Have you ever been angry at someone, but you dont know why?

Question

For the past month I have been angry at my friend but I dont know why. Every time I am around her I kinda want to get away. When I see her, I knida get worked up. I dont know why I feel this way. There were zero awkward situations between us. One day I just felt that something was really wrong between us and I didnt like it at all. We still talk but, it isnt the same. Have you ever been in this situation?
I thought it would pass, but it has gone on for too long and I feel upset and guilty. But I cant stop being angry and uncomfortable around her.

Answer 1

yes ive ben there done that and its not healthy for ya! I figured out that it was just me being stupid and overracting... that in the begining when i got mad i had SOOOO much other stuff on my mind i dont think it mattered who looked at me next i was going to be mad at them....and i took it too far and finally one day i realized it (so its a good thing you realized it! thas the first step in getting over it) but you just need to talk to'em and be like hey im sry for gettin flustered all the time i've just had a lot on my mind and didnt mean to take some of it out on you. Just try to make up and laugh about it...laughing always makes everyone feel more comfortable within themselves and it can get yall back to how you were!!!

goodluck!

Answer 2

The same thing happened to me about two years ago.A good friend of mine had started to irritate me and annoy me for no apparent reason.I felt really bad and guilty that I harbored all this anger and frustration towards her but I couldn't help the way I felt towards her either.One day during science class we we're partnered up on a project and everything she did as a contribution to the project felt like she just kept bringing us down going no where.The next day I blew up in her face in front of everybody in the class.I told her about how I really felt about her and I made not only her but myself also feel horrible doing so. All our friends thought it would blow over after a while but it didn't. For the next year and a half I kept my distance and found new friends to replace her and it worked well for a while but soon I felt the old guilt from long ago resurface and after a while I wanted my old friendship back.I didn't know how to get my friend back so I decided an apology would be best.The only thing was my current friends told me that she was terrified of me and thought that I would hurt her again or worse publicly humilliate her all over again.It had taken me about a month to gain her trust and become friends with her again.Today we are still currently good friends except the only thing I would have done differently would be to not wait as long as I had to mend ways with my friend.
I guess the only thing I needed from my friend was a small breather and some space and time away from her,okay about a year and a half breather but thats besides the point,the point is maybe you only need some space and time away from your friend unless you want to grow apart and maybe lose your current friend for good.

Answer 3

Yeah i sometimes get like that around a friend but right when i start feeling like that i make an effort to stop feeling that way about her and try to talk to her. The only thing u can do i make an effort to not feel this way around her but u really have to try.

Answer 4

Thats kind of what happened between me and my friend. What happened was that we were close but over time she started to annoy me with what she said and how she acted and i started to be kind of b*tchy to her.
I think you should just think about what has been happening between you and her for the past few months and try to decide why you are so upset. Try to keep things normal between you two though.
You may just need some time apart so hang out a little less and think it over. Good luck!

Answer 5

I can see how that can happen. I used to have a friend who got mad at me and stopped talking to me, and I have no clue why. I didnt do anything wrong as far as I know. I guess it just happens. Maybe something about her irritates you and you just havent figured out what it is yet.

Answer 6

sounds like you might be attracted to her.I had a friend in college ok she was a she and I was a he grant you ..but we had conflict after conflict and hated each other until we found out it wasnt hate..we were actually attracted to each other and was repressed sexual feelings between us,but what you are describing even though its another female ,I think ,it maybe be sexual repression ..just a thought...Sorry about that it definitely sounds like the very same situtation i see you are a guy and its a girl..

Answer 7

i have been to this kind of situation. i hate her but no reason pops out my head. I avoided her and she feels it. i didn't feel any guilt at all. Shes not my best friend nor a close one. its just that i don't wanna be with her. God knows...