My Best Friend and I have known eachother since 6th grade and we have been really really close. Recently we have been drifting away and it hurts me soooo much because we used to be like sisters. Now whenever I ask her whats wrong she says "Your not funny enough" and "ur too serious" and "ur always depressed". But I cant get her to understand that I cant be funny when I feel hurt, when she ignores me and makes fun of me and then she expects me to be funny..thats alittle weird. Then she says that she cant be the same bff she used to be, because im always depressed and emotional and im TOO DEEP and that she needs FUN in her life...but the reason I am depressed and emotional is because I hate feeling avoided and ignored and treated bad to...and when we became best friends we promised to listen to eachother in times of need..and at the moment I am having some problems..THATS THE REASON IM DEEEP..and it would be nice if i could talk to her..cuz she used to have my back..now its all drifting
2007-01-31 12:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by raisinbunion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
truth is if yo best friend can't appreciate who you are and how you change then you may need to let her go
I used to feel the same way and i kno it hurts
Sometimes you just have to let go and walk alone
Somebody better will come your way
2007-01-31 13:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by courtney n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that your friend knows that "Misery Loves Company"! She is your friend, but doesn't want to relate you to always being sad and down. She would much rather talk about music, movies or boys and you are just not into that OR it may be the problem. Let her know that you miss her and would appreciate her opinion on a couple of topics and then return to making a date at the Mall and leaving the issues behind, at least when you're around her.
2007-01-31 12:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by D T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want this girl as your best friend if she can't even be there for you when you really need her? As hard as it may be, you're gonna have to let her go her own way and do what she wants to do. Sorry, but friends do drift apart, even BEST FRIENDS. I've lost a best friend because we drifted apart and that was hard but I had another friend who was there for me so much more. That girl is now my best friend. Although we are going through some issues at the moment.
Anyway.
Find one of your other friends to talk to... one you trust and isn't really friends with your best friend.
Hope you feel better.
2007-01-31 13:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful♥Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is looking for fun but right now YOU are depressed and sad. You should try to talk to her and tell her everything you are feeling. If she was a true friend, she would stick with you no matter how sad you are! :)
2007-01-31 12:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try like getting over depression if u r depressed. then split it up. b fun 4 her sumtimes but have her b serious 4 u when u need it. try and make it work, but it might b time 2 move on.
2007-01-31 12:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by GDCBGB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude talk 2 her if she doesnt care pray 2 God and hav faith that ull b friends agian i wood hang out with som1 who will lisen 2 u im sry that ur having friend problems well all u really can do pray and if shes ur real friend then she woodnt make fun of u and she wood lisen God bless
2007-01-31 12:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by ashley h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it
2007-01-31 12:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it, it will get better
2007-01-31 12:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by rudyspuddin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋