it, maybe just confuse it with St Patricts day or something.

2007-01-31 12:31:40 · 16 answers · asked by victorschool1 5 in Singles & Dating

please or e mail me
details will get you a best answer. only girls who care about this ok? please no hate mail.

2007-01-31 12:31:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on myspace and accidently sent a message to this guy i like that said i really really like you. There's no way to get it back. Should I lie and say it was a zap or should I send another message saying please don't tell anyone. I don't think he likes me that way, we're just friends. What do I do????? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-31 12:30:59 · 17 answers · asked by xoluvyaxo 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy likes me and i like him back but im really shy, and he has been doing everything possible to make me like him, he even stalked me and all, but i was too shy to show him my reaction, and now it seems like that hes mad that i didnt react, but i still see him staring at me from afar, does he still like me? im so angry for doin that, i don t know what to do. when i look at him it seems like he likes me still, but he thinks im rejecting him, because everytime i give him eye contact for like 2 seconds(flirt)it seems like he gets SO HAPPY that he might jump around, so what u think?

2007-01-31 12:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 12:30:37 · 5 answers · asked by Money 2 in Friends

so this guy likes me and i like him back but im really shy, and he has been doing everything possible to make me like him, he even stalked me and all, but i was too shy to show him my reaction, and now it seems like that hes mad that i didnt react, but i still see him staring at me from afar, does he still like me? im so angry for doin that, i don t know what to do. when i look at him it seems like he likes me still, but he thinks im rejecting him, because everytime i give him eye contact for like 2 seconds(flirt)it seems like he gets SO HAPPY that he might jump around, so what u think?

2007-01-31 12:30:17 · 22 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in class with this boy! and he is a new student! and i really like him and he stares at me.... but we are both too shy to say hi!
is there anything i can do or any way i should dress or act in order for him to get the confidence to say hi or hopefully just be less shy around me!
thank you so much!

2007-01-31 12:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

my brother has msn and tons of emails but none of his frends have a email.were can i find him a penpal or some1 safe to talk on msn. hes 8

2007-01-31 12:30:05 · 2 answers · asked by Chinky 4 in Family

I want to have sex with my aunt, but she's not my aunt anymore. My uncle after her 5 years ago and now I see her around town every once in awhile. Should I go for it!!!!

2007-01-31 12:29:49 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do i know if he likes me as more than a fried?
ok, see im talkin to this boy. although he has a girlfriend i fell that maybe he likes me for more than a friend. see i talk to him more than he talks to his girl. i try to keep my distance 'cause hes' in a relationship, but he calls all day. what do you think?

2007-01-31 12:27:52 · 3 answers · asked by blexican_cutie 1 in Singles & Dating