I was on myspace and accidently sent a message to this guy i like that said i really really like you. There's no way to get it back. Should I lie and say it was a zap or should I send another message saying please don't tell anyone. I don't think he likes me that way, we're just friends. What do I do????? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-31 12:30:59 · 17 answers · asked by xoluvyaxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lying is not the way to go. Just be honest, never know he could like you.
2007-01-31 12:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by kakie829 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you write it in the first place?
Well you did what you did. There's no turning back...
I guess, if I were you and isn't ready to admit feelings (who is?), I would just deny it and say that you were testing out the whole MySpace message system, and you just so happened to click his name to test it out, and the reason you wrote "I really like you" was because you were listening to a song that contained those lyrics so you typed them down without thought...
But, if you're not into lying, just go for the truth. At least, he'll tell you if he likes you or not so you won't have to waste your time wondering if his feelings are mutual..
G'luck. :-)
2007-01-31 20:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Livia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look people can c want u sent him,so, just tell him that it was an accident and u accidently sent him that, or u can be honest with him and say "look I like u, and I was wondering if u like me too" I mean u never know unless u ask, I'm I right or I'm I right?
2007-01-31 20:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Shay. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pfft. What has been sent as been sent. Be slick. Say "yeah I did. whatcha gonna do about it?" Ya know like any slick guy would. Shz. Claim your feeling and be a little more danm proud of it.
That way if he refuse you. You wouldn't be hurt by it. At least you took a shot and found out the answer yourself. Instead of pondering all your life if you SHOULD have or SHOULDN'T have.
2007-01-31 20:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by debah v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know. If he is totally appaled by it make up a story but don't jump to any conclusions right now. If he feels the same way you could end up together and that would be a lot better then letting him think you like him and then rip;ping up any feelings he might have had for you!
2007-01-31 20:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well quick tip when u send an actuall messege like that then u should just tell him how u really feel ok u already told him so u just got urself into a hole to get out u just gotta tell him and hoping he feels the same way he will begin to get that thought in his head and he will begin thinking more and more about u so tell him and see what happens ok
good luck to u
2007-01-31 20:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it just said "I really, really, like you." Then you can play it off and send another message saying this:
"...and I would really, really like it if you let me borrow your [possibly CD?] I promise I'll give it right back."
Just play it off in a friendly way, even something like:
"...and I really, really want a free gift certificate to [does he work anywhere?] You'd be the coolest person ever if you did!"
Hope that helps.
2007-01-31 20:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ride it out.
Don't stress over it.
Even if your the ugliest girl in town and your just friends he'll still be flattered and go tell everyone.
If your not the ugliest girl in town then he'll still be flattered and go tell everyone.
Eventually it will all die out.
This will be a good way for you to learn to just ride out bad things. Good learning lesson.
2007-01-31 20:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by gnuck gnuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it was a accident or just say u lil sis did it or u can confess say it wuzz u probably he likes u 2 never know
2007-01-31 20:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by crazychikka:] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you just leave and if he doesnt like you or doesnt answer back than find a guy that really love you for who you are.
2007-01-31 20:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋