so this guy likes me and i like him back but im really shy, and he has been doing everything possible to make me like him, he even stalked me and all, but i was too shy to show him my reaction, and now it seems like that hes mad that i didnt react, but i still see him staring at me from afar, does he still like me? im so angry for doin that, i don t know what to do. when i look at him it seems like he likes me still, but he thinks im rejecting him, because everytime i give him eye contact for like 2 seconds(flirt)it seems like he gets SO HAPPY that he might jump around, so what u think?
2007-01-31 12:30:17 · 22 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he sounds damn dangerous
2007-01-31 12:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bob Danvers-Walker 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
woahhh you may not want a stalker for a boyfriend, but if you like the guy just ask him to hang out one day and take things from there. im shy too, but the only way to get what you want is to go for it.
and valentine's day is coming up...maybe you could make him a card or something to show how you feel about him.
2007-01-31 20:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by ck=) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are certain that it isn't a dangerous situation. Try writing him a letter. I found that easier for me when I was younger. I am also very shy like yourself and I found that in my own comfort that I could write my feelings and thougths clearly in my own space, and then share with the person afterwards. So maybe you can try that, if you know its a good situation to get involved in. Goodluck!
2007-01-31 20:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire. This guy has ISSUES.
Do a background search on him and tell the police that he's a stalker. Would you want him to take his frustration out on someone else just because he wasn't able to 'have' you???
This is the behaviour of a rapist!!!! he's likely to be practising on you!
2007-01-31 22:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Knuckledragger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure I like the stalking part. Maybe it would be OK to shy away from this guy.
2007-01-31 20:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Thoroughbred 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stalking you? What do you mean? If you mean he's just showing interest, fine - but don't get in a creepy relationship! Just be yourself and take things slow. You don't have to fall in love just to talk to a guy!
2007-01-31 21:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by perplexed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say you wanted to be with him.
Apart from that, you have to understand that the male of the species are not normally very patient and can be very fickle.
If you want it to go somewhere then start talking to him. As I said, this sort of flirtation only lasts so long. He'll get tired of chasing.
2007-01-31 20:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by JeffE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of u need to stop being so shy bc if u no a guy likes u for sure..n ur rejecting him (u say ur shy but he takes it as rejection) then hes jus guna feel stupid n end up pretending he doesnt notice u at al....have a friend help u or talk to one of his friends and have them help you....practice in the mirror or something..lol like talking to him...:-P
at least he likes u and u like him baq...thats gold
2007-01-31 20:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he still likes you. He probably wasn't mad, just hurt...but guys have too much pride to show it. If you like him, let him know. Don't make the same mistake twice.
2007-01-31 20:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by coldasyou213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably still likes you. MAKE A MOVE ALREADY!!! If you ignored him before he will not try again so the only way to get that guy out of his shell is to ask him yourself!!!
2007-01-31 20:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you just need to tell him how you feel, I know easier said than done.. but you will feel better after, and if he really does like you then he won't think that you are a freak or anything like that.. just do what you think is right...
2007-01-31 20:34:54 · answer #11 · answered by Ally K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋